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These are the kinds of types of people that just want to rub it in your face.
They think they are being "edgy" and non-pc when it's a commonly phrased argument.
View: https://www.reddit.com/r/JustUnsubbed/comments/j086wn/just_unsubbed_from_rinceltear_the_sub_has_gone_to/
Think you'll do better if you identify your self as asexual? Nope.
The message is consistent and clear. It's your fault and not society's.
Weird people like the ones that go on reddit to post regularly will gladly post about things the rest of the population of society is silently thinking.
They think they are being "edgy" and non-pc when it's a commonly phrased argument.
View: https://www.reddit.com/r/JustUnsubbed/comments/j086wn/just_unsubbed_from_rinceltear_the_sub_has_gone_to/
FranticTyping
-26 points · 11 days ago
The non-pc answer: Everything.
It shows you are a social failure in modern society, the lowest of the low.
Being able to gather and maintain fruitful human relationships is the most important skill any normal person can have. It is key to mental health, professional success, fulfilling friendships, and personal confidence.
Convincing a member of the opposite sex to have sex with you isn't that difficult(especially in 2020), and if you can't do that much, it says an enormous amount about you as a person. You are either a social failure, or oblivious to the realities of the world... planning to pursue relationships when you have money and success under your belt(but still a loser).
Hint: Those are the guys that blow their brains out before 40.
FranticTyping
-4 points · 11 days ago
It is crazy how alien a concept this is to some people.
No, it isn't about proving anything, not even to yourself.
A virgin has almost universally proven they cannot pass the meager hurdle of getting laid - they are social failures. It is just like how a fat person has almost universally proven they cannot pass the meager hurdle of maintaining their health - they are physical failures.
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FranticTyping
-5 points · 11 days ago
That misses the point entirely. The fidgety loser virgin is not the one pulling in six figures with a cushy job managing people, and he definitely isn't the CEO. Even if he is pulling in the big bucks, his social life, relationships, and state of mind will be the furthest thing from enviable.
Likeable people are the ones that go far in life. Getting laid is one of the bare-minimum things a normal, socially tolerable person can do. I'm sorry, but the average virgin is not a temporarily embarrassed social butterfly that is suddenly going to flourish the day they pick up a 34 year old single mother.
FranticTyping
0 points · 10 days ago
lol.
Why is virgin an insult? Why are people embarrassed when it is revealed they are virgins? Why do people laugh at others for being virgins? Why is this one of the few disparaging things that has survived into the era of wokeness?
Most functioning members of society outside of reddit understand this. They understand the implications of being a virgin. They may not laugh, but you will universally gain some loser points when they find out.
Think you'll do better if you identify your self as asexual? Nope.
FranticTyping
1 point · 10 days ago
Virgins aren't automatically outcasts. There are religious virgins who are saving themselves for marriage, for instance. The point was to be socially capable enough to get laid, and have the backbone to go through with it.How aren't aces outcasts for being virgins, if virgins are outcasts?
Their insecurity and inability to relate with other people in an overly-sexualized society. There are plenty that function despite that, but the asexual guy isn't going to be gregarious enough to get invited to go golfing with the boss.What makes aces social outcasts?
The message is consistent and clear. It's your fault and not society's.
Weird people like the ones that go on reddit to post regularly will gladly post about things the rest of the population of society is silently thinking.