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tacosman
Greycel
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- Joined
- Jun 24, 2020
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into something productive.
I'm new here, but all the "woe is me. Im ugly so cant have sex or form romantic relationships. Life is over" talk represent cognitive distortions.
For the other sub 2.5 males out there(I'm a 1) with little chance to have any semblance of a romantic relationship, life isn't over.
But if you look at life as one big cope that involves video games, anime, and isolating in your room it could be. but that's *you* creating that.....not your ugly face.
Being hideous looking does not stop one from having a great career they take enjoyment and pride in. Being hideous looking does not stop one from helping others on a day to day basis. being hideous looking does not stop one from being a great uncle, brother, son, etc. Being hideous looking does not stop one from going skydiving or restoring a classic car or learning to speak Spanish.
Being hideous looking does prevent us(or make it very hard) to have meaningful physical/romantic relationships. Which is a damn big part of life yes.....but it's not everything. Far from it.
This mindset in here so many have that because they are unattractive(and some of you guys aren't even truecels by looks which is even more absurd) and use it as an excuse to give up on other facets of life is frustrating to see
I'm new here, but all the "woe is me. Im ugly so cant have sex or form romantic relationships. Life is over" talk represent cognitive distortions.
For the other sub 2.5 males out there(I'm a 1) with little chance to have any semblance of a romantic relationship, life isn't over.
But if you look at life as one big cope that involves video games, anime, and isolating in your room it could be. but that's *you* creating that.....not your ugly face.
Being hideous looking does not stop one from having a great career they take enjoyment and pride in. Being hideous looking does not stop one from helping others on a day to day basis. being hideous looking does not stop one from being a great uncle, brother, son, etc. Being hideous looking does not stop one from going skydiving or restoring a classic car or learning to speak Spanish.
Being hideous looking does prevent us(or make it very hard) to have meaningful physical/romantic relationships. Which is a damn big part of life yes.....but it's not everything. Far from it.
This mindset in here so many have that because they are unattractive(and some of you guys aren't even truecels by looks which is even more absurd) and use it as an excuse to give up on other facets of life is frustrating to see