Like people saying they can’t ascend because they are high inhib, or non nt, or have bad social skills or anxiety. So what is it?
I'm not even considered betabux material by foids because I'm autistic, ADD, depressed, avoidant, and have PTSD (daily flashbacks, and frequent dissociation). All my social skills were (professionally) measured to be in the bottom 10% of mankind, some skills like assertiveness are in the bottom 2%. Foids are extremely disgusted by me, my manneirisms, my weird walk, my wandering gaze, my lack of eye contact, the way I talk, my robotic voice, my choice of words, my long irregular pauses between words etc. They don't even reply "good morning" when I speak.
There is no such thing as "work in your personality". A
personality is by definition is a set of
stable behavioral characteristics. Personalities don't change much through a person's life -- and even so, only very slightly, slowly, and with aging. Personality is also genetically determined.
That said,
I see ugly and short men of all races with girlfriends, wives, children
every single time I leave the house. They all seem to be NT, however.