I'm done with porn, it just hasn't been exciting for a long while. It's just too different an experience from real sex, and that's what I crave right now.
But I can't fap to real foids either. I have 0 prospects right now, 0 women who I would have even a 0.1% chance of actually having sex with. And I'm not an orbiter or the kind of guy to lie to himself, so I can't fap to foids who I know don't find me attractive.
As a result, I'm left very sexually frustrated. I need sexual release but I can't get it. Sure, I can force myself to fap to some porn, but the satisfaction is minimal.
This happens to a lot of you guys because you don't "cycle categories", same thing happened to me before I started doing this. Sort your porn collection into folders, and you are only allowed to fap from a specific folder for an interval of time, sometimes its good enough for 1 week, 2 weeks, a month, etc (depends on the category and how much you like it).
Here's the rule though, once that category starts becoming unarousing, you go to the next one, and you only fap from that one, you don't go backwards ever.
I used to just fap randomly, one day it would be 2d hentai, next day would be some black porn, next day jap loli's, next day gangbangs, next day 3d hentai, next day squirting, and so on and so forth and I began to noticed after a few months passed no porn was even arousing again and my libido was dead, I went like 6+ days straight without fapping and had no urges, and when the urges returned all the categories were arousing again, and at that point it dawned upon me, its just how our brains work, we adapt to stimuli, if you mind gets to used to specific stimuli then it will become less appealing, if you ate your #1 favorite food every single day, for breakfast, lunch and dinner, within a week you would be sick of it, that's why you should instead eat your 1st fav, then maybe 3rd, then mabye 2nd, then maybe 6th, then maybe 7th, then maybe 5th, etc, etc.
So by the time you get back to your first, it doesn't feel forced, you actually want to eat it, You have to do the same thing with porn. Right now I'm on the black bitches folder JFL. Fapping won't ever be better than sex, but if you do it like this, you'll never get bored of porn as a whole.
You are just "doing it wrong". This loss of porn interest has happened to me multiple times, and the final time led to me trying the strategy I mentioned here, don't let your brain pool all your fetishes into a conceptual all encompassing "super fetish" of "all porn", allow it the chance to seperate all of them as different forms of visual stimuli, that way it won't adapt and start rejecting the entire thing.
i dont look at porn much its just torture at 35..... my body wants the real thing.
1. Are you a virgin?
2. Why not just pay for sex?
