JFL Clients who are convinced they are ugly/forever alone?

[Benteveo]

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/therapists/comments/1btzy5k/clients_who_are_convinced_they_are_uglyforever/

What do you think?


@Bulbasaur

 

[Grodd]

Therapy is a waste of time and money you literally pay to be gaslit.

 

[Bulbasaur]

What do you think?

I think that:
1. It's highly unprofessional for the therapist to complain on Reddit in this manner. Makes them look untrustworthy which they are.
2. It's generally true that some average individuals might perceive themselves as extremely ugly because for the man to be completely rejected, average can be enough.
3. The therapist might simply reject the client's statement that he's ugly and search for non-looks related trauma.
4. The therapist might use "cognitive behavioral" approach, i.e., frame claims of ugliness as an "error of thinking". This is done by searching for "counter-evidence" from the client's past, sometimes in an extremely tortured manner. For example, a 32 year man who has never been on a date with a woman his whole life despite asking dozens of women, using dating apps extensively and going on social events frequently, once in the middle school a girl held his hand. So the girl holding his hand supposedly proves that the client is not ugly, and him thinking he's ugly is faulty reasoning, according to the therapist, performing the method.

 

[Benteveo]

I think that:
1. This is highly unprofessional for the therapist to complain on Reddit in this manner. Makes them look untrustworthy which they are.
2. It's generally true that some average individuals might perceive themselves as extremely ugly because for the man to be completely rejected, average can be enough.
3. The therapist might simply reject the client's statement that he's ugly and search for non-looks related trauma.
4. The therapist might use "cognitive behavioral" approach, i.e., frame claims of ugliness as an "error of thinking". This is done be searching for "counter-evidence" from the client's past, sometimes in an extremely tortured manner. For example, a 32 year man who has never been on a date with a women his whole life despite asking dozens of women, using dating apps extensively and going on social events frequently, once in the middle school a girl held his hand. So the girl holding his hand supposedly proves that the client is not ugly, and him thinking he's ugly is faulty reasoning, according to the therapist, performing the method.

 

[rcnfive]

female therapists should be offering their pussy for the prices they charge

 

[ArthurSchopenhauer]

"Therapy" is such a scam bullshit jewish psychop , I can't believe I tried this thing myself for a few months , didnt help at all , just wasted time and money, had stupid foid rob me of my Money , its pseudo science, religion of 21th century, can't believe so many idiots believe in this crap. I would rather have very intelligent men such as Schopenhauer advise me on life rather than low iq stacy therapist

 

[andrej]

female therapists should be offering their pussy for the prices they charge

 

[citycel]

The only therapy incels need is sex therapy

 

[Bulbasaur]

I would add that, if we are talking about female therapists, they are unable to help their incel male clients because they have to "protect themselves". Meaning, for example, an incel says to the therapist: "I sure do hate the fact that dating is so hard for me. I've noticed that it's quite easy for men better looking than me. Like, women easily sleep around with good looking men, but I have to perform for them, jump through all these hoops, wait so long and, in the end, it's for nothing. So, women have repeatedly shown themselves to me as inaccessible whores."

The therapist herself is guilty of this. So, she feels personally insulted for the generalization the incel client makes, based on his lived experience. Then her priority becomes disproving the statement, not helping the client. This utterly destroys the therapeutic process.

 

[Demonintheflesh666]

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/therapists/comments/1btzy5k/clients_who_are_convinced_they_are_uglyforever/

What do you think?


@Bulbasaur

They are all probably from this site