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Serious Coping does not exist and it's an insult

SilentScream

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There is nothing, and I mean literally nothing in this world that's worth a single shit other than sex and intimacy. The idea of "coping" is already contradictory as you won't ever be able to cope with being a worthless lonely incel. It's like trying to cope with not having lungs, not having arms and legs or eyes and ears or telling kids in africa to cope with not having food.

I absolutely LOATHE the idea of copes, it's belittling. As if there's anything that could ever make this life less terrible. Also it implies there is something else besides sex in this world, but there isn't. You exist only and solely to have sex. Your entire body is engineered around having sex. Your brain craves nothing but food and sex. Everything that's ever been built or invented was to help society have sex. Everything any man has ever wanted in the history of humanity was sex.

Every single second of a sexless life is torture. You can be high on booze and weed, lay on the couch and watch your favorite show, inside you are still tortured and rotten, you decay every single second that passes in another day as a low life low status virgin. You can meditate, you can dive into obscure hobbies, you can try to live a mostly normal life, make money, buy a house, whatever. It won't save anything. There are no copes, there is nothing that makes life more bearable. We suffer when we cry, we suffer when we laugh. We suffer while at work, we suffer while drunk on vacation. We suffer in a tent under a bridge, we suffer in a mansion. You cannot ever not suffer while being an incel. You cannot ever have fulfillment or joy while being an incel. It is impossible, it is definitional. To be an incel is to suffer and decay every single second, every day, every month, until you die.
 
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cope
 
You are literally coping right now.
 
painful bare truth
 
there is only one thing left: to cope even more
 
There is nothing, and I mean literally nothing in this world that's worth a single shit other than sex and intimacy. The idea of "coping" is already contradictory as you won't ever be able to cope with being a worthless lonely incel. It's like trying to cope with not having lungs, not having arms and legs or eyes and ears or telling kids in africa to cope with not having food.

I absolutely LOATHE the idea of copes, it's belittling. As if there's anything that could ever make this life less terrible. Also it implies there is something else besides sex in this world, but there isn't. You exist only and solely to have sex. Your entire body is engineered around having sex. Your brain craves nothing but food and sex. Everything that's ever been built or invented was to help society have sex. Everything any man has ever wanted in the history of humanity was sex.

Every single second of a sexless life is torture. You can be high on booze and weed, lay on the couch and watch your favorite show, inside you are still tortured and rotten, you decay every single second that passes in another day as a low life low status virgin. You can meditate, you can dive into obscure hobbies, you can try to live a mostly normal life, make money, buy a house, whatever. It won't save anything. There are no copes, there is nothing that makes life more bearable. We suffer when we cry, we suffer when we laugh. We suffer while at work, we suffer while drunk on vacation. We suffer in a tent under a bridge, we suffer in a mansion. You cannot ever not suffer while being an incel. You cannot ever have fulfillment or joy while being an incel. It is impossible, it is definitional. To be an incel is to suffer and decay every single second, every day, every month, until you die.
What choice have we? Escort?
 
Coping exists because we don't have basic necessities. Maybe there's another word you are looking for
 
What choice have we? Escort?
Exactly. Its a mindset question. If you only want sex without an emotional connection to that person, escorts are an amazing solution for every incel (not truecel because even escorts reject truecels unfortunately). Wageslaving, training, roids and fucking a prostitute every now and then satisfies all of my needs. Steroids make this possible in the first place because otherwise i would be depressed and high inhib. I look like a leaner version of saint hamudi which is funny.
 
If I were rich, I'd cope very well. The problem that most incels have to deal with is being forced to interact with people to survive (earn money).
 
It's not just sex that I crave, it's romance, feeling loved, even the touch of a woman or them being nice to me once in a while.

Yes coping is cucked, but as the famous saying goes. You either cope or rope.
Being incel is a torturous existence, but the reason I cope is very simple; To spite normfaggots and people that hate my existence IRL.
(And also because the alternative is impossible for me and just not something I consider).

Finding a good cope is an incel's equivalant of getting a good lay or finding a nice girlfriend. However every cope has an end, so you are forced to always be left searching for new things to keep you busy and your mind off of the misery.
 
You are literally coping right now.
Over for OP

But yes, everything is coping, we are social creatures and need some social connections while we are deprived of them out of our will. Everything we do is a just for survival, in prehistoric times we would be some gatherers removed from villages and tribes so sentenced to single survival either death.
 
The worst thing is, you can't just ignore it. It's in every single one of my "copes." Music, TV, games, books, it's everywhere.
90% of music is about love and sex, just about every TV show has relationships and sex. We can't escape it because we weren't meant to. Humans are sexual and social creatures. We're not human.
 
I agree, there's no happiness and satisfaction without love, sex and intimacy.
 
Exactly. Its a mindset question. If you only want sex without an emotional connection to that person, escorts are an amazing solution for every incel (not truecel because even escorts reject truecels unfortunately). Wageslaving, training, roids and fucking a prostitute every now and then satisfies all of my needs. Steroids make this possible in the first place because otherwise i would be depressed and high inhib. I look like a leaner version of saint hamudi which is funny.
Wageslaving won't enable you to fuck escorts, not even once month. If you mean aids-ridden street whores who blow for $20, sure. Are we talking mid - high class escorts with standard rates at $150/h? Then you have to be actually rich to afford it. And at that point, you're set either way because as I just said you're rich.

It's not about having sex once a blue moon with a whore. Sex makes happy, yes, but ONLY when it's regularly and constantly. Don't you feel like a fucking cuck going back to 4 weeks of jerking off to internet porn again after fucking a prostitute as you're saving up for the next meeting? I would have no problem fucking hookers but it'd have to be AT LEAST weekly and that would be prices in the five-figure range.

Not to mention that escorting is still miserable. Among incels, escorting is king, but don't forget most people see Johns as the epitome of misery. You will be ridiculed, you are still a low status loser and too ugly to get women conventionally. If it was as easy as paying sluts, the blackpill wouldn't exist. Prostitution solves literally nothing. You need to have at least one hot girl you can hit up for sex anytime you want, everything else is COPE (I said the word).
 
Finding a good cope is an incel's equivalent of getting a good lay or finding a nice girlfriend. However every cope has an end, so you are forced to always be left searching for new things to keep you busy and your mind off of the misery.
No "cope" could ever remotely come close to being hugged, kissed and fucked by a pussy. You are deranged if you think that playing a fucking video game or eating ice cream is equivalent to that. That is exactly my point: There is NOTHING that can make life bearable without pussy. Without being attractive, tall, desired.

Not to mention there exists only so much to distract yourself with. You can jump from a new sedative to the next one, there will be a point when vidya, booze and porn just won't cut it anymore. They won't be able to stuff that hole in you. Then you go looking for new stuff but you won't find any. Normal people don't engineer their life around not having sex and trying to bear the according misery so options are limited. The idea that you can just comfortably hop from one cope to the other and this way be happy despite being an actual subhuman genetic-dead-end low status virgin loser is so ridiculous I don't even know what to think about it.
 
Wageslaving won't enable you to fuck escorts, not even once month. If you mean aids-ridden street whores who blow for $20, sure. Are we talking mid - high class escorts with standard rates at $150/h? Then you have to be actually rich to afford it. And at that point, you're set either way because as I just said you're rich.
I earn enough to afford it 2x per month at about 300€ total. At the end of the month nothing is left considering rent and food, so i do live paycheck to paycheck. But its the only way for me to have sex at all and its a good cope. Either that or i'm just coping myself into believing its not bad. Sometimes i even go one or two months without it to spend money on other things i need
 
They're not really copes because nobody here is really coping with their lonely, sexless life. "Copes" are nothing more than fleeting distractions that only briefly numb the pain.

Every single second of a sexless life is torture. You can be high on booze and weed, lay on the couch and watch your favorite show, inside you are still tortured and rotten, you decay every single second that passes in another day as a low life low status virgin. You can meditate, you can dive into obscure hobbies, you can try to live a mostly normal life, make money, buy a house, whatever. It won't save anything. There are no copes, there is nothing that makes life more bearable. We suffer when we cry, we suffer when we laugh. We suffer while at work, we suffer while drunk on vacation. We suffer in a tent under a bridge, we suffer in a mansion. You cannot ever not suffer while being an incel. You cannot ever have fulfillment or joy while being an incel. It is impossible, it is definitional. To be an incel is to suffer and decay every single second, every day, every month, until you die.
:blackpill::blackpill::blackpill:

Even when you're enjoying something, your sexual and social deprivation will always be at the back of your mind. Inceldom is one of the cruellest fates a man can endure.
 
This is why I cope with cartoon villain fantasies, at least in those I can force women to reproduce with me.

The worst thing is, you can't just ignore it. It's in every single one of my "copes." Music, TV, games, books, it's everywhere.
90% of music is about love and sex, just about every TV show has relationships and sex. We can't escape it because we weren't meant to. Humans are sexual and social creatures. We're not human.
that's why you should get into gigaautist games. They also pair well with villainmaxxing as they allow you to plot our your fantasies of national/global/galactic/universal domination
 
this site is legit a cope buddy
 
Exactly. Its a mindset question. If you only want sex without an emotional connection to that person, escorts are an amazing solution for every incel (not truecel because even escorts reject truecels unfortunately). Wageslaving, training, roids and fucking a prostitute every now and then satisfies all of my needs. Steroids make this possible in the first place because otherwise i would be depressed and high inhib. I look like a leaner version of saint hamudi which is funny.
How has roiding been in general??

I might try it in the future
 
The worst thing is, you can't just ignore it. It's in every single one of my "copes." Music, TV, games, books, it's everywhere.
90% of music is about love and sex, just about every TV show has relationships and sex. We can't escape it because we weren't meant to. Humans are sexual and social creatures. We're not human.
 
Every single second of a sexless life is torture. You can be high on booze and weed, lay on the couch and watch your favorite show, inside you are still tortured and rotten, you decay every single second that passes in another day as a low life low status virgin.
Mega truth nuke

The horrible undeniable gut-wrenching truth. The feeling of rot and suffering is always inside me. This is what happens when our biology is denied and we are forced to exist as something else than what we are.
 
ye even love isn't enough because love without sex is still against our fundamental primal need
 
If I were rich, I'd cope very well. The problem that most incels have to deal with is being forced to interact with people to survive (earn money).
Fucking same. Would be so different if i had some money cheatcode. Sometimes i daydream about it. But the best i can do is getting neetbux. It would be nice enough though.
 
Good post.

It reminds of the human spirit dilemma...

God shoves you into an animal body and then exspects you to, NOT act like an animal...
 
No "cope" could ever remotely come close to being hugged, kissed and fucked by a pussy. You are deranged if you think that playing a fucking video game or eating ice cream is equivalent to that. That is exactly my point: There is NOTHING that can make life bearable without pussy. Without being attractive, tall, desired.

Not to mention there exists only so much to distract yourself with. You can jump from a new sedative to the next one, there will be a point when vidya, booze and porn just won't cut it anymore. They won't be able to stuff that hole in you. Then you go looking for new stuff but you won't find any. Normal people don't engineer their life around not having sex and trying to bear the according misery so options are limited. The idea that you can just comfortably hop from one cope to the other and this way be happy despite being an actual subhuman genetic-dead-end low status virgin loser is so ridiculous I don't even know what to think about it.
I have seen this happen.
Having infinite loveless, transactional sex is the same as those copes you despise, worse even.
You would end up consuming prostitute after prostitute, seeking a tighter ass, bigger boobs, a prettier face, and more exotic wenches trying to fill the void inside your heart. You will quickly discard them after the deed is done and never see them again.
The numbness will eventually become so overwhelming that you will start seeking stronger stimuli, dabbling into fucked up fetishes of increasing intensity. It will be no different from a drug addict that goes from meth to cocaine and to heroin.

Eventually you will look back and realize that your life was emptier than the life of those you mocked, than someone who attempted to find long-lasting fulfillment through copes. Eventually escortmaxxing will also have an end.

The only sex that matters is lovey-dovey sex. It can only be acquired with a woman that loves you, a woman that desires to be with you, to know more about you for who you are.
However, even if we were attractive, we know such women don't exist. We have seen though the veil, women can't feel love as the animals they are. It is the reason why chads treat them as such.

Thus, only two kinds of people will ever experience fulfillment through sex: naive teenagers unaware of the cruelty of the world (teenlovepill), and bluepilled buxxer normies deceived into believing by women (future cucks).

You better get your copes up, nigger
 
Tired of weak GrAYs coming and COPING about blackpill terminology they think is mean. BP doesn’t care if you find the word cope “belittling”. The word makes perfect sense. All those distractions and pastimes you brought up are copes, plain and simple. The fact they aren’t 100% effective doesn’t change that they are attempts to cope
 
Not everything is about sex sweaty
 
What the fuck else am I supposed to do?
 
thank you for saying it...there are no copes that can every truly make up for the 'life' we all live
 
Regardless i do not want to bring a child into this world. It's not worth the short pleasure of sex just for someone to be born into suffering for their whole life.
 
After reading this, I feel my worthless life is now lower than worthless. :feelsohgod::feelsohgod:
 
Holy fucking trvth nuke
 
self hate thread
 
Saying that you cannot cope with being an incel is a bit stupid. It's like saying you can't feel full without eating gourmet food.
 
Good post.

It reminds of the human spirit dilemma...

God shoves you into an animal body and then exspects you to, NOT act like an animal...
WOAH NOW THAT'S DEEP
 
Regardless i do not want to bring a child into this world. It's not worth the short pleasure of sex just for someone to be born into suffering for their whole life.
That's very convenient for you
 
in my opinion cope only helps u for a short time, 1-2 hours, after that ur still gonna want sex, but yeah ur kinda right, cope isn t 100% effective, more like 30-50%
 

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