I strongly hold the belief that it is your genes that shape- although not fully control- your destiny and life.
Hypergamy, LMS (looks money status), and all these other common phenomenons related to attraction are simply a result of women (and men!) trying to achieve the best genetic combination of children. A lot of people on this forum get enraged by these phenomenons, because they are thought of "unfair", but it is simply an evolutionary mechanism to produce the best children possible.
Alpha well-genetically-endowned men will be sought after by women, and they like lions will have their pick from any women they wish. If you are incredibly fortunate, you will be a child of a genetically supreme male. You'll inherit his strong hairline, broad shoulders, large musculature, strong jaw, handsome features, height, large hands wrists and feet, deep voice and intelligence. Most important of all, you will inherit his high sex drive, a trademark of good genes - your high sex drive will push you towards women and producing children, something that nature favors.
For these lucky young men and women, life always turns out alright. They could grow up in absolutely broken homes, they could fail out of college, they could get a DUI, they could be a stoner in their youth, and yet, at the end of the day, all works out. The reason for this is genetically strong human has nothing to fear: he doesn't worry about what people think of his receding hairline, since he doesn't have one, courtesy of his father. She doesn't worry what people think of her small breasts or fat waist, since she has a natural hourglass figure and large breasts, courtesy of her mother.
For these lucky few, life is a wild, wonderful adventure. They fully enjoy high school, college, and even life beyond, and when time comes to settle down, have children and build their careers, they are content. They have had their share of tight pussy and cool friends.
\Compare this closely to a the life of a genetically inferior male or female. When a genetically inferior man or woman conceives a child, the child is doomed to a poor life quality from the start. You'll inherit your early male pattern baldness, your low testosterone, your narrow shoulders, your ugly features, your acne-scared skin, your tiny muscles, your small feminine wrists and hands. A genetically inferior female is stricken by other maladies such as genetic obesity, small breasts, low estrogen, and a general homely and ugly appearance.
The most important trait that a genetically inferior human has is a low sex drive. Have you ever notice how alpha males and females tend to have high sex drives, and actually DESIRE at a sexual level the opposite sex? Actually WANT to have sex with them, instead of merely fulfilling their sexual release through masturbation and internet pornography? Now notice a beta male and female. They don't actually possess a sex drive, and merely engage in sex due to societal pressure. They don't actually want to have sex with the opposite gender any more than masturbation. Simply put, libido is very low.
Perhaps the most important feature of an genetic alpha male/female is the ability to "trust yourself". They have a deep inner confidence, because they have no excuse to fail - they don't have a crutch to rely on like beta males ("if only my hairline wasn't such ****, if only I wasn't so skinny, why oh why do I have acne"). This frees a genetic human, since it occurs to them "Why am I avoiding this? Theres no reason I can't attract people of the opposite sex or be successful, I'm a strong, handsome tall man with a great hairline, I have all the TOOLS FOR SUCCESS". Of course this is subconcious, but it affects them all the same.
With this thought in mind, take a look at the difference of quality of life between a genetic inferior human and superior one (I'll use men since most posters here are male and can relate). A genetically well-endowed male will have many friends growing up, have his parents fawning over him, excel in sports, and have a great, complete high school experience full of girls, sports, and drugs. He will most likely attend a "cool" college, where he will have one of the greatest times of his life, the fabled "college experience", full of joining the best fraternities on campus, going to bars each weekend, and having sex with beautiful college girls almost every day, while raging hard on the weekends with blow, alcohol and weed. After college, he'll fight his way up the corporate ladder to some succesful position, overcoming his earlier disadvantage of going to a bad (but cool) college because simply put people naturally respect genetically prime humans and want to be around them/see them succeed. He will marry a pretty woman who also has genes, a subconcious evolutionary decision. His children will resemble him and her, and likely be popular, good-looking, athletic and succesful. They will actually love their parents, because how could they hate someone who allowed them to win the genetic lottery? Once again, their parents gave them all the tools needed for success and happiness - a set of good genes.
A genetically inferior male? He will grow up skinny and small, weak and pasty and ugly. He will not have many friends, and will spend the majority of his childhood playing video games with his other nerdy, genetically inferior friends. He will not have sex with girls in high school, although due to his low sex drive he won't really feel the need to. He will most likely attend a small, smart college where the kids don't party and will miss out on his "college experience", something that he will regret for his entire life. He will miss out on the chance to party, have copious amounts of sex, and in general enjoy the one time in his life with no responsibilities. He will marry a plain girl who doesn't possess the best of genes, but society's "everyone gets married" pressure will get the best of him. His children will likely resemble him - ugly, weak, beta, and plagued with genetic problems like fatness, baldness, and asthma. They will not be popular, always just a "friend" and never a "lover". They will secretly hate their father and mother for leaving them this awful genetic curse, this doom from the day they were born that is as intrinsic to them as their own souls - the DNA within their cells.
How tragic it is to see a genetic inferior male attempt to "beat" the curse of bad genes. You'll see them in the gym, attempting to lift heavy weights in order to improve their tiny musculature, doing wrists curls to increase the size of their pathetic 6 inch wrists. They'll take hairloss drugs to slow down piebalding, which will occur in their late teens/early 20s, far earlier than their "normal" alpha male counterparts who even those predisposed to balding will maintain NW1 hairlines until 35-40. They'll wear glasses for their myopia, and even take Melanotan to tan their pale, fast-wrinkling skin. What an atrocity it is for a genetically inferior male to disguise his weak genes through plastic surgery - imagine the look of horror on his wife when she realizes her children are genetically inferior from her husbands weak disguised genetic code.
We are born the same and die the same, but what we do in between is vastly different and determined by the very STRUCTURE of us- our DNA. In closing, do you have good genes? You should prepare yourself for a life of fun, sex, and success. If you fall, don't worry, you have no excuse to fail and all the tools for success, simply pick yourself up and "work harder". Do you have bad genes? You should prepare yourself for a life of struggle, anguish, frustration, and in general failure. Everything will not "work out" for you without extreme effort, and any girl you happen to have sex with will be a fluke rather than raw sexual attraction.
You cannot change this. Your DNA is ironclad, locked within your cells in a space so tiny that even the most powerful microinjectors cannot pry apart the DNA strands. Your life, your being, the very "you" is shaped from the day you were born.
And the curtain falls and the stage goes dark. Such, gentlemen, is life. It is not fair, it is not right. It simply is what is.
@coppernicus @Zettacel
I also firmly believe that it is your qualities that shape-despite the fact that not completely control-your fate and life.
Hypergamy, LMS (looks cash status), and all these other basic wonders identified with fascination are just an aftereffect of ladies (and men!) attempting to accomplish the best hereditary blend of youngsters. Many individuals on this gathering get infuriated by these marvels, since they are thought of "unreasonable", however it is just a transformative component to deliver the most ideal kids.
Alpha well-hereditarily endowned men will be looked for after by ladies, and they like lions will have their pick from any ladies they wish. On the off chance that you are unimaginably lucky, you will be an offspring of a hereditarily incomparable male. You'll acquire his solid hairline, expansive shoulders, enormous musculature, solid jaw, attractive highlights, tallness, huge hands wrists and feet, profound voice and insight. Generally significant of all, you will acquire his high sex drive, a trademark of good qualities - your high sex drive will push you towards ladies and creating youngsters, something that nature favors.
For these fortunate youngsters and ladies, life consistently ends up being okay. They could experience childhood in totally broken homes, they could flop out of school, they could get a DUI, they could be a stoner in their childhood, but then, by the day's end, all works out. The purpose behind this is hereditarily solid human has nothing to fear: he doesn't stress over what individuals think about his subsiding hairline, since he doesn't have one, graciousness of his dad. She doesn't stress what individuals think about her little bosoms or fat abdomen, since she has a characteristic hourglass figure and enormous bosoms, politeness of her mom.
For these fortunate few, life is a wild, awesome experience. They completely appreciate secondary school, school, and even life past, and when opportunity arrives to settle down, have youngsters and manufacture their professions, they are content. They have had a lot of tight pussy and cool companions.
\Compare this near a the life of a hereditarily second rate male or female. At the point when a hereditarily sub-par man or lady imagines a youngster, the kid is bound to a poor life quality from the beginning. You'll acquire your initial male example hair loss, your low testosterone, your limited shoulders, your terrible highlights, your skin inflammation terrified skin, your little muscles, your little ladylike wrists and hands. A hereditarily mediocre female is blasted by different diseases, for example, hereditary heftiness, little bosoms, low estrogen, and a general unattractive and terrible appearance.
The most significant attribute that a hereditarily second rate human has is a low sex drive. Have you ever notice how alpha guys and females will in general have high sex drives, and really DESIRE at a sexual level the other gender? In reality WANT to engage in sexual relations with them, rather than only satisfying their sexual discharge through masturbation and web sex entertainment? Presently notice a beta male and female. They don't really have a sex drive, and simply participate in sex because of cultural weight. They would prefer really not to engage in sexual relations with the contrary sex anything else than masturbation. Basically, charisma is extremely low.
Maybe the most significant component of a hereditary alpha male/female is simply the capacity to "trust". They have a profound internal certainty, since they have no reason to fall flat - they don't have a brace to depend on like beta guys ("if just my hairline wasn't such ****, if just I wasn't so thin, why gracious for what reason do I have skin inflammation"). This liberates a hereditary human, since it happens to them "For what reason am I maintaining a strategic distance from this? Theres no explanation I can't pull in individuals of the other gender or be effective, I'm a solid, attractive tall man with an incredible hairline, I have all the TOOLS FOR SUCCESS". Obviously this is subconcious, however it influences them no different.
In view of this idea, investigate the distinction of personal satisfaction between a hereditary sub-par human and prevalent one (I'll use men since most banners here are male and can relate). A hereditarily blessed by the gods male will have numerous companions growing up, have his folks groveling over him, exceed expectations in sports, and have an incredible, complete secondary school experience loaded with young ladies, sports, and medications. He will doubtlessly go to a "cool" school, where he will have perhaps the best a great time, the mythical "school understanding", loaded with joining the best cliques nearby, going to bars each end of the week, and engaging in sexual relations with excellent school young ladies consistently, while seething hard on the ends of the week with blow, liquor and weed. After school, he'll battle his way up the company pecking order to some succesful position, conquering his prior detriment of setting off to an awful (however cool) school on the grounds that just put individuals normally regard hereditarily prime people and need to associate with them/see them succeed. He will wed a pretty lady who additionally has qualities, a subconcious transformative choice. His youngsters will take after him and her, and likely be well known, attractive, athletic and succesful. They will really cherish their folks, since how might they loathe somebody who permitted them to win the hereditary lottery? By and by, their folks gave them all the devices required for progress and bliss - a lot of good qualities.
A hereditarily sub-par male? He will grow up thin and little, feeble and pale and revolting. He won't have numerous companions, and will spend most of his youth playing computer games with his other geeky, hereditarily second rate companions. He won't engage in sexual relations with young ladies in secondary school, albeit because of his low sex drive he won't generally want to. He will in all probability go to a little, keen school where the children don't party and will pass up his "school understanding", something that he will lament for as long as he can remember. He will pass up the opportunity to party, have extensive measures of sex, and when all is said in done appreciate the one time in his existence without any duties. He will wed a plain young lady who doesn't have the best of qualities, however society's "everybody gets hitched" weight will bamboozle him. His youngsters will probably look like him - terrible, frail, beta, and tormented with hereditary issues like largeness, hair sparseness, and asthma. They won't be well known, in every case only a "companion" and never a "darling". They will subtly despise their dad and mom for leaving them this horrendous hereditary revile, this fate from the day they were brought into the world that is as natural for them as their own spirits - the DNA inside their cells.
That it is so awful to see a hereditary substandard male endeavor to "beat" the scourge of awful qualities. You'll see them in the exercise center, endeavoring to lift overwhelming loads so as to improve their small musculature, doing wrists twists to expand the size of their wretched 6 inch wrists. They'll bring hairloss medications to back off piebalding, which will happen in their late adolescents/mid 20s, far sooner than their "ordinary" alpha male partners who even those inclined to thinning up top will keep up NW1 hairlines until 35-40. They'll wear glasses for their nearsightedness, and even take Melanotan to tan their pale, quick wrinkling skin. What an abomination it is for a hereditarily mediocre male to camouflage his frail qualities through plastic medical procedure - envision the appearance of awfulness on his significant other when she understands her kids are hereditarily substandard from her spouses feeble masked hereditary code.
We are brought into the world the equivalent and bite the dust the equivalent, yet what we do in the middle of is endlessly unique and dictated by the very STRUCTURE of us-our DNA. All things being equal, do you have great qualities? You ought to set yourself up for an existence of fun, sex, and achievement. On the off chance that you fall, don't stress, you have no reason to fizzle and all the devices for progress, essentially get yourself and "work harder". Do you have terrible qualities? You ought to set yourself up for an existence of battle, anguish, disappointment, and when all is said in done disappointment. Everything won't "work out" for you without outrageous exertion, and any young lady you happen to engage in sexual relations with will be an accident as opposed to crude sexual fascination.
You can't change this. Your DNA is ironclad, secured inside your cells a space so small that even the most impressive microinjectors can't pry separated the DNA strands. Your life, your being, the very "you" is molded from the day you were conceived.
Furthermore, the drapery falls and the stage goes dim. Such, refined men, is life. It isn't reasonable, it isn't right. It essentially is what is.
