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Discussion Conflicting views on sex work in the west

Do you ever have mood swings due to the state of loneliness ?

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I feel like I’m in a state of constant mood swings. Like some days my apathy doesn’t remind me of my loneliness (living by myself)and the fact I missed too many social milestones and I’m able to work on projects and random stuff, but some days I have this intense feeling and touch deprivation gets to me. I’m reminded that I’m only 23 years old me and that most escorts in the west wouldn’t take me seriously enough to see them since I’m “too young” and would find it creepy jfl.

The weird thing is that some sex workers who like escort in the west hate their clients and openly close off certain ethnicities and age groups it never made sense to me how their ironically the people that make their industry worse , if ya have to keep saying it’s real work but your practices involve racist practices like racial profiling it can never be seen as real work places because that sort of shit is a privilege a bad one too. You don’t see people in the eastern world doing it as much it’s like their own oppression lives in their own head.
 
Every day but some times it's worse depending on what is going on in the year.
 
All these escorts care about is your money and making sure you ain't fed. Depending on city it can be easy / extremely difficult to find. Again, they all are just chasing paper and would be more than happy to make you cum and gtfo in sub 15 min for a quick $60+.
I’m only 23 years old me and that most escorts in the west wouldn’t take me seriously enough to see them since I’m “too young” and would find it creepy jfl.
 
I feel like I’m in a state of constant mood swings. Like some days my apathy doesn’t remind me of my loneliness (living by myself)and the fact I missed too many social milestones and I’m able to work on projects and random stuff, but some days I have this intense feeling and touch deprivation gets to me. I’m reminded that I’m only 23 years old me and that most escorts in the west wouldn’t take me seriously enough to see them since I’m “too young” and would find it creepy jfl.

The weird thing is that some sex workers who like escort in the west hate their clients and openly close off certain ethnicities and age groups it never made sense to me how their ironically the people that make their industry worse , if ya have to keep saying it’s real work but your practices involve racist practices like racial profiling it can never be seen as real work places because that sort of shit is a privilege a bad one too. You don’t see people in the eastern world doing it as much it’s like their own oppression lives in their own head.
Inceldom and my pathetic social life is slowly fucking with my mind, is it weird thqt this forum is helping?
 
Whenever I really dwell on it
 
Yeah, my mood swings wildly from week to week based on how isolated I am. I've said this before, but I usually have one good week when I see an escort and that need for physical touch is filled, followed by many bad weeks due to near-complete isolation. I sometimes try to pull it together during those bad weeks but I can never sustain any motivation, so I just backslide into feeling like shit.

I’m reminded that I’m only 23 years old me and that most escorts in the west wouldn’t take me seriously enough to see them since I’m “too young” and would find it creepy jfl.
Dude, I'm 23 and I've never had a problem with an escort in the west based on my age. Hell, I've seen escorts that were 10+ years older than me, and I got along well with all of them. The key is to be professional in your communication. I think a lot of escorts think young 20-somethings are immature and will do stupid or risky shit, get them in trouble, or just flake out. But if you act mature your age will not play a factor at all.
 
Yeah, my mood swings wildly from week to week based on how isolated I am. I've said this before, but I usually have one good week when I see an escort and that need for physical touch is filled, followed by many bad weeks due to near-complete isolation. I sometimes try to pull it together during those bad weeks but I can never sustain any motivation, so I just backslide into feeling like shit.


Dude, I'm 23 and I've never had a problem with an escort in the west based on my age. Hell, I've seen escorts that were 10+ years older than me, and I got along well with all of them. The key is to be professional in your communication. I think a lot of escorts think young 20-somethings are immature and will do stupid or risky shit, get them in trouble, or just flake out. But if you act mature your age will not play a factor at all.

any advice for safe escortmaxxing? I don't want to get scammed / have shitty experiences.
 
Your vote question doesn't match your thread title
 
any advice for safe escortmaxxing? I don't want to get scammed / have shitty experiences.
I would make a thread about this, but I'm too high inhib to attract that kind of attention. The bottom line for having a good escort experience is to go for the high-"ish"-end ones. I'll talk about what I mean by high-"ish" end ones later. It may cost a little more and you won't be able to do it that often unless you've moneymaxed, but I find I get a lot more out of it. I don't go all that often, but that's because I choose to make longer bookings and I'm not moneymaxed.

I usually only go to one main website for finding escorts these days, which is Tryst . link. If you use any other sites, I'd personally only trust the "verified" profiles, if the website has such a feature. In the past, I used EuroGirlsEscort when I was abroad. Otherwise, if an escort has consistent profiles on more than one site, I'm more likely to trust that escort.

These days though, I look for a few main things: website, active social media, not too young, professional photos, and a bio that isn't vulgar. I'll explain below:

Website:
This means that they treat escorting as a business, and much like a reputable business, they're interested in providing a good service, not ripping people off.

Active social media:
This shows that they are a real person and not a cop or some quick scam. If they have a Twitter, Instagram, or (ironically) an OnlyFans, and they use it consistently and interact with other escorts and fans then that gives them a great deal of legitimacy.

Not too young:
I tend not to trust younger profiles, as they often do not have websites or social media, and it makes me wonder if some of those profiles are cops or scams. Not only that, but if they are real, they're probably inexperienced and doing escorting behind their parents' back. Imagine if they slipped up and their parents found out! Not a situation I'd want to be in, anyway. I tend to trust escorts who are 25+ and are 99.9% likely to be independent from their family. I know that may sound older, but it isn't. I met an escort once that was nearing 30 who was a literal pornstar, and she was the tightest I've ever felt. To me, that was incredibly weird.

Professional photos:
This is similar to having a website - it means that they are treating escorting like a business, and paying for professional photos to be done. They are investing time and money into this business. Blurry phone pics of their ass or pussy are red flags to me.

Non-vulgar bio:
Because the legality of escorting is questionable in some jurisdictions, like the US, legitimate escorts will always refrain from ever mentioning explicit sexual acts. They'll say stuff like "companionship" or that you're "only paying for their time, and anything else that happens is between two consenting adults", but never "come over and fuck my pussy, full service *wink wink kiss kiss*". I don't know where you are located, but if it's in a place where this stuff is legal, then I wouldn't worry as much about this requirement. When I did escorting abroad, I ignored this requirement. But I was also younger and more naive at the time, so bear that in mind.

For me, website + professional photos + non-vulgar bio are practically necessities. The only bad experience I've ever had was when she didn't have a website. I would include active social media in there too, as that is an excellent indicator of whether or not she's real, but I know an escort who I like that doesn't use social media often and I saw another one whose social media was banned, so that isn't a dealbreaker.

Finally, here's what I mean by high-"ish" end: some escorts I think feel waaaay too entitled to be in this industry. I would advise against seeing escorts who are truly "high-end", who think that they are some sort of goddess. They'll have insane prices like $1k+ an hour, but I'm sure the experience would probably be the same or worse than an escort who is $500 an hour. I also recently saw a post in a thread a couple of days ago about a high end escort called "Liara Roux" that a guy literally took out for dinner and she didn't have sex with him - imagine how entitled you have to think you are to men's money to pull that shit off! I thought she looked cute, but I'll never ever book a bitch like that.

I like the high-"ish" end escorts because they don't just treat it like prostitution. They'll actually have an engaging conversation with you, compliment you, encourage you, be understanding of your inhibitions, and give you the full time you paid for, regardless of how many times you cum. They'll be your girlfriend for an hour or for how ever long you pay for. That's the only reservation I have about being an escortcel - it pisses me off that I only get to feel loved for two hours a month while shitbag normies get it every single day - for free! But it's unfortunately the best I can do.

TLDR, reputable escorts usually have three of these, with some mattering more than others:
  • Website
  • Active social media (Twitter, OnlyFans)
  • Are not too young (25+)
  • Professional photos (no grainy phone pics of ass or pussy)
  • Non-vulgar bio (no explicit sexual talk)
Additionally:
  • Not too expensive with goddess complex
  • Not too cheap to be simple, robotic prostitution
You can repost this as a thread if you want, but I know I won't do it. At least not without a few more beers.
 
I’m afraid I look too young and I have a tiny hope that I could ascend it’s like a 5% so I’m conflicted about it
Don't be afraid of that. One escort literally called me "a baby" and fucked me all the same. I also deliberately asked another 30+ escort about the youngest guy she's ever seen thinking that it would be me at 23, and to my surprise she said 21 - so in all likelihood you won't be the youngest.

However, if you have a chance at ascending, TAKE IT FIRST. Make sure you play that chance out to its completion - maybe it ends in you asking her out and she says yes, or you get brutally rejected. If it ends in failure, and you feel that you want to see an escort, don't be afraid. Your age is the least of your worries. Just make sure you find a reputable escort if you choose that path.
 
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I would make a thread about this, but I'm too high inhib to attract that kind of attention. The bottom line for having a good escort experience is to go for the high-"ish"-end ones. I'll talk about what I mean by high-"ish" end ones later. It may cost a little more and you won't be able to do it that often unless you've moneymaxed, but I find I get a lot more out of it. I don't go all that often, but that's because I choose to make longer bookings and I'm not moneymaxed.

I usually only go to one main website for finding escorts these days, which is Tryst . link. If you use any other sites, I'd personally only trust the "verified" profiles, if the website has such a feature. In the past, I used EuroGirlsEscort when I was abroad. Otherwise, if an escort has consistent profiles on more than one site, I'm more likely to trust that escort.

These days though, I look for a few main things: website, active social media, not too young, professional photos, and a bio that isn't vulgar. I'll explain below:

Website:
This means that they treat escorting as a business, and much like a reputable business, they're interested in providing a good service, not ripping people off.

Active social media:
This shows that they are a real person and not a cop or some quick scam. If they have a Twitter, Instagram, or (ironically) an OnlyFans, and they use it consistently and interact with other escorts and fans then that gives them a great deal of legitimacy.

Not too young:
I tend not to trust younger profiles, as they often do not have websites or social media, and it makes me wonder if some of those profiles are cops or scams. Not only that, but if they are real, they're probably inexperienced and doing escorting behind their parents' back. Imagine if they slipped up and their parents found out! Not a situation I'd want to be in, anyway. I tend to trust escorts who are 25+ and are 99.9% likely to be independent from their family. I know that may sound older, but it isn't. I met an escort once that was nearing 30 who was a literal pornstar, and she was the tightest I've ever felt. To me, that was incredibly weird.

Professional photos:
This is similar to having a website - it means that they are treating escorting like a business, and paying for professional photos to be done. They are investing time and money into this business. Blurry phone pics of their ass or pussy are red flags to me.

Non-vulgar bio:
Because the legality of escorting is questionable in some jurisdictions, like the US, legitimate escorts will always refrain from ever mentioning explicit sexual acts. They'll say stuff like "companionship" or that you're "only paying for their time, and anything else that happens is between two consenting adults", but never "come over and fuck my pussy, full service *wink wink kiss kiss*". I don't know where you are located, but if it's in a place where this stuff is legal, then I wouldn't worry as much about this requirement. When I did escorting abroad, I ignored this requirement. But I was also younger and more naive at the time, so bear that in mind.

For me, website + professional photos + non-vulgar bio are practically necessities. The only bad experience I've ever had was when she didn't have a website. I would include active social media in there too, as that is an excellent indicator of whether or not she's real, but I know an escort who I like that doesn't use social media often and I saw another one whose social media was banned, so that isn't a dealbreaker.

Finally, here's what I mean by high-"ish" end: some escorts I think feel waaaay too entitled to be in this industry. I would advise against seeing escorts who are truly "high-end", who think that they are some sort of goddess. They'll have insane prices like $1k+ an hour, but I'm sure the experience would probably be the same or worse than an escort who is $500 an hour. I also recently saw a post in a thread a couple of days ago about a high end escort called "Liara Roux" that a guy literally took out for dinner and she didn't have sex with him - imagine how entitled you have to think you are to men's money to pull that shit off! I thought she looked cute, but I'll never ever book a bitch like that.

I like the high-"ish" end escorts because they don't just treat it like prostitution. They'll actually have an engaging conversation with you, compliment you, encourage you, be understanding of your inhibitions, and give you the full time you paid for, regardless of how many times you cum. They'll be your girlfriend for an hour or for how ever long you pay for. That's the only reservation I have about being an escortcel - it pisses me off that I only get to feel loved for two hours a month while shitbag normies get it every single day - for free! But it's unfortunately the best I can do.

TLDR, reputable escorts usually have three of these, with some mattering more than others:
  • Website
  • Active social media (Twitter, OnlyFans)
  • Are not too young (25+)
  • Professional photos (no grainy phone pics of ass or pussy)
  • Non-vulgar bio (no explicit sexual talk)
Additionally:
  • Not too expensive with goddess complex
  • Not too cheap to be simple, robotic prostitution
You can repost this as a thread if you want, but I know I won't do it. At least not without a few more beers.
Great input, thanks for taking your time putting this together
 
I would make a thread about this, but I'm too high inhib to attract that kind of attention. The bottom line for having a good escort experience is to go for the high-"ish"-end ones. I'll talk about what I mean by high-"ish" end ones later. It may cost a little more and you won't be able to do it that often unless you've moneymaxed, but I find I get a lot more out of it. I don't go all that often, but that's because I choose to make longer bookings and I'm not moneymaxed.

I usually only go to one main website for finding escorts these days, which is Tryst . link. If you use any other sites, I'd personally only trust the "verified" profiles, if the website has such a feature. In the past, I used EuroGirlsEscort when I was abroad. Otherwise, if an escort has consistent profiles on more than one site, I'm more likely to trust that escort.

These days though, I look for a few main things: website, active social media, not too young, professional photos, and a bio that isn't vulgar. I'll explain below:

Website:
This means that they treat escorting as a business, and much like a reputable business, they're interested in providing a good service, not ripping people off.

Active social media:
This shows that they are a real person and not a cop or some quick scam. If they have a Twitter, Instagram, or (ironically) an OnlyFans, and they use it consistently and interact with other escorts and fans then that gives them a great deal of legitimacy.

Not too young:
I tend not to trust younger profiles, as they often do not have websites or social media, and it makes me wonder if some of those profiles are cops or scams. Not only that, but if they are real, they're probably inexperienced and doing escorting behind their parents' back. Imagine if they slipped up and their parents found out! Not a situation I'd want to be in, anyway. I tend to trust escorts who are 25+ and are 99.9% likely to be independent from their family. I know that may sound older, but it isn't. I met an escort once that was nearing 30 who was a literal pornstar, and she was the tightest I've ever felt. To me, that was incredibly weird.

Professional photos:
This is similar to having a website - it means that they are treating escorting like a business, and paying for professional photos to be done. They are investing time and money into this business. Blurry phone pics of their ass or pussy are red flags to me.

Non-vulgar bio:
Because the legality of escorting is questionable in some jurisdictions, like the US, legitimate escorts will always refrain from ever mentioning explicit sexual acts. They'll say stuff like "companionship" or that you're "only paying for their time, and anything else that happens is between two consenting adults", but never "come over and fuck my pussy, full service *wink wink kiss kiss*". I don't know where you are located, but if it's in a place where this stuff is legal, then I wouldn't worry as much about this requirement. When I did escorting abroad, I ignored this requirement. But I was also younger and more naive at the time, so bear that in mind.

For me, website + professional photos + non-vulgar bio are practically necessities. The only bad experience I've ever had was when she didn't have a website. I would include active social media in there too, as that is an excellent indicator of whether or not she's real, but I know an escort who I like that doesn't use social media often and I saw another one whose social media was banned, so that isn't a dealbreaker.

Finally, here's what I mean by high-"ish" end: some escorts I think feel waaaay too entitled to be in this industry. I would advise against seeing escorts who are truly "high-end", who think that they are some sort of goddess. They'll have insane prices like $1k+ an hour, but I'm sure the experience would probably be the same or worse than an escort who is $500 an hour. I also recently saw a post in a thread a couple of days ago about a high end escort called "Liara Roux" that a guy literally took out for dinner and she didn't have sex with him - imagine how entitled you have to think you are to men's money to pull that shit off! I thought she looked cute, but I'll never ever book a bitch like that.

I like the high-"ish" end escorts because they don't just treat it like prostitution. They'll actually have an engaging conversation with you, compliment you, encourage you, be understanding of your inhibitions, and give you the full time you paid for, regardless of how many times you cum. They'll be your girlfriend for an hour or for how ever long you pay for. That's the only reservation I have about being an escortcel - it pisses me off that I only get to feel loved for two hours a month while shitbag normies get it every single day - for free! But it's unfortunately the best I can do.

TLDR, reputable escorts usually have three of these, with some mattering more than others:
  • Website
  • Active social media (Twitter, OnlyFans)
  • Are not too young (25+)
  • Professional photos (no grainy phone pics of ass or pussy)
  • Non-vulgar bio (no explicit sexual talk)
Additionally:
  • Not too expensive with goddess complex
  • Not too cheap to be simple, robotic prostitution
You can repost this as a thread if you want, but I know I won't do it. At least not without a few more beers.

High IQ shit and thanks.
Bookmarked.
 
Great input, thanks for taking your time putting this together
High IQ shit and thanks.
Bookmarked.
Thanks guys, I really appreciate it. Your positive reactions have made me consider posting this as my first thread. Just want to help a fellow incel out, should he choose the route of escortceling. Like any option, it is one that is totally valid. It may not be ideal and I know I'm still not even 100% on it, but for some of us, it's legitimately the best we can get. Might as well use all copes available to you, right? I know it's at least raised my self esteem.
 
Thanks guys, I really appreciate it. Your positive reactions have made me consider posting this as my first thread. Just want to help a fellow incel out, should he choose the route of escortceling. Like any option, it is one that is totally valid. It may not be ideal and I know I'm still not even 100% on it, but for some of us, it's legitimately the best we can get. Might as well use all copes available to you, right? I know it's at least raised my self esteem.

Mate I back you over 100% on this. Completely agree.
 
I would make a thread about this, but I'm too high inhib to attract that kind of attention. The bottom line for having a good escort experience is to go for the high-"ish"-end ones. I'll talk about what I mean by high-"ish" end ones later. It may cost a little more and you won't be able to do it that often unless you've moneymaxed, but I find I get a lot more out of it. I don't go all that often, but that's because I choose to make longer bookings and I'm not moneymaxed.

I usually only go to one main website for finding escorts these days, which is Tryst . link. If you use any other sites, I'd personally only trust the "verified" profiles, if the website has such a feature. In the past, I used EuroGirlsEscort when I was abroad. Otherwise, if an escort has consistent profiles on more than one site, I'm more likely to trust that escort.

These days though, I look for a few main things: website, active social media, not too young, professional photos, and a bio that isn't vulgar. I'll explain below:

Website:
This means that they treat escorting as a business, and much like a reputable business, they're interested in providing a good service, not ripping people off.

Active social media:
This shows that they are a real person and not a cop or some quick scam. If they have a Twitter, Instagram, or (ironically) an OnlyFans, and they use it consistently and interact with other escorts and fans then that gives them a great deal of legitimacy.

Not too young:
I tend not to trust younger profiles, as they often do not have websites or social media, and it makes me wonder if some of those profiles are cops or scams. Not only that, but if they are real, they're probably inexperienced and doing escorting behind their parents' back. Imagine if they slipped up and their parents found out! Not a situation I'd want to be in, anyway. I tend to trust escorts who are 25+ and are 99.9% likely to be independent from their family. I know that may sound older, but it isn't. I met an escort once that was nearing 30 who was a literal pornstar, and she was the tightest I've ever felt. To me, that was incredibly weird.

Professional photos:
This is similar to having a website - it means that they are treating escorting like a business, and paying for professional photos to be done. They are investing time and money into this business. Blurry phone pics of their ass or pussy are red flags to me.

Non-vulgar bio:
Because the legality of escorting is questionable in some jurisdictions, like the US, legitimate escorts will always refrain from ever mentioning explicit sexual acts. They'll say stuff like "companionship" or that you're "only paying for their time, and anything else that happens is between two consenting adults", but never "come over and fuck my pussy, full service *wink wink kiss kiss*". I don't know where you are located, but if it's in a place where this stuff is legal, then I wouldn't worry as much about this requirement. When I did escorting abroad, I ignored this requirement. But I was also younger and more naive at the time, so bear that in mind.

For me, website + professional photos + non-vulgar bio are practically necessities. The only bad experience I've ever had was when she didn't have a website. I would include active social media in there too, as that is an excellent indicator of whether or not she's real, but I know an escort who I like that doesn't use social media often and I saw another one whose social media was banned, so that isn't a dealbreaker.

Finally, here's what I mean by high-"ish" end: some escorts I think feel waaaay too entitled to be in this industry. I would advise against seeing escorts who are truly "high-end", who think that they are some sort of goddess. They'll have insane prices like $1k+ an hour, but I'm sure the experience would probably be the same or worse than an escort who is $500 an hour. I also recently saw a post in a thread a couple of days ago about a high end escort called "Liara Roux" that a guy literally took out for dinner and she didn't have sex with him - imagine how entitled you have to think you are to men's money to pull that shit off! I thought she looked cute, but I'll never ever book a bitch like that.

I like the high-"ish" end escorts because they don't just treat it like prostitution. They'll actually have an engaging conversation with you, compliment you, encourage you, be understanding of your inhibitions, and give you the full time you paid for, regardless of how many times you cum. They'll be your girlfriend for an hour or for how ever long you pay for. That's the only reservation I have about being an escortcel - it pisses me off that I only get to feel loved for two hours a month while shitbag normies get it every single day - for free! But it's unfortunately the best I can do.

TLDR, reputable escorts usually have three of these, with some mattering more than others:
  • Website
  • Active social media (Twitter, OnlyFans)
  • Are not too young (25+)
  • Professional photos (no grainy phone pics of ass or pussy)
  • Non-vulgar bio (no explicit sexual talk)
Additionally:
  • Not too expensive with goddess complex
  • Not too cheap to be simple, robotic prostitution
You can repost this as a thread if you want, but I know I won't do it. At least not without a few more beers.
good read brocel
 
Thanks guys, I really appreciate it. Your positive reactions have made me consider posting this as my first thread. Just want to help a fellow incel out, should he choose the route of escortceling. Like any option, it is one that is totally valid. It may not be ideal and I know I'm still not even 100% on it, but for some of us, it's legitimately the best we can get. Might as well use all copes available to you, right? I know it's at least raised my self esteem.
I feel you, there's plenty of anti escort users here but who cares
 

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