Total Imbecile
Honorary ethnic
★★★★★
- Joined
- Dec 19, 2017
- Posts
- 10,543
I (21F) am very insecure about my boyfriend's (25M) past
[...]
My boyfriend has slept with 30 people, some were during committed relationships, others were hook ups. It's worth mentioning that most of the hookups were when he was 15-19, he then got into relationships till the last one before me ended when he was 21.
[...]
I'm a virgin. By choice. I really wanted my boyfriend to be the same, because I value the intimacy and could never do a one night stand for example. I'm very torn and insecure about what to make of this. On the one hand, an experienced guy would be helpful to guide me during my first times, and it also means that he got that 'exploration' stage out of the way, but on the other hand, I get very jealous and worry that he might compare me, get bored or be unable to commit long term."
Source here: reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/aowrpf/i_21f_am_very_insecure_about_my_boyfriends_25m/
But as Im reading this Im crying on the inside, Im helpless to stop this. Shes 21 and a virgin, everything I ever wanted in a gf, SHE SHOULD BE MY GIRLFRIEND CHAD SHOULDNT BE SLAYING YET ANOTHER GIRL, I DESERVE HER MORE, yet I cant do anything to stop this, I just have to sit here and watch another virgin girl get defiled, in a week shell be making a post about being dumped after discovering hes cheating on her despite taking her virginity and lying to her about loving her
IT SHOULD BE ILLEGAL FOR A MAN TO TAKE MORE THAN 1 GIRLS VIRGINITY OR TO HAVE SEX WITH A VIRGIN IF HES NOT ONE HIMSELF
[...]
My boyfriend has slept with 30 people, some were during committed relationships, others were hook ups. It's worth mentioning that most of the hookups were when he was 15-19, he then got into relationships till the last one before me ended when he was 21.
[...]
I'm a virgin. By choice. I really wanted my boyfriend to be the same, because I value the intimacy and could never do a one night stand for example. I'm very torn and insecure about what to make of this. On the one hand, an experienced guy would be helpful to guide me during my first times, and it also means that he got that 'exploration' stage out of the way, but on the other hand, I get very jealous and worry that he might compare me, get bored or be unable to commit long term."
Source here: reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/aowrpf/i_21f_am_very_insecure_about_my_boyfriends_25m/
But as Im reading this Im crying on the inside, Im helpless to stop this. Shes 21 and a virgin, everything I ever wanted in a gf, SHE SHOULD BE MY GIRLFRIEND CHAD SHOULDNT BE SLAYING YET ANOTHER GIRL, I DESERVE HER MORE, yet I cant do anything to stop this, I just have to sit here and watch another virgin girl get defiled, in a week shell be making a post about being dumped after discovering hes cheating on her despite taking her virginity and lying to her about loving her
IT SHOULD BE ILLEGAL FOR A MAN TO TAKE MORE THAN 1 GIRLS VIRGINITY OR TO HAVE SEX WITH A VIRGIN IF HES NOT ONE HIMSELF