Loving this, trusting that blah blah. Even if you were to have a girlfriend that would somehow accept you as you are, and one that loves you dearly, could you tolerate her having a huge social circle? I do accept the fact that every girl has a friend, this is undisputed and I have seen and observed many such cases. Even If they claim to be lonely, that's only because they are filtering and catering their appearance for a mate that would treat them as "one in the million". If you just prude harder when questioning into her background, you would suddenly find out she has a girl best friend, or a group of girls she hangs out with. But whether or not, is this manageable from your position as a man who has been suppressed and ostracized socially due to your circumstances, getting absolutely cucked in terms of social life, is the question.
Let's take an example, of an pretty active and social woman. She has 5 or 6 close friends she speaks to all the time, and pretty sizeable amount of friends she knows and speaks to occasionally, very close with her family and relative and talkative with the co-workers in her place of work. Basically a social butterfly which is pretty standard. Could you somehow come into terms that'd you'd be coming across that circle and having to engage with them many times. Your girlfriend could accept you, but its a stretch if her circle could.
I for most of my life, have had absolutely zero experience with friends or hanging out with people just for the fun of it, simply because either the opportunity was never presented to me, or if there were a formal event like a wedding attendance, I'd naturally back away if I had the option to. Early childhood forced isolation by my stupid cunt of a father, made me just back out of everything especially in a crucial formative period. and I think I've grown completely bitter against anyone with friends, as I'd always be the one left out and forgotten. Any social interaction I had online, adds completely nothing to my resume. So all in all, the only close individual I'd have in this scenario is my hypothetical girlfriend who would have many normgroid friends I'd despise.
However, this wouldn't work out, I'd have to take medication just to survive such encounters and manage my stress. Her circle would distance themselves from me, acknowledging that as a neurodivergent male with no social experience and physical defect, I am substandard in their eyes. They would eventually try to get her ear as to distance her from me, as they wouldn't accept that a person in their circle, is being non conformative to their ideals. Is the dream relationship? I doubt it.
Let's take an example, of an pretty active and social woman. She has 5 or 6 close friends she speaks to all the time, and pretty sizeable amount of friends she knows and speaks to occasionally, very close with her family and relative and talkative with the co-workers in her place of work. Basically a social butterfly which is pretty standard. Could you somehow come into terms that'd you'd be coming across that circle and having to engage with them many times. Your girlfriend could accept you, but its a stretch if her circle could.
I for most of my life, have had absolutely zero experience with friends or hanging out with people just for the fun of it, simply because either the opportunity was never presented to me, or if there were a formal event like a wedding attendance, I'd naturally back away if I had the option to. Early childhood forced isolation by my stupid cunt of a father, made me just back out of everything especially in a crucial formative period. and I think I've grown completely bitter against anyone with friends, as I'd always be the one left out and forgotten. Any social interaction I had online, adds completely nothing to my resume. So all in all, the only close individual I'd have in this scenario is my hypothetical girlfriend who would have many normgroid friends I'd despise.
However, this wouldn't work out, I'd have to take medication just to survive such encounters and manage my stress. Her circle would distance themselves from me, acknowledging that as a neurodivergent male with no social experience and physical defect, I am substandard in their eyes. They would eventually try to get her ear as to distance her from me, as they wouldn't accept that a person in their circle, is being non conformative to their ideals. Is the dream relationship? I doubt it.
