Chad's are actually nice people...

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

Holy sheit mang, today I was sitting in class doing a group assignment, Long story short I don't have friends so I was doing my assignment alone. Out of nowhere this Chad calls my name, "BlackCel_from_ZA". are you okay? I look up at him and he comes to my table. He asks me if I have a group for the assignment and I told him that'll I do it alone. He then tells me that the lecturer will penalize me for being alone, he wanted to ask the lecturer if I could be added to his group(A maximum of 5 people in a group, I would be the 6th person).

I told him that, it's okay. I'll ask the lecturer to be alone but HE STILL INSISTED. That's not even the best part. Then all this chads friends(Including a beautiful femoid) came and start "sympathizing with me"

"Why don't you have a group?"
"We'll ask the lecturer if we can add you to the group"
"Whats wrong? Are you okay?(In a concerned tone)?"

OUT OF KNOWHERE this chad tells me, "BlackCell_From_ZA, I know you are an introvert, you haven't spoke to anyone since last year". I'm doing my 2nd year in uni. He then proceeds to invite me to his homecell tonight("It's like church at someone's house"). He even offered to pick me up and drop me off at my house. I declined, I'm not used to kind gestures especially when it comes to people that aren't related to me. He messaged me right now to ask again If I would like to join homecell, I also declined that offer.

While me and the chad were speaking he asked if I had a group for another one of our assignments. I told him no I didn't and the chads friend, the beautiful femoid literally told me "I ALSO DON'T HAVE A GROUP FOR THE OTHER ASSIGNMENT". I looked at her and didn't respond. I think she might want to be in a group with me, I'm really unsure. She could be doing this for chads attention.


I don't know if the chad and femoid see me as some neutered puppy or are they genuinely being nice to me?

This whole ordeal has my head on a swivel. I don't know what to think tbh.

 

[Luzifer]

Dnr cause nigger lover

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

No. You're a leech.

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

Wanted to look good in-front of the class while putting you (awkward nerd loner autist) down, stacy played into it because she wants brownie points (no woman cares about an unattractive man, you know this by now)

They will reel you in and gut you like a fish, that's what normies are particularly adept at socially

 

[TheGrayWolf]

No. You're a leech.

No, not white or latino chads. Women would rather date an ASSHOLE CHAD rather than a KIND SUBHUMAN

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Holy sheit mang, today I was sitting in class doing a group assignment, Long story short I don't have friends so I was doing my assignment alone. Out of nowhere this Chad calls my name, "BlackCel_from_ZA". are you okay? I look up at him and he comes to my table. He asks me if I have a group for the assignment and I told him that'll I do it alone. He then tells me that the lecturer will penalize me for being alone, he wanted to ask the lecturer if I could be added to his group(A maximum of 5 people in a group, I would be the 6th person).

I told him that, it's okay. I'll ask the lecturer to be alone but HE STILL INSISTED. That's not even the best part. Then all this chads friends(Including a beautiful femoid) came and start "sympathizing with me"

"Why don't you have a group?"
"We'll ask the lecturer if we can add you to the group"
"Whats wrong? Are you okay?(In a concerned tone)?"

OUT OF KNOWHERE this chad tells me, "BlackCell_From_ZA, I know you are an introvert, you haven't spoke to anyone since last year". I'm doing my 2nd year in uni. He then proceeds to invite me to his homecell tonight("It's like church at someone's house"). He even offered to pick me up and drop me off at my house. I declined, I'm not used to kind gestures especially when it comes to people that aren't related to me. He messaged me right now to ask again If I would like to join homecell, I also declined that offer.

While me and the chad were speaking he asked if I had a group for another one of our assignments. I told him no I didn't and the chads friend, the beautiful femoid literally told me "I ALSO DON'T HAVE A GROUP FOR THE OTHER ASSIGNMENT". I looked at her and didn't respond. I think she might want to be in a group with me, I'm really unsure. She could be doing this for chads attention.


I don't know if the chad and femoid see me as some neutered puppy or are they genuinely being nice to me?

This whole ordeal has my head on a swivel. I don't know what to think tbh.

Is the chad black?

 

[Lonelyus]

Over for you, The inceldian invasion of New York has begun!

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

Is the chad black?

Nope cumskin

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

Wanted to look good in-front of the class while putting you (awkward nerd loner autist) down, stacy played into it because she wants brownie points (no woman cares about an unattractive man, you know this by now)

They will reel you in and gut you like a fish, that's what normies are particularly adept at socially

Thats the thing there were no more than 10 people in the class. Maybe if the whole class was there it would've been different

 

[Serpents reign]

He might be a Christian or might sympathize you for an unknown reason. Be very weary of those sort of people who are more attractive than you and better than you, at least in terms of how others see them and they are nice to you. They usually want to stab you on the back. It's kind of like how a serial killer. Lords women and children and other victims in by being nice and then kills. Don't put yourself in danger by being Manipulated out of money or time or used in a way that will come back and bite you in the ass. You do not want to get stabbed in the back. Thinking that every stranger that you meet is somehow a friend you haven't met yet. Don't think that way, it's best to be alone and take care of yourself. Then anybody else they are not going to save you. You have nothing to offer people. So if they are being nice, it's usually due to them recruiting you or using you for something suspicious. If perhaps he is a christian or getting you involved in a cult? We can't have friends, friends don't not exist for the incels. You could learn a thing or 2 by being around people like that. However learn their social skills and Learn how to manipulate people around you. For me. I always play off i'm autistic and I need help because my parents are dead. This might not be that far from the truth but to be honest. I always make myself out to be a victim towards people so I can get sympathy and possibly much more like help and money and time. After I am done with them helping me I fuck off.

 

[im done]

makes sense a guy from my class(pretty much he iq mogs and look mogs the entire university)always stare at me pityfully he is social circle maxxed and rich and i don't know why would he even care about some low iq ugly incel like me.
it's all reflection of how society treats you if you are good looking they treat you kindly and respect you and if you are an ugly goblin you have never recieved any kind gesture to reflect back on society
and i can relate to the doing the assignment by your own it's better doing it alone than with some retards who think that they are better than everybody else but im tooo afraid of getting labeled as a loner weirdo so i find a group at last or just pair up with someone sitting right next to me if he don't have a social circle like me

 

[Murder Mario]

Holy sheit mang, today I was sitting in class doing a group assignment, Long story short I don't have friends so I was doing my assignment alone. Out of nowhere this Chad calls my name, "BlackCel_from_ZA". are you okay? I look up at him and he comes to my table. He asks me if I have a group for the assignment and I told him that'll I do it alone. He then tells me that the lecturer will penalize me for being alone, he wanted to ask the lecturer if I could be added to his group(A maximum of 5 people in a group, I would be the 6th person).

I told him that, it's okay. I'll ask the lecturer to be alone but HE STILL INSISTED. That's not even the best part. Then all this chads friends(Including a beautiful femoid) came and start "sympathizing with me"

"Why don't you have a group?"
"We'll ask the lecturer if we can add you to the group"
"Whats wrong? Are you okay?(In a concerned tone)?"

OUT OF KNOWHERE this chad tells me, "BlackCell_From_ZA, I know you are an introvert, you haven't spoke to anyone since last year". I'm doing my 2nd year in uni. He then proceeds to invite me to his homecell tonight("It's like church at someone's house"). He even offered to pick me up and drop me off at my house. I declined, I'm not used to kind gestures especially when it comes to people that aren't related to me. He messaged me right now to ask again If I would like to join homecell, I also declined that offer.

While me and the chad were speaking he asked if I had a group for another one of our assignments. I told him no I didn't and the chads friend, the beautiful femoid literally told me "I ALSO DON'T HAVE A GROUP FOR THE OTHER ASSIGNMENT". I looked at her and didn't respond. I think she might want to be in a group with me, I'm really unsure. She could be doing this for chads attention.


I don't know if the chad and femoid see me as some neutered puppy or are they genuinely being nice to me?

This whole ordeal has my head on a swivel. I don't know what to think tbh.

Nigga they were genuinely trying to figure out a project grouping and were trying to help u out. The stacy wasn’t trying to fuck u she just thinks ur non threatening.

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

He might be a Christian or might sympathize you for an unknown reason. Be very weary of those sort of people who are more attractive than you and better than you, at least in terms of how others see them and they are nice to you. They usually want to stab you on the back. It's kind of like how a serial killer. Lords women and children and other victims in by being nice and then kills. Don't put yourself in danger by being Manipulated out of money or time or used in a way that will come back and bite you in the ass. You do not want to get stabbed in the back. Thinking that every stranger that you meet is somehow a friend you haven't met yet. Don't think that way, it's best to be alone and take care of yourself. Then anybody else they are not going to save you. You have nothing to offer people. So if they are being nice, it's usually due to them recruiting you or using you for something suspicious. If perhaps he is a christian or getting you involved in a cult? We can't have friends, friends don't not exist for the incels. You could learn a thing or 2 by being around people like that. However learn their social skills and Learn how to manipulate people around you. For me. I always play off i'm autistic and I need help because my parents are dead. This might not be that far from the truth but to be honest. I always make myself out to be a victim towards people so I can get sympathy and possibly much more like help and money and time. After I am done with them helping me I fuck off.

My mind already knows the outcome of the situation but this has never happened to me. No one has ever asked how I feel and femoids never wanted to be around me. I am definitely cautious around them, but I can't help but think that these people could potentially be my friends. BUT on the other hand I know I'm more worthless than dirt, so why would they approach me? Is it a hidden narrative? Are they playing a game? I have no idea. I understand that incels should be distant/be alone but it's just weird this happened to me. When did you find out that you were meant to be alone? It sounds like you have experience with those types of people.

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

makes sense a guy from my class(pretty much he iq mogs and look mogs the entire university)always stare at me pityfully he is social circle maxxed and rich and i don't know why would he even care about some low iq ugly incel like me.
it's all reflection of how society treats you if you are good looking they treat you kindly and respect you and if you are an ugly goblin you have never recieved any kind gesture to reflect back on society
and i can relate to the doing the assignment by your own it's better doing it alone than with some retards who think that they are better than everybody else but im tooo afraid of getting labeled as a loner weirdo so i find a group at last or just pair up with someone sitting right next to me if he don't have a social circle like me

Are you saying that I'm goodlooking? I wish I could say that but one positive experience doesn't invalidate a life times worth of negative experiences

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

Nigga they were genuinely trying to figure out a project grouping and were trying to help u out. The stacy wasn’t trying to fuck u she just thinks ur non threatening.

It the closest I've been to a stacy asking me to be in her group.

 

[Jedi Master Cock ru]

Sounds like you found ONE nice one. Can’t assume they’re all like that

 

[IceStorm]

Sounds like you found ONE nice one. Can’t assume they’re all like that

No but a lot are actually
I don't care if I will get attacked by users here for saying this

@Michael W. Ford

 

[Balding Subhuman]

"I don't know if the chad and femoid see me as some neutered puppy or are they genuinely being nice to me?"

Doesn't matter as long as its working well for you. That's the only thing that matters in the end

 

[im done]

Are you saying that I'm goodlooking? I wish I could say that but one positive experience doesn't invalidate a life times worth of negative experiences

did you even read

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

Thats the thing there were no more than 10 people in the class. Maybe if the whole class was there it would've been different

The only thing I can think then is that he is jehovas or some shit trying to recruit you for the sake of his soul, random adults do not care about random adults particularly not sub5 inkwells, NO ONE approaches a sub5 due to altruism not a single one, go and see what he can offer it can be fun to see what shit he has planned for you

 

[im done]

No but a lot are actually
I don't care if I will get attacked by users here for saying this

@Michael W. Ford

yeah some of them are and most of them don't bully incels(they're too busy fucking stacies) it's always normies

 

[Murder Mario]

It the closest I've been to a stacy asking me to be in her group.

It’s not even remotely sexual stop trying to twist it so u can get sympathy points.

 

[IceStorm]

Nigga they were genuinely trying to figure out a project grouping and were trying to help u out. The stacy wasn’t trying to fuck u she just thinks ur non threatening.

This , btw OP is a oneitis cuck

 

[Serpents reign]

My mind already knows the outcome of the situation but this has never happened to me. No one has ever asked how I feel and femoids never wanted to be around me. I am definitely cautious around them, but I can't help but think that these people could potentially be my friends. BUT on the other hand I know I'm more worthless than dirt, so why would they approach me? Is it a hidden narrative? Are they playing a game? I have no idea. I understand that incels should be distant/be alone but it's just weird this happened to me. When did you find out that you were meant to be alone? It sounds like you have experience with those types of people.

Honestly around my 20s. I was a bit of a socialist and I tried to do what I could to fit in. And it really didn't work out at the end. I really had a pattern of people stabbing me in the back at the worst and taking my money and never calling me again at the very least. And they are just seeing me as a scorn or a Burden on them. If I had nothing to offer if I did have anything to offer. They would take advantage and then fuck. Quite off and I felt like I was being used andthat be lated and on top of that a lot of them would get away with insulting me to my face. Because I was so used to being bullied throughout my life. That I didn't stand up for myself. I'm sick of being treated less than human and I would rather be a hermit living in the woods. I admire the monk lifestyle. But honestly that is probably just an excuse for me to be a pussy. Maybe in the manlet that I am. And I am also a nerd people see me as A easy target for bullying and harassment even in my adult years now that I'm in my 30s and still a version. I often consider suicide but I keep on keeping on for some reason. Perhaps it's all this entertainment that I like, perhaps it's other factors of life which don't involve me talking to other people. That keep me appreciating my existence, I do not know. My own parents treated me like shit and same thing with everyone else. I despise humanity. I hate people but I will enjoy their art and music and food. I have to learn how to present myself. In a way where people will like me. I dress very concerned physically even though I hate the idea of being a nerd. I want to come off as innocent and hard-working. So people would accept me, or at least. Let me have an apartment they are renting. Or at least let me be hired at their work. But in all reality, I have very little skills and very little experience. And anything i've just been working at fast food joints or construction my whole life. I want to display myself as likable and successful and intelligent. But really, I am born to be unloved. I'm a retard and I am insecure with no self esteem no future.

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

Sounds like you found ONE nice one. Can’t assume they’re all like that

I don't understand?

 

[FakeFakecel]

I wish Chads were nice to me too

 

[Jedi Master Cock ru]

I don't understand?

Sorry I posted that before reading the whole thing. You met a group of them (not one). I don’t think they’re all “bad” in the sense that they’d bully us or be directly cruel to us, but make no mistake, their (chads in general, not necessarily each individual one) indiscretion is a major contributor to and enabler of female hypergamy.

But still it’s great that you met a group of people that is friendly to you. Maybe these are just genuinely nice people. I think you should try to do some things with them when you’re invited, of course I also am always a little suspicious when people are nice out of nowhere but having a group of friends really is the best.

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

Honestly around my 20s. I was a bit of a socialist and I tried to do what I could to fit in. And it really didn't work out at the end. I really had a pattern of people stabbing me in the back at the worst and taking my money and never calling me again at the very least. And they are just seeing me as a scorn or a Burden on them. If I had nothing to offer if I did have anything to offer. They would take advantage and then fuck. Quite off and I felt like I was being used andthat be lated and on top of that a lot of them would get away with insulting me to my face. Because I was so used to being bullied throughout my life. That I didn't stand up for myself. I'm sick of being treated less than human and I would rather be a hermit living in the woods. I admire the monk lifestyle. But honestly that is probably just an excuse for me to be a pussy. Maybe in the manlet that I am. And I am also a nerd people see me as A easy target for bullying and harassment even in my adult years now that I'm in my 30s and still a version. I often consider suicide but I keep on keeping on for some reason. Perhaps it's all this entertainment that I like, perhaps it's other factors of life which don't involve me talking to other people. That keep me appreciating my existence, I do not know. My own parents treated me like shit and same thing with everyone else. I despise humanity. I hate people but I will enjoy their art and music and food. I have to learn how to present myself. In a way where people will like me. I dress very concerned physically even though I hate the idea of being a nerd. I want to come off as innocent and hard-working. So people would accept me, or at least. Let me have an apartment they are renting. Or at least let me be hired at their work. But in all reality, I have very little skills and very little experience. And anything i've just been working at fast food joints or construction my whole life. I want to display myself as likable and successful and intelligent. But really, I am born to be unloved. I'm a retard and I am insecure with no self esteem no future.

That is brutal, must be hell. I can only imagine your pain, being an oldcel, enduring the incel life is soo brutal. Only few have truly endured it. Hopefully I can learn that skill, how to dress, speak and engage in normie behavior before it's too late. This may be my chance to become a socialist kek.

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

Sorry I posted that before reading the whole thing. You met a group of them (not one). I don’t think they’re all “bad” in the sense that they’d bully us or be directly cruel to us, but make no mistake, their (chads in general, not necessarily each individual one) indiscretion is a major contributor to and enabler of female hypergamy.

But still it’s great that you met a group of people that is friendly to you. Maybe these are just genuinely nice people. I think you should try to do some things with them when you’re invited, of course I also am always a little suspicious when people are nice out of nowhere but having a group of friends really is the best.

That's what I also think. BUT the blackpill side of my brain knows something is up and I don't have a clue what it could be. Why do you have soo much faith in other human beings? How do you deal with the suspicion? It literally tormenting me, It's like their playing some kind of twisted virtue signaling game

 

[Mecoja]

Since one of them is a Christian and makes home group/cell, they are probably just being nice and trying to save your soul.

 

[Dneum912]

Dude I can relate. The same thing is happening to me right now.
There is a guy who is a tallfag chad that get daily iois, that is trying to befriend me for unknown reasons.
The thing is that he talked shit about another sub5 male and how he hates him and his friends used to beat him at school.
I wondered what the fuck was going on.
Idk man but I would say be wary of these types of people. Always be cautious.

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

Since one of them is a Christian and makes home group/cell, they are probably just being nice and trying to save your soul.

That's what I was thinking tbh. DO I BECOME A CHRISTIAN? Maybe all I need to ascend is to become a dedicated christian

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

Dude I can relate. The same thing is happening to me right now.
There is a guy who is a tallfag chad that get daily iois, that is trying to befriend me for unknown reasons.
The thing is that he talked shit about another sub5 male and how he hates him and his friends used to beat him at school.
I wondered what the fuck was going on.
Idk man but I would say be wary of these types of people. Always be cautious.

Damn I definitely will. But isn't there a tiny portion of you that wants to believe that the altruistic?

 

[Jedi Master Cock ru]

That's what I also think. BUT the blackpill side of my brain knows something is up and I don't have a clue what it could be. Why do you have soo much faith in other human beings? How do you deal with the suspicion? It literally tormenting me, It's like their playing some kind of twisted virtue signaling game

It sounded like at least one of them invited you to his home cell, which you said was kind of like a church group at someone’s house? He could be trying to recruit you into that for religious reasons. That was my thought.

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

It sounded like at least one of them invited you to his home cell, which you said was kind of like a church group at someone’s house? He could be trying to recruit you into that for religious reasons. That was my thought.

Yeah, maybe he is just trying to convert me or something. Maybe I overthought the whole situation kek

 

[Dneum912]

Damn I definitely will. But isn't there a tiny portion of you that wants to believe that the altruistic?

Yeah and the funny part is that one side of my brain thinks that maybe he spoke about this situation with his gf and she said to befriend this “poor guy”. Glad she didn’t see my face though. Idk its cope anyway.

 

[Jedi Master Cock ru]

Yeah, maybe he is just trying to convert me or something. Maybe I overthought the whole situation kek

I think it’s likely you’re overthinking it, although that’s not to say you shouldn’t have some degree of caution given the experience many of us have with normies. But still, if you can make friends out of this, I think you should try to.

 

[Dneum912]

It sounded like at least one of them invited you to his home cell, which you said was kind of like a church group at someone’s house? He could be trying to recruit you into that for religious reasons. That was my thought.

Yeah but time will reveal his intentions

 

[AloneCel]

Fakecel if you get this much attention

 

[Dneum912]

I think it’s likely you’re overthinking it, although that’s not to say you shouldn’t have some degree of caution given the experience many of us have with normies. But still, if you can make friends out of this, I think you should try to.

Yeah it’s good that he tries to make friends but there’s a twist here. What if he ends up in situations where his chad friend makes out with Stacy in front of him multiple times, and get ignored by foids who were eyeing only his friend ?

 

[Dneum912]

Fakecel if you get this much attention

Nah, men don’t care. If he was getting attention from foids then yeah

 

[Jedi Master Cock ru]

Yeah it’s good that he tries to make friends but there’s a twist here. What if he ends up in situations where his chad friend makes out with Stacy in front of him multiple times, and get ignored by foids who were eyeing only his friend ?

If it were me and that happened, I’d just get out of there at that point.

 

[Mecoja]

That's what I was thinking tbh. DO I BECOME A CHRISTIAN? Maybe all I need to ascend is to become a dedicated christian

Do it if you want to socialize and be a part of the group, but don't expect ascension, Christian girls are chads only also.

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

Fakecel if you get this much attention

I honestly wish I was a fakecel tbh. I could be on incel forums and still get a girlfriend it's literally the best of both worlds. Imagine being blackpilled and still being able to get a girlfriend, that practically a super power if you think about it.

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

Do it if you want to socialize and be a part of the group, but don't expect ascension, Christian girls are chads only also.

The only reason I would consider Christianity if there was a chance to ascend but I know the truth. Christian foids are chad only . I don't really care about socializing tbh but the idea of having permanent friends sounds sooo exciting

 

[Dneum912]

If it were me and that happened, I’d just get out of there at that point.

Will have to do that several times if chad is your friend.

 

[Jedi Master Cock ru]

Will have to do that several times if chad is your friend.

Yeah, I probably would just stop going to social events with him, that and I’d maybe tell him the reason. It would be incredibly awkward and I may not have the courage to but I think it could maybe lead to some help from him in that department if he were a true friend and looked out for me. But honestly, male brotherhood like that is rare these days. It used to be much more common.

 

[Mentally lost cel]

Holy sheit mang, today I was sitting in class doing a group assignment, Long story short I don't have friends so I was doing my assignment alone. Out of nowhere this Chad calls my name, "BlackCel_from_ZA". are you okay? I look up at him and he comes to my table. He asks me if I have a group for the assignment and I told him that'll I do it alone. He then tells me that the lecturer will penalize me for being alone, he wanted to ask the lecturer if I could be added to his group(A maximum of 5 people in a group, I would be the 6th person).

I told him that, it's okay. I'll ask the lecturer to be alone but HE STILL INSISTED. That's not even the best part. Then all this chads friends(Including a beautiful femoid) came and start "sympathizing with me"

"Why don't you have a group?"
"We'll ask the lecturer if we can add you to the group"
"Whats wrong? Are you okay?(In a concerned tone)?"

OUT OF KNOWHERE this chad tells me, "BlackCell_From_ZA, I know you are an introvert, you haven't spoke to anyone since last year". I'm doing my 2nd year in uni. He then proceeds to invite me to his homecell tonight("It's like church at someone's house"). He even offered to pick me up and drop me off at my house. I declined, I'm not used to kind gestures especially when it comes to people that aren't related to me. He messaged me right now to ask again If I would like to join homecell, I also declined that offer.

While me and the chad were speaking he asked if I had a group for another one of our assignments. I told him no I didn't and the chads friend, the beautiful femoid literally told me "I ALSO DON'T HAVE A GROUP FOR THE OTHER ASSIGNMENT". I looked at her and didn't respond. I think she might want to be in a group with me, I'm really unsure. She could be doing this for chads attention.


I don't know if the chad and femoid see me as some neutered puppy or are they genuinely being nice to me?

This whole ordeal has my head on a swivel. I don't know what to think tbh.

Some chads are indeed

 

[Dneum912]

Yeah, I probably would just stop going to social events with him, that and I’d maybe tell him the reason. It would be incredibly awkward and I may not have the courage to but I think it could maybe lead to some help from him in that department if he were a true friend and looked out for me. But honestly, male brotherhood like that is rare these days. It used to be much more common.

I also try to avoid him when he tries to hang out with me. Even he tries to look up for you, it won’t change your bones and you won’t get laid more easily

 

[GodspeedPeasant]

If hes Christian he obviously has an agenda, to convert you and feel like hes going to heaven etc. they probably do feel sorry for you. they befriend you from a place of pity. not because they think you're cool. hope im wrong though. as for the foid, foids are manipulative masterminds. she'll obviously act nice to you in public to score points . but that doesn't mean she wants to fuck you