confidence = experience

[theoldnick]

"confidence" is thrown around a lot in the dating discussions online,
but never really defined...

in my opinion confidence is EXPERIENCE

when you have no/not much experience, you are more anxious and more shy

when you get more experience, you know how to do it and you know you have successfully done it before, so you are more laid back and trust yourself more

-> experience is/builds confidence

 

[gstvtrp]

"confidence" is thrown around a lot in the dating discussions online,
but never really defined...

in my opinion confidence is EXPERIENCE

when you have no/not much experience, you are more anxious and more shy

when you get more experience, you know how to do it and you know you have successfully done it before, so you are more laid back and trust yourself more

-> experience is/builds confidence

Duh.

Even if you aren't shy or anxious, girls still want experience. If you're inexperienced, they can tell and there isn't a way to break out of that catch-22.

 

[ordinaryotaku]

I don't know why some people don't get it. No one can just pull legitimate confidence out of their ass.

 

[BeepBeepAmJeep]

confidence = attractiveness. when you're ugly as fuck your not confident because you've been bullied and ridiculed your whole life. complete opposite if you're hot.

 

[Themisterpepsi]

Confidence plays into the halo effect
This guy

Looks more confident than this guy

Even though they are both just smiling into a camera and we know nothing about them

 

[thetruecelibate]

attractiveness=women=experience. If your not attractive or live up to the femoids standards you arent going anywhere.

 

[Deleted member 306]

Confidence is self awareness

 

[FeminismsCancer]

Confidence is an emergent property from being handsome and have mostly positive social interactions.
Women say they like confident men but in reality they like handsome men. If an ugly guy could perfectly fake confidence she'd still not want him.