He has had sex 93 times means that's how many times he has done the sex act with a girl. It doesn't at all mean he has an actual lay count of 93, which would mean he had fucked 93 girls.
And about lay counts. I know one guy who has a lay count of 100+. He knows the exact number and updates it regularly. He used to have some notebook where he kept track of all the women he dated and fucked, and each had an entry all about the chick, all her details, how the relationship or fling with her went, etc. I have seen this book. It is fucking impressive just to read it!
But I've known him forever, and most of his sex was when he was 16-29. Much fewer slays after that, but still maybe 30 slays the next three decades or so.
Here's what is crazy. He says women often ask him how many women he has fucked. For some reason they want to know your numbers. He just flat out tells them.
Some just reject him outright and he loses them. One told him, "I have a rule. They can't have a lay count over 20." He said some women told him they want to fuck him but they won't because he is too much of a manwhore. So being a stud can actually turn women off!
But the flip side is he says a lot of women ask, and he tells them they say, "Wow! That's a lot! How did you do it? So you're a player eh lol?" He says it is not uncommon that he tells women his three figure lay count, and they get really horny right there on the spot, literally call him a stud, ask for his number, even ask him out, or even proposition him.
It is actually a horribly brutal blackpill. Literally the more women you screw, the more new ones you get. It takes money to make money, and it takes women to get women. If you never get the first one, you get zero. It's like trying to make money without even earning a dollar to start.
You can literally get women just by having a high lay count, especially a three figure one.
Moral: A lot of women love studs.