Coping Methods

[Konev13]

Hey! This is my first post so I apologize if I mess up posting locations or standard courtesies.

How do you guys cope? Since being an incel is one of the most significant pains in most of our lives, coping is necessary. What coping methods do you use and to what effect do they have? I personally have studied stoicism over the past two years, and it has tremendously helped my incel pain. It doesn't completely numb the pain, but it helps understand that being an incel is not inherently a bad thing.

 

[Dekim]

Theres like 1000 threads about this.

 

[iiiTeMpeR]

depends, I've gotten used to accepting that am ugly facially, to cope I study, watch movies do all the regular stuff, and browse here tbh. it's hard at first to swallow the blackpill and you want to believe women care about the inside, but months of experiments + my own experiences has brought me here. incels who cope with being ugly usually post on /r/inceltears

 

[grayjedi90]

Hey! This is my first post so I apologize if I mess up posting locations or standard courtesies.

How do you guys cope? Since being an incel is one of the most significant pains in most of our lives, coping is necessary. What coping methods do you use and to what effect do they have? I personally have studied stoicism over the past two years, and it has tremendously helped my incel pain. It doesn't completely numb the pain, but it helps understand that being an incel is not inherently a bad thing.

I cope with videogames, anime/manga, tv shows and occasionally reading a good book. In the end it doesn't matter what it is as long as you enjoy it. My copes make me think less about being incel which is a good thing. Although i will admit that sometimes i overdo them a bit. But this is solely due to the fact that as a friendless 27 years old mentalcel there is almost nothing to do outside for me. I can't connect or relate to other people which makes going alone to events or bars,clubs and discos a pain in the ass with no social skills.


I consider learning an instrument or a new language in a few months when i have the money but otherwise there really is not much else to do for me. I just don't click and work with other people, everything i do is just for myself and i have literally no one besides my parents and a brother who is studying in another city far away.