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Could your inceldom have been prevented?

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Could you have turned out different?

If you had different parenting, if some events didn't happen, if some events DID happen?
Maybe if society or the dating market were structured in a different way?
Maybe if some technology didn't exist or wasn't available to everyone?

Could you - with your face, height, everything - have ascended if the world was different?
What would that world be like?
 
I think I'd still be incel anyway because I am not enough NT and too "weak"
 
Yes If my mother had swallowed me
 
No
As soon as I left the womb It was over
 
No. My parents are short asf and both ugly. And they got me after 40+ so it was determined for me to be some kind of non-NT freak
 
remove sleep apnea and probably everything would be different, but it wouldn't be enough
truth was every environment i was in was just hateful, i don't know why but it was, home, school and the neighborhood, i feel like very few people were true friends even excluding me from the equation
 
moving house and changing schools was also very destructive, but it depends on how much trust you have in friends getting you girls (like i said most young people were just assholes even with each other)
 
Could you have turned out different?

If you had different parenting, if some events didn't happen, if some events DID happen?
Maybe if society or the dating market were structured in a different way?
Maybe if some technology didn't exist or wasn't available to everyone?

Could you - with your face, height, everything - have ascended if the world was different?
What would that world be like?
Maybe braces or some orthopedic treatment as a toddler
Socially, I was like this since young
 
the only way my inceldom couldve been prevented is me never being born in the first place
 
Only if a cure for autism was discovered.
 
Half brother raised by foster family has a wife and kids. And i look better than him. With us gypsies, family does 80% of work when youre looking for a wife. And my family was too busy abusing me mentally to give a fuck for finding me a wife.
 
Half brother raised by foster family has a wife and kids. And i look better than him. With us gypsies, family does 80% of work when youre looking for a wife. And my family was too busy abusing me mentally to give a fuck for finding me a wife.
Brutal. I'm sorry bro.
 
Brutal. I'm sorry bro.
Thanks man. For most of us parents did nothing good, only thing they gave us is lifelong mental problems.
 
always remember - foids created incels and could solve the problem overnight if they wanted
 
Thanks man. For most of us parents did nothing good, only thing they gave us is lifelong mental problems.
Ain't that the truth.
 
:lul:

I think I might've not been incel 40-50 years ago but it's difficult to say.

That’s probably true. My dad was able to get married in the 70’s, since she died 15 years ago my dad is just as much of an incel as me.
 
Yes, if I was fed raw meat and raw milk as a child instead of fucking cereal, pasta and bread I wouldn't have a fucked up jaw and chin. I know for a fact that it's not genetic because both of my parents aren't recessed.
 
Yes, if I was fed raw meat and raw milk as a child instead of fucking cereal, pasta and bread I wouldn't have a fucked up jaw and chin. I know for a fact that it's not genetic because both of my parents aren't recessed.
i agree my parents fed me vegetarian food which definitely didnt help, though i doubt the difference between cooked and raw would be anything
 
Only if i had different parents, then maybe i wouldn’t of been an incel
 
Could you have turned out different?

If you had different parenting, if some events didn't happen, if some events DID happen?
Maybe if society or the dating market were structured in a different way?
Maybe if some technology didn't exist or wasn't available to everyone?

Could you - with your face, height, everything - have ascended if the world was different?
What would that world be like?
Maybe if my parents sportmaxxed me from an early age and didnt introduce me to nerd topics such as dinosaurs and history
Also if they didnt make me nerdmaxx +heightmaxxed me
Also if I remained in the commie blocks instead of moving to a village near the town I woulve been way more nt
 
Could you have turned out different?

If you had different parenting, if some events didn't happen, if some events DID happen?
Maybe if society or the dating market were structured in a different way?
Maybe if some technology didn't exist or wasn't available to everyone?

Could you - with your face, height, everything - have ascended if the world was different?
What would that world be like?
By better nutrition and genetics yes
 
Possibly if I had been diagnosed with Autism at a very young age. Maybe I would have had helpful therapies, etc but I doubt it as I would still have been put into the lions den of school. You only go to disability schools here if you are extremely autistic, like if you can't function without a carer.

Physically the biggest reason I am Incel is my oversized skull, it means I have a big round wide moon face. I've never actually met anyone with a skull the size of mine. It belongs in a museum after I die.
 
I honestly cannot see a moment where i could've ascended
 
only if my parents had better genetics :feelsclown:
 
This might make make me a fakecel but yes. If I wasn't brutalised as a kid I believe I could have developed enough social skills or at least social circles to pass by. Even though I had predispositions to turn out this way they 10x-ed with my kind of history.
 
if my parents didnt procreate with each other, absolutely. The biggest lottery i ever lost was the sperm race lol
 
If i could live like Peter North my inceldom would have been prevented.
 
If i had a normal sized dick, yeah. Maybe.
 
Thanks man. For most of us parents did nothing good, only thing they gave us is lifelong mental problems.
100%

Parents will destroy your life.
The reason most are here is primary because of their wrongdoings against us. They rejected you first, the first heartbreak.
 
100%

Parents will destroy your life.
The reason most are here is primary because of their wrongdoings against us. They rejected you first, the first heartbreak.
many NDcels here were probably fuqqed over by their parents both physically and mentally from neglect or otherwise
bad things come in bundles.
 
I saw a social media post of a foid married with a short king, the caption (as cruel as you can epect from a foid) said that they met when young and she expected him to grow more... but he didn't. But it was too late as they were already in love, so they stayed together, even though she wouldn't have given him a chance had they met later in life.
So, maybe, if someone had helped me more with my social retardation as a teen, maybe I would have had some chances through fakepotentialmaxxing. When you are young and lack some quality, foids might rarely still get into you and fill your gaps fantasizing about your "potential".
But even then, when my looks weren't holding me back as much, I was extremely ND and stupid. I don't know what it would have taken to bring some sense in my head, and I'm not sure it would have been enough.
 
Could you have turned out different?

If you had different parenting, if some events didn't happen, if some events DID happen?
Yes. If I hadn’t had to go through childhood trauma, and if I’d had parents who were less like monkeys and had at least a minimal sense of how their kids were doing. I'll forever hate them.
 
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Yes, it could have been prevented with abortion
 
Maybe in another era. But I can't change when and where I was born, so it's no use getting too hung up on it.
 
Yes

If only my parents cared about me, to get me jaws surgery to fix my underbite and advance my maxilla. They said my underbite was normal JFL

If they had allowed me to change school when i was in highschool. I could've redo my whole highschool career, and started over as a freshman, when i was a sophomore

And i wanted a motorbike when i was a teen, i would've been able to sociallifemax and statusmax . Just like other teens, they all had bikes

My puberty came in late, and i was fed 7-11 food for like 2 months and i got sick JFL

My parents made me an incel, tbh
 
Maybe if I had braces to correct my overbite and crooked teeth at 10 and wasn't fed goyslop since I was born I could have gotten better craniofacial growth. Just maybe :feelshmm:
 
I came out the womb all fucked up, I should’ve been aborted. I had a shit ton of complications when I was born. It never began for me.
 
I came out the womb all fucked up, I should’ve been aborted. I had a shit ton of complications when I was born. It never began for me.
Same here. I am a product of a failed, informal attempt at an abortion followed by a change of heart.

I was born with complications and had to remain at the hospital for quite long after my birth. I should have just been allowed to die in peace vs causing these agonizing, drawn-out decades of abject misery.
 
Maybe if I had braces to correct my overbite and crooked teeth at 10 and wasn't fed goyslop since I was born I could have gotten better craniofacial growth. Just maybe :feelshmm:
this is the case for me as well.

It's not so much that 'if 1000 things were different' but if I got more sleep when I was young, had access to better food and had braces to correct my subhuman craniofacial features, I may have at least been a LTN. That's the most brutal part; there was hope beyond an out of reach hypothetical, but it faded away.
 

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