One of my major issues is that I always start to do something to self improve such as eating better, styling my hair in a certain way, tanning, doing more in the gym, wearing better clothes etc and as long as I am alone and haven't been in contact with females for a while this is completely fine. The problem comes when I am in a phase of feeling great or at least somewhat good about myself and THEN cross paths with a woman.
You see one thing that I consistently notice is that if a woman sees a man who is relatively good looking to very good looking they will look at that man 99.999% of the time without fail. So when I see a guy and I can guess that the guy looks good and then I look at the reaction of women when he walks past them they ALWAYS look at him without fail. This happens no matter how young old, skinny, fat, ugly or attractive the woman is.
So then when I am feeling good about myself and I walk straight past a woman and she doesn't even bat an eyelid in my direction, actually avoids looking at me or is looking across the street at a man who is good enough then I am completely crushed and all self worth is gone as I know it was all for nothing. And the worst thing is this is what happens after me putting effort in so I know that I can't put less effort in because then it will be even worse so I now have to maintain the same level of effort and furthermore do even more to look good enough for even the most disgusting looking women to even look at.
THAT is the main problem in my life. I could deal with being alone if I knew I was actually good enough for somebody. Women should validate most men rather than only validating a minority because the fact is the majority of these women will be unwanted by that minority of men.
You see one thing that I consistently notice is that if a woman sees a man who is relatively good looking to very good looking they will look at that man 99.999% of the time without fail. So when I see a guy and I can guess that the guy looks good and then I look at the reaction of women when he walks past them they ALWAYS look at him without fail. This happens no matter how young old, skinny, fat, ugly or attractive the woman is.
So then when I am feeling good about myself and I walk straight past a woman and she doesn't even bat an eyelid in my direction, actually avoids looking at me or is looking across the street at a man who is good enough then I am completely crushed and all self worth is gone as I know it was all for nothing. And the worst thing is this is what happens after me putting effort in so I know that I can't put less effort in because then it will be even worse so I now have to maintain the same level of effort and furthermore do even more to look good enough for even the most disgusting looking women to even look at.
THAT is the main problem in my life. I could deal with being alone if I knew I was actually good enough for somebody. Women should validate most men rather than only validating a minority because the fact is the majority of these women will be unwanted by that minority of men.
