I would make a thread about this, but I'm too high inhib to attract that kind of attention. The bottom line for having a good escort experience is to go for the high-"ish"-end ones. I'll talk about what I mean by high-"ish" end ones later. It may cost a little more and you won't be able to do it that often unless you've moneymaxed, but I find I get a lot more out of it. I don't go all that often, but that's because I choose to make longer bookings and I'm not moneymaxed.
I usually only go to one main website for finding escorts these days, which is Tryst . link. If you use any other sites, I'd personally only trust the "verified" profiles, if the website has such a feature. In the past, I used EuroGirlsEscort when I was abroad. Otherwise, if an escort has consistent profiles on more than one site, I'm more likely to trust that escort.
These days though, I look for a few main things: website,
active social media, not too young, professional photos, and a bio that isn't vulgar. I'll explain below:
Website:
This means that they treat escorting as a business, and much like a reputable business, they're interested in providing a good service, not ripping people off.
Active social media:
This shows that they are a real person and not a cop or some quick scam. If they have a Twitter, Instagram, or (ironically) an OnlyFans, and they use it consistently and interact with other escorts and fans then that gives them a great deal of legitimacy.
Not too young:
I tend not to trust younger profiles, as they often do not have websites or social media, and it makes me wonder if some of those profiles are cops or scams. Not only that, but if they are real, they're probably inexperienced and doing escorting behind their parents' back. Imagine if they slipped up and their parents found out! Not a situation I'd want to be in, anyway. I tend to trust escorts who are 25+ and are 99.9% likely to be independent from their family. I know that may sound older, but it isn't. I met an escort once that was nearing 30 who was a literal pornstar, and she was the tightest I've ever felt. To me, that was incredibly weird.
Professional photos:
This is similar to having a website - it means that they are treating escorting like a business, and paying for professional photos to be done. They are investing time and money into this business. Blurry phone pics of their ass or pussy are red flags to me.
Non-vulgar bio:
Because the legality of escorting is questionable in some jurisdictions, like the US, legitimate escorts will always refrain from ever mentioning explicit sexual acts. They'll say stuff like "companionship" or that you're "only paying for their time, and anything else that happens is between two consenting adults", but never "come over and fuck my pussy, full service *wink wink kiss kiss*". I don't know where you are located, but if it's in a place where this stuff is legal, then I wouldn't worry as much about this requirement. When I did escorting abroad, I ignored this requirement. But I was also younger and more naive at the time, so bear that in mind.
For me, website + professional photos + non-vulgar bio are practically necessities. The only bad experience I've ever had was when she didn't have a website. I would include active social media in there too, as that is an excellent indicator of whether or not she's real, but I know an escort who I like that doesn't use social media often and I saw another one whose social media was banned, so that isn't a dealbreaker.
Finally, here's what I mean by high-"ish" end: some escorts I think feel waaaay too entitled to be in this industry. I would advise against seeing escorts who are truly "high-end", who think that they are some sort of goddess. They'll have insane prices like $1k+ an hour, but I'm sure the experience would probably be the same or worse than an escort who is $500 an hour. I also recently saw a post in a thread a couple of days ago about a high end escort called "Liara Roux" that a guy literally took out for dinner and she didn't have sex with him - imagine how entitled you have to think you are to men's money to pull that shit off! I thought she looked cute, but I'll never
ever book a bitch like that.
I like the high-"ish" end escorts because they don't just treat it like prostitution. They'll actually have an engaging conversation with you, compliment you, encourage you, be understanding of your inhibitions, and give you the full time you paid for, regardless of how many times you cum. They'll be your girlfriend for an hour or for how ever long you pay for. That's the only reservation I have about being an escortcel - it pisses me off that I only get to feel loved for two hours a month while shitbag normies get it every single day - for free! But it's unfortunately the best I can do.
TLDR, reputable escorts usually have three of these, with some mattering more than others:
- Website
- Active social media (Twitter, OnlyFans)
- Are not too young (25+)
- Professional photos (no grainy phone pics of ass or pussy)
- Non-vulgar bio (no explicit sexual talk)
Additionally:
- Not too expensive with goddess complex
- Not too cheap to be simple, robotic prostitution
You can repost this as a thread if you want, but I know I won't do it. At least not without a few more beers.