It's Over Christmas used to feel special

[Tšuudi]

When I was a kid I was always so excited for Christmas, especially when it was nearing the 24th day, as that was when we had a small family gathering and I got to play with my cousins and got gifts.

Now it feels so empty, like any other day.

This Christmas I was asleep for most of the day and the only family member I saw was my mother, I didn't even get any merry Christmas text messages from the rest of my family like I used to get as a kid, it feels like I was just forgotten about .

 

[Animecel2D]

Christmas never felt special for me

 

[autisticsoy]

When I was a kid I was always so excited for Christmas, especially when it was nearing the 24th day, as that was when we had a small family gathering and I got to play with my cousins and got gifts.

Now it feels so empty, like any other day.

This Christmas I was asleep for most of the day and the only family member I saw was my mother, I didn't even get any merry Christmas text messages from the rest of my family like I used to get as a kid, it feels like I was just forgotten about .

thats just the effect of being an incel.

 

[nakolas]

I don't care about Stacys and Chads on Christmas. I'm too whitepilled to give a single shred of crap.

 

[Tšuudi]

Christmas never felt special for me

thats just the effect of being an incel.

Yeah, I guess my family assumed I would turn into a normie as an adult, but now that I'm like this they've just abandoned me.

I don't care about Stacys and Chads on Christmas. I'm too whitepilled to give a single shred of crap.

Nice , I hope I stop caring at some point too.

 

[Xul]

Nostalgia is a trick

 

[VλREN]

It’s called getting older

 

[Dead End]

I always hated spending time with my family, but used to look forward to the presents. Now that I have a job and can buy my own stuff, even presents don't feel exciting, therefore Christmas is just an annoyance now.

 

[AutistSupremacist]

You're supposed to have a family of your own

 

[Emba]

Ho ho

No!

 

[undesiredsamsung]

you’re just old

Well in my case it never snows here I didn’t even realize it was Christmas til my dad came into my room and told me that we were going to relatives house to spend Christmas Eve

 

[Tšuudi]

Nostalgia is a trick

Indeed

It’s called getting older

Too bad there's no escaping it.

I always hated spending time with my family, but used to look forward to the presents. Now that I have a job and can buy my own stuff, even presents don't feel exciting, therefore Christmas is just an annoyance now.

I used to enjoy spending time with my cousins before they grew up, now they are just a bunch of normies. I agree with presents not feeling exciting, but it would still be nice to receive one.

You're supposed to have a family of your own

Yeah, unfortunately I won't get one .

Ho ho

No!

you’re just old

Well in my case it never snows here I didn’t even realize it was Christmas til my dad came into my room and told me that we were going to relatives house to spend Christmas Eve

How was spending Christmas eve at your relatives house like? I didn't realize it was Christmas until I turned my pc on and saw the date.

 

[undesiredsamsung]

Indeed


Too bad there's no escaping it.


I used to enjoy spending time with my cousins before they grew up, now they are just a bunch of normies. I agree with presents not feeling exciting, but it would still be nice to receive one.


Yeah, unfortunately I won't get one .





How was spending Christmas eve at your relatives house like? I didn't realize it was Christmas until I turned my pc on and saw the date.

It was boring, I just sat there on the couch whilst scrolling X and this forum. It’s always like this though, I dread on going but parents force to me go either way, because “muh appearances”.

But hey I mean I got $200 from my grandma, I’ll probably throw it at weed and alcohol for New Year’s Eve.

 

[MacheteRape]

Just feels like going through the motions now. Fake being happy about stuff I won't take with me when I die in five years. Still indoors all the damn time.

 

[Tšuudi]

It was boring, I just sat there on the couch whilst scrolling X and this forum. It’s always like this though, I dread on going but parents force to me go either way, because “muh appearances”.

I get forced to go to family events too, the latest one was my foid cousins birthday.

But hey I mean I got $200 from my grandma, I’ll probably throw it at weed and alcohol for New Year’s Eve.

Nice, I hope you get some enjoyment out of it .

Just feels like going through the motions now. Fake being happy about stuff I won't take with me when I die in five years. Still indoors all the damn time.

I feel the same way .

 

[SupremeSaint]

You're supposed to have a family of your own

 

[SupremeSaint]

Now it feels so empty, like any other day.

Most likely because your family created the Christmas mood/atmosphere.

 

[Tšuudi]

Most likely because your family created the Christmas mood/atmosphere.

Definitely, it doesn't feel the same when you are alone.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

Definitely, it doesn't feel the same when you are alone.

Greycel first lonely christmas

 

[Tšuudi]

Greycel first lonely christmas

It's been like this for years now

 

[Emba]

It was boring, I just sat there on the couch whilst scrolling X and this forum. It’s always like this though, I dread on going but parents force to me go either way, because “muh appearances”.

But hey I mean I got $200 from my grandma, I’ll probably throw it at weed and alcohol for New Year’s Eve.

Lucky gdmf SOB!

 

[undesiredsamsung]

SOB

View: https://youtu.be/1iAYhQsQhSY?si=8dWgOsuGf40p2oB3

 

[Izayacel]

Ho ho

No!

 

[Enigmaz]

It's a normie catered holiday. All I want for Christmas is for normies to burn on an open fire.

 

[ULTRAMAN]

I'm only interested in Christmas dinner, as it's one of the few times of the year when you can eat well.

 

[ItsOverMan]

Yeah, I guess my family assumed I would turn into a normie as an adult, but now that I'm like this they've just abandoned me.

Yeah my extended family (cousins, etc.) loved me when I was a cute, bouncy little kid (before age 9) but when puberty hit they didn't like me anymore basically. They probably thought I'd be a normie like them when I grew up. Haven't heard from them in around 25 years.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

It stopped being special for me around 15yo

 

[ItsOverMan]

I'm only interested in Christmas dinner, as it's one of the few times of the year when you can eat well.

My mom used to cook a big nice dinner for both of us every Christmas, but since she died a year ago I don't get to eat a Christmas meal anymore.

 

[Tšuudi]

It's a normie catered holiday. All I want for Christmas is for normies to burn on an open fire.

I'm only interested in Christmas dinner, as it's one of the few times of the year when you can eat well.

That's one good thing about Christmas, I also buy a bunch of food and feast on it.

Yeah my extended family (cousins, etc.) loved me when I was a cute, bouncy little kid (before age 9) but when puberty hit they didn't like me anymore basically. They probably thought I'd be a normie like them when I grew up.

Same

Haven't heard from them in around 25 years.

Brutal

It stopped being special for me around 15yo

Happened to me at around that age too, my family stopped interacting with me as much.

My mom used to cook a big nice dinner for both of us every Christmas, but since she died a year ago I don't get to eat a Christmas meal anymore.

Damn . Was she a good mother in your opinion?

 

[ItsOverMan]

Damn . Was she a good mother in your opinion?

Yeah she tried her best I think

 

[Tšuudi]

Yeah she tried her best I think

That's good to hear. How has life been without her?

 

[OverLoner]

It’s called getting older

 

[ItsOverMan]

That's good to hear. How has life been without her?

I've thought about her every day. Especially her last week of life.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

It’s called getting older

 

[TooSomething]

I just LDARed this christmas, for the most part, tbh.

I did take some time to tidy up a bit and also to look at some photos from my teens, when I was happier.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Its not just getting older. If you were attractive or were an ATM for family, they would still want you around.

 

[Chippercel77]

Nah, it's about Jesus Christ. That's why i like Christmas.

 

[Hohenstaufen]

I think the snow part is very important to the feeling of Christmas.

In my Area it still looks like Mid-November.

No snow, just extreme cold and rain.

 

[Rapistcel]

When I was a kid I was always so excited for Christmas, especially when it was nearing the 24th day, as that was when we had a small family gathering and I got to play with my cousins and got gifts.

Now it feels so empty, like any other day.

This Christmas I was asleep for most of the day and the only family member I saw was my mother, I didn't even get any merry Christmas text messages from the rest of my family like I used to get as a kid, it feels like I was just forgotten about .

If I had a son I would tell him Santa isnt real

 

[Tšuudi]

I've thought about her every day. Especially her last week of life.

Whenever I hear something like this I start thinking I should appreciate my own mom more, but it feels like she tries her best to make me hate her.

I just LDARed this christmas, for the most part, tbh.

Same

I did take some time to tidy up a bit and also to look at some photos from my teens, when I was happier.

I also tidied my room a bit, it was a pain in the ass but I feel a bit better now that my room is cleaner. Were your teenage years good? I don't think I've been happy since I was 12 or 13.

Its not just getting older. If you were attractive or were an ATM for family, they would still want you around.

True, they would definitely treat me better.

Nah, it's about Jesus Christ. That's why i like Christmas.

Are you a Christian? If so, have you been one for long?

I think the snow part is very important to the feeling of Christmas.

In my Area it still looks like Mid-November.

No snow, just extreme cold and rain.

Agreed. The weather has been really inconsistent here, it feels like whenever it snows it just melts the next day and starts raining.

If I had a son I would tell him Santa isnt real

Probably for the best.

 

[TooSomething]

I also tidied my room a bit, it was a pain in the ass but I feel a bit better now that my room is cleaner. Were your teenage years good? I don't think I've been happy since I was 12 or 13.

It went downhill ever since I've turned 18 tbh.

 

[Tšuudi]

It went downhill ever since I've turned 18 tbh.

Did something big happen? Or was it just a bunch of little things?

 

[TooSomething]

Did something big happen? Or was it just a bunch of little things?

Man, I don't have the energy to go into details, tbh.

Too much to tell.

 

[Tšuudi]

Man, I don't have the energy to go into details, tbh.

Too much to tell.

Yeah I understand . I don't have a lot of energy either.

 

[Qrie]

Christmas never felt special for me

same