The only real solution for any individual is to kill, rape and subjugate. All these systems promising to make you happy are just snake oil being sold to you by those very individuals trying to do those things with as little risk to themselves as possible.
You're really just another mouth to feed, and if you want more than the meager amount you're getting, you have to get rid of the other mouths. It's that simple. The problem, really, is that we'll kill anyone who acts up. And gladly, because that's one less mouth to feed. But then 10 more mouths will just sprout up and play the game fairly. So that means even fewer portions for everyone but those who are at the top.
Our birth rate is raw-dogging our death rate, and you just happened to be born in the exact time and place when human life is about as valuable as an expired condom on the ground.