Can't get over the blackpill and lookism.
I haven't been reading about these things for a while, like maybe 2 weeks. Yeah my mental health is better as I try to absorb myself in other stuff, I still can't get over this whole lookism thing. And just observing people around me is making the situation even worse for some reason.
Like every single men who are considered attractive have almost all of these features. Good facial harmony, 1:1 facial height to width ratio, strong jawline and lower third (or a thick beard covering the lower third), good midface and prominent cheekbones, good forward growth and forward grown maxilla, hunter/almond eyes, low to zero upper eyelid exposure, thick eyebrows, positive or neutral canthal tilt and I could go on. I know it sounds silly and people will laugh at me but it's true you don't judge a person's eye by measuring their canthal tilt but you'll just think their eyes are droopy, unhealthy, unattractive. You can just look at a man people say they are attractive and almost check off these criterias in their face. Also not counting tall height or a strong frame or muscles.
Like whenever you're watching a sitcom and they introduce a character who is supposed to be attractive, you can check those features off, a man girls thirst over in tiktok or twitter, check, some guy in your school everyone thinks is attractive? Check. The teacher the girls have crush on? Check. Almost all the male protagonists in romance novels written by and sold millions of copies targeted and bought mostly by women? Tall, huge, muscular, deep baritone voice, perfect blue eyes and strong, square shaped jaw. Check, check and check. The korean so called feminine guys who are not "conventionally attractive" but still has women lusting over in millions? Check.
The guys who are bullied for being ugly, you can see the lack of those features very clearly. I have been looking at people's faces observing their features all the time and it's almost always this case. Sometimes there are exceptions, but those guys have some other features to compensate, like a tall guy with poor eye area perceived as attractive, or a guy with recessed jaw covering it with a beard, but those are very far in between.
I just can't get over the objectivity of it all. Everyone keeps saying beauty is subjective and it is in the eye of the beholder, but I just don't see that. Those who are beautiful are almost always objectively beautiful, from the marble statues thousands of years ago, to the early ages of movies, magazines to today, beautiful men have always had these features. Even arts, comic books imitate this as well.
I just can't get over it. I have a mediorcre jawline and very poor eye area. I can get a jaw surgery sometime in the future but I'll always have these saggy droopy eyes and I'm only 20. I also have ptosis which causes asymmetry in my upper eyelids (right eyelid droops lower than the left one). No matter how many skin care products I use I'll never look like those men. The men girls actually lust after, actively pursue, write poems about, stories, fanfics. I might be settled for in the future but I don't think I'll ever have that superficial attraction, the whole, complete, genuine attraction (I can't put what I mean into words).
Sorry if this entire post sounds bullshit and ridiculous to you, if you think I need help, then you are absolutely right, sadly no therapy for me yay! The best I can do is to do a dark magic ritual to get rid of the demon in me yay
I haven't been reading about these things for a while, like maybe 2 weeks. Yeah my mental health is better as I try to absorb myself in other stuff, I still can't get over this whole lookism thing. And just observing people around me is making the situation even worse for some reason.
Like every single men who are considered attractive have almost all of these features. Good facial harmony, 1:1 facial height to width ratio, strong jawline and lower third (or a thick beard covering the lower third), good midface and prominent cheekbones, good forward growth and forward grown maxilla, hunter/almond eyes, low to zero upper eyelid exposure, thick eyebrows, positive or neutral canthal tilt and I could go on. I know it sounds silly and people will laugh at me but it's true you don't judge a person's eye by measuring their canthal tilt but you'll just think their eyes are droopy, unhealthy, unattractive. You can just look at a man people say they are attractive and almost check off these criterias in their face. Also not counting tall height or a strong frame or muscles.
Like whenever you're watching a sitcom and they introduce a character who is supposed to be attractive, you can check those features off, a man girls thirst over in tiktok or twitter, check, some guy in your school everyone thinks is attractive? Check. The teacher the girls have crush on? Check. Almost all the male protagonists in romance novels written by and sold millions of copies targeted and bought mostly by women? Tall, huge, muscular, deep baritone voice, perfect blue eyes and strong, square shaped jaw. Check, check and check. The korean so called feminine guys who are not "conventionally attractive" but still has women lusting over in millions? Check.
The guys who are bullied for being ugly, you can see the lack of those features very clearly. I have been looking at people's faces observing their features all the time and it's almost always this case. Sometimes there are exceptions, but those guys have some other features to compensate, like a tall guy with poor eye area perceived as attractive, or a guy with recessed jaw covering it with a beard, but those are very far in between.
I just can't get over the objectivity of it all. Everyone keeps saying beauty is subjective and it is in the eye of the beholder, but I just don't see that. Those who are beautiful are almost always objectively beautiful, from the marble statues thousands of years ago, to the early ages of movies, magazines to today, beautiful men have always had these features. Even arts, comic books imitate this as well.
I just can't get over it. I have a mediorcre jawline and very poor eye area. I can get a jaw surgery sometime in the future but I'll always have these saggy droopy eyes and I'm only 20. I also have ptosis which causes asymmetry in my upper eyelids (right eyelid droops lower than the left one). No matter how many skin care products I use I'll never look like those men. The men girls actually lust after, actively pursue, write poems about, stories, fanfics. I might be settled for in the future but I don't think I'll ever have that superficial attraction, the whole, complete, genuine attraction (I can't put what I mean into words).
Sorry if this entire post sounds bullshit and ridiculous to you, if you think I need help, then you are absolutely right, sadly no therapy for me yay! The best I can do is to do a dark magic ritual to get rid of the demon in me yay
