> Long introduction to the situation for context
6”4’ (105 cm) boy in my degree, met him this year. Chad-lite tier looks (sandy blonde hair plus height) and apparently from a really wealthy background (massive house) which obviously elevates him to Chad. Despite this he hangs out exclusively with ethnicels at uni (in my country the medicine course is mostly ethnicels and soy boys selected for ‘empathy’) so I get the feeling he was mogged by other Chads at his top-tier high school.
Never seen Chad-lite approach a girl. Literally appears to be an introvert in social situations and has the exact shitty personality as the rest of our group. Video games, porn, playing handball, being uncultured (never reads) and other virgin activities with us. Talks a lot about how he will specialise in surgery. He is a great FRIEND though and the only irritant initially was noticing how girls on campus would always smile at him and say hi in a flirty way, but the other manlet Chinese/ Arabs in our friend group (sub 5”7’) get looks of disgust. I know you will think okay this is so obvious, obviously femoids are attracted to Chad. But the fact that we literally have the same personality and interests, and he is not even confident or extroverted, and still gets pussy like nothing? In fact unlike the rest of us he doesn’t gym/ lift (yes I know it’s a cope) so apart from having skinny genes (and height, good face, family wealth) there is nothing else going for him.
So here is the icing on the cake - two weeks into knowing Chad-lite I meet his literal 9/10 GF (18 y.o., 5"6', blonde, skinny, great waist-hip ratio), not just me but most guys I know in our course (small course though ~200 people) would hit it and some that I know have tried but got rejected (before I knew they were dating). Absolute Stacey, shows up to every drinking event in slutty clothes, sits in lectures talking loudly with a group of 8 Staceys, takes photos with other guys, and generally leads them on. The amount of suifuel that my friend can get this girl as a steady GF is something I can’t even put into words.
Not only that but it becomes apparent from hanging out with them that they have nothing in common. Whenever we talk about something e.g. music, Chad-lite will have the typical tastes of a suburban white boy (banal rap music) and then she will list off music she likes (e.g. Frank Ocean) and he’s like oh I don’t like it. And she starts complaining that he forces her to listen to shitty music in his car (surprise, a Mercedes). When he isn’t there and we talk she says to me 'haha you’re so easy to talk to, sometimes I feel like Chad-lite and I have nothing in common' (e.g. she likes literature, playing piano, he has zero interest in this or hearing her talk about it). And I’m like why are you even dating him? She makes some joke like haha he has a great pool, haha he’s going to be a surgeon, haha have you seen what his dad earns (unholy anaesthetist/ stock broker combo)? Does this femoid even realise that this ‘joke’ is subconsciously (or not) her actual reasons for dating Chad-lite? Wtf.
Finally, he is always feeling her up in the student area right in front of us, and then she tells him off/ pretends to be annoyed and lets him do it anyway. Other friends have told me Chad-lite brags about booty calls and pressuring her into blowjobs etc. and apparently she literally lets him get it whenever he wants plus almost begs him for sex (have seen snapchat stories etc. that correlate with what they are saying). Absolutely neck-myself material. He has no idea how easy he has it.
> The actual story of how they met
So then he tells me they met in pre-med and basically she came up to him and starts asking about one of their subjects (so she initiated convo). Then she keeps showing up near his labs and they talk more, and she drops massive hints to go out (e.g. ‘wow this sushi place seems nice, you should check it out, I can show you’). My idiot Chad-lite friend tells her he is busy studying and if she want to go out she has to wait until the end of semester. Literally getting chased by this Stacey who is sending him flirty messages/ snapchats every day.
They go out and he literally throws up on their first date (can't hold alcohol) and doesn’t offer to pay. Despite this they keep hanging out. She then asks him several times to make it official which he does and one year later here we are. This basically disproves like every normie theory - improve your personality, be confident, approach girls, be nice to girls, have hobbies, don’t be a pervert. He is white though so no verdict on JBW. Complete suifuel for me as no matter what I do in life, there are still no girls interested in me no matter how confident I am, I will always be the non-Aryan manlet 5”6’, with round features and no trust fund or pool.
Time to rope.
6”4’ (105 cm) boy in my degree, met him this year. Chad-lite tier looks (sandy blonde hair plus height) and apparently from a really wealthy background (massive house) which obviously elevates him to Chad. Despite this he hangs out exclusively with ethnicels at uni (in my country the medicine course is mostly ethnicels and soy boys selected for ‘empathy’) so I get the feeling he was mogged by other Chads at his top-tier high school.
Never seen Chad-lite approach a girl. Literally appears to be an introvert in social situations and has the exact shitty personality as the rest of our group. Video games, porn, playing handball, being uncultured (never reads) and other virgin activities with us. Talks a lot about how he will specialise in surgery. He is a great FRIEND though and the only irritant initially was noticing how girls on campus would always smile at him and say hi in a flirty way, but the other manlet Chinese/ Arabs in our friend group (sub 5”7’) get looks of disgust. I know you will think okay this is so obvious, obviously femoids are attracted to Chad. But the fact that we literally have the same personality and interests, and he is not even confident or extroverted, and still gets pussy like nothing? In fact unlike the rest of us he doesn’t gym/ lift (yes I know it’s a cope) so apart from having skinny genes (and height, good face, family wealth) there is nothing else going for him.
So here is the icing on the cake - two weeks into knowing Chad-lite I meet his literal 9/10 GF (18 y.o., 5"6', blonde, skinny, great waist-hip ratio), not just me but most guys I know in our course (small course though ~200 people) would hit it and some that I know have tried but got rejected (before I knew they were dating). Absolute Stacey, shows up to every drinking event in slutty clothes, sits in lectures talking loudly with a group of 8 Staceys, takes photos with other guys, and generally leads them on. The amount of suifuel that my friend can get this girl as a steady GF is something I can’t even put into words.
Not only that but it becomes apparent from hanging out with them that they have nothing in common. Whenever we talk about something e.g. music, Chad-lite will have the typical tastes of a suburban white boy (banal rap music) and then she will list off music she likes (e.g. Frank Ocean) and he’s like oh I don’t like it. And she starts complaining that he forces her to listen to shitty music in his car (surprise, a Mercedes). When he isn’t there and we talk she says to me 'haha you’re so easy to talk to, sometimes I feel like Chad-lite and I have nothing in common' (e.g. she likes literature, playing piano, he has zero interest in this or hearing her talk about it). And I’m like why are you even dating him? She makes some joke like haha he has a great pool, haha he’s going to be a surgeon, haha have you seen what his dad earns (unholy anaesthetist/ stock broker combo)? Does this femoid even realise that this ‘joke’ is subconsciously (or not) her actual reasons for dating Chad-lite? Wtf.
Finally, he is always feeling her up in the student area right in front of us, and then she tells him off/ pretends to be annoyed and lets him do it anyway. Other friends have told me Chad-lite brags about booty calls and pressuring her into blowjobs etc. and apparently she literally lets him get it whenever he wants plus almost begs him for sex (have seen snapchat stories etc. that correlate with what they are saying). Absolutely neck-myself material. He has no idea how easy he has it.
> The actual story of how they met
So then he tells me they met in pre-med and basically she came up to him and starts asking about one of their subjects (so she initiated convo). Then she keeps showing up near his labs and they talk more, and she drops massive hints to go out (e.g. ‘wow this sushi place seems nice, you should check it out, I can show you’). My idiot Chad-lite friend tells her he is busy studying and if she want to go out she has to wait until the end of semester. Literally getting chased by this Stacey who is sending him flirty messages/ snapchats every day.
They go out and he literally throws up on their first date (can't hold alcohol) and doesn’t offer to pay. Despite this they keep hanging out. She then asks him several times to make it official which he does and one year later here we are. This basically disproves like every normie theory - improve your personality, be confident, approach girls, be nice to girls, have hobbies, don’t be a pervert. He is white though so no verdict on JBW. Complete suifuel for me as no matter what I do in life, there are still no girls interested in me no matter how confident I am, I will always be the non-Aryan manlet 5”6’, with round features and no trust fund or pool.
Time to rope.
