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Hello,
I communicate on Discord with a person—let’s call him a dating coach, although he doesn’t call himself that. I haven’t given him any money or anything for free—we simply communicate. He says that women want good emotions and that I know how to communicate. He has given me an example of a short man who has a girlfriend and is 1.45 m tall, while I am 1.60 m. He also said that we could go out to a bar for free and that he could introduce me to people with the same problems as mine, as well as let me communicate with women who are his friends so they can give feedback on my communication.
Here are some other things he says about incels, blackpill, and similar topics:
The men who made those images are just as unsuccessful with women as you are, and they talk this nonsense to make themselves feel better, to avoid blaming themselves for their own laziness, and to avoid taking responsibility to work on themselves.
You keep saying the same things over and over again, and once again I’m telling you that you need to stop blindly believing online nonsense, because you are becoming a victim of it.
It’s not a coincidence that there is a saying: “Don’t listen to people who don’t have the success you want to have.”
All of these stupid theories written above have nothing to do with reality and are complete lies.
My real experience—not only from my own life, but also from communicating in person with several thousand women and several thousand men—has shown me that reality is different.
Only a small percentage of women put physical appearance in first place. As the girl told you as well—first comes communication, second your qualities, third your social status, fourth your body, and only in fifth place your looks and height.
I’ve already told you several times that you shouldn’t blindly believe everything written on the internet.
These things are written by people who have no practical experience and are trying to justify their lack of results.
They have nothing to do with practical reality and rely on the fact that you don’t have the experience to recognize that they are lies.
You are turning into a naive sheep by believing them blindly.
For women, it’s important to feel understood, and if that’s missing, good looks won’t save you.
Women want a charismatic man, and that has nothing to do with physical appearance.
Looks cannot create trust.
Beauty does not compensate for a lack of emotional intelligence.
Good communication has no visual measurements.
A boring person remains boring, no matter how they look. Being boring to a woman is the biggest sin.
Pleasant communication requires attention. If you don’t know how to give proper attention to a woman, she will leave, regardless of your looks.
Women respond to a sense of safety, not to height.
Looks cannot listen. Active listening is a very important skill when communicating with women.
Connection happens on an emotional level, not a visual one. If she doesn’t feel connected to you, your appearance won’t help you.
People seek authenticity, not aesthetics. If she senses that you are fake, she will leave.
The good feeling after a conversation has nothing to do with appearance. If during the conversation you made her feel terrible, that’s what she will remember.
Looks can attract attention, but they don’t keep interest. You need to build yourself into an interesting man.
Confidence does not depend on kilograms or centimeters. Women look for confident men.
Social skills are not visible in the mirror. Communication with people is built. If you’re a silent handsome guy who doesn’t talk to anyone, you’ll still be ignored.
Pleasant company is a function of your inner state. Being good-looking doesn’t make you pleasant to be around.
No one leaves a conversation thinking, “Good thing he was handsome,” but rather, “Good thing I felt good.”
The way you react is more important than how you look. If you react poorly, you’ll make people feel awful in your presence.
Lack of social ease is felt immediately, regardless of appearance. If you’re awkward and cringey, no one will want to communicate with you.
Well, it’s a complex you have to overcome.
You keep drilling the idea into your head that being short is a big problem. That makes you feel bad. That, in turn, leads to negative thoughts, which make you withdraw.
When you withdraw, even if you have opportunities in front of you, you won’t take advantage of them. When you don’t act, you won’t get results. When you don’t get results, your brain starts looking for a reason and closes the loop by blaming your height.
Women don’t ignore you because of your height. You self-sabotage with women because you make your height a problem.
I have never seen a man who has many friends and no success with women.
And certainly, men who are not successful with women either have no male friends at all, or the few male friends they have are just as much losers as they are.
You have no evidence, because you stay at home, have no experience, make no effort to gain your own experience, and listen to the opinions of strangers on the internet.
The problem with lack of experience is that when you hear someone else’s belief, you don’t have personal experience to compare it against.
That’s why when you hear a negative opinion online that resonates with your fears and negative thoughts, you immediately take it at face value.
When you don’t have your own experience, you can’t resist the belief and you accept it as truth.
You don’t even try to analyze beliefs critically.
You haven’t thought about whether these online opinions are objective or subjective.
Dating is the same. You’ve buried yourself in negative opinions from losers who have no real life experience and spread lies just to feel better about their lack of results.
That’s why I told you I’ve never seen a single man who followed the action plan I gave you above and then had no results.
But I have seen thousands of men who don’t put in effort, or put in very mediocre, minimal effort, get no results, and then invent excuses about how hard and unfair it is.
Why do you accept other people’s opinions as objective truth? Just because some girls say they don’t want short men, does that mean it applies to all women? You’ve repeatedly encountered women who told you they have or have had men shorter than them.
The real question isn’t whether women want a tall man. Yes, there are women like that—but there are also women who don’t care at all. The question is how to find the women who don’t care about height.
There are women who will never like a man without a beard. Since I can’t grow a beard, I have no chance with those women, no matter how charismatic I am. My goal is to have attractive charisma for women who don’t care that I don’t have a beard.
There are women who want men who are 180 cm tall, and I don’t qualify. My goal is to find the ones who don’t care that I’m under 180.
There are women who want millionaires and would never date me. My goal is to find and be charismatic for women who don’t care that I’m not a millionaire.
There are women who only like muscular men. My goal is to communicate with women who don’t care what kind of body I have.
For every female criterion you hear online, in real life you will find women who don’t care about that criterion, as well as women who would make an exception.
I’ll give you an example with my ex-girlfriend. Before me, all of her boyfriends were bodybuilding competitors or MMA fighters. I’m the first man in her life who has absolutely no built physique.
Why did she make an exception for me, despite the belly and lack of muscles? Because she changed as a person, developed, and no longer places that kind of importance on muscles. She had been too disappointed by that type of men and started valuing values and intellect more than physical appearance.
Така че трябва да спрете да се фокусирате върху това, което жените казват онлайн, защото винаги ще има жени с коренно различни критерии.
Basically he says I don't know how to communicate with women and I don't communicate with them in general and he says to stop reading about incels, blackpill and generally about studies and the like. He says to work out, talk to women live to give pleasant emotions and such. He also sent these pictures.
Second, the AI analyst told you the same.
Third, you are still young and the male face matures in attractiveness until your 30th year.
Fourth, the amount of body fat plays a big role in how attractive your face is. When you have about 15% subcutaneous fat, your face is smoothed out and you become even more attractive.
Fifth, it is full of ugly men who date beautiful women, because women care more about how you make them feel. Even if you are super handsome, if you have a negative mindset, grumbling, without self-confidence, you are constantly afraid, this automatically makes you unattractive to women.
No matter how much you read on the internet, practice shows that your actions and your mindset are the most determining thing whether you will be successful with women.
I proved it to myself.
Mitko proved it to himself.
Krasi, whose chat I showed you above, proved it to herself.
What more do you want?
What are you looking for by reading these things and posting them here?
What do you want from us and from life?
Do you really want to find a girlfriend and have women want to go out with you, or do you want to stay home and feel sorry f
r yourself
The 8.5 rating is precisely for your genetics. And you are wasting your good genetics by not maintaining them and not realizing their potential.
I was going to send pictures of the people you showed me from the Internet where they've lost weight and look better, but I don't know how to upload them, it won't let me post them from my phone. I'm about 50-60kg, I'm not fat, but I don't have a flat stomach and I probably have subcutaneous fat to lose.
So, tell me what you think and give counter arguments if you want. I'll write them to him to see what he says. Honestly, I don't really trust him, but I know. Hopefully he's right and we can all find wives. Thank you if you've read all this. By the way, I'm 22.
I communicate on Discord with a person—let’s call him a dating coach, although he doesn’t call himself that. I haven’t given him any money or anything for free—we simply communicate. He says that women want good emotions and that I know how to communicate. He has given me an example of a short man who has a girlfriend and is 1.45 m tall, while I am 1.60 m. He also said that we could go out to a bar for free and that he could introduce me to people with the same problems as mine, as well as let me communicate with women who are his friends so they can give feedback on my communication.
Here are some other things he says about incels, blackpill, and similar topics:
The men who made those images are just as unsuccessful with women as you are, and they talk this nonsense to make themselves feel better, to avoid blaming themselves for their own laziness, and to avoid taking responsibility to work on themselves.
You keep saying the same things over and over again, and once again I’m telling you that you need to stop blindly believing online nonsense, because you are becoming a victim of it.
It’s not a coincidence that there is a saying: “Don’t listen to people who don’t have the success you want to have.”
All of these stupid theories written above have nothing to do with reality and are complete lies.
My real experience—not only from my own life, but also from communicating in person with several thousand women and several thousand men—has shown me that reality is different.
Only a small percentage of women put physical appearance in first place. As the girl told you as well—first comes communication, second your qualities, third your social status, fourth your body, and only in fifth place your looks and height.
I’ve already told you several times that you shouldn’t blindly believe everything written on the internet.
These things are written by people who have no practical experience and are trying to justify their lack of results.
They have nothing to do with practical reality and rely on the fact that you don’t have the experience to recognize that they are lies.
You are turning into a naive sheep by believing them blindly.
For women, it’s important to feel understood, and if that’s missing, good looks won’t save you.
Women want a charismatic man, and that has nothing to do with physical appearance.
Looks cannot create trust.
Beauty does not compensate for a lack of emotional intelligence.
Good communication has no visual measurements.
A boring person remains boring, no matter how they look. Being boring to a woman is the biggest sin.
Pleasant communication requires attention. If you don’t know how to give proper attention to a woman, she will leave, regardless of your looks.
Women respond to a sense of safety, not to height.
Looks cannot listen. Active listening is a very important skill when communicating with women.
Connection happens on an emotional level, not a visual one. If she doesn’t feel connected to you, your appearance won’t help you.
People seek authenticity, not aesthetics. If she senses that you are fake, she will leave.
The good feeling after a conversation has nothing to do with appearance. If during the conversation you made her feel terrible, that’s what she will remember.
Looks can attract attention, but they don’t keep interest. You need to build yourself into an interesting man.
Confidence does not depend on kilograms or centimeters. Women look for confident men.
Social skills are not visible in the mirror. Communication with people is built. If you’re a silent handsome guy who doesn’t talk to anyone, you’ll still be ignored.
Pleasant company is a function of your inner state. Being good-looking doesn’t make you pleasant to be around.
No one leaves a conversation thinking, “Good thing he was handsome,” but rather, “Good thing I felt good.”
The way you react is more important than how you look. If you react poorly, you’ll make people feel awful in your presence.
Lack of social ease is felt immediately, regardless of appearance. If you’re awkward and cringey, no one will want to communicate with you.
Well, it’s a complex you have to overcome.
You keep drilling the idea into your head that being short is a big problem. That makes you feel bad. That, in turn, leads to negative thoughts, which make you withdraw.
When you withdraw, even if you have opportunities in front of you, you won’t take advantage of them. When you don’t act, you won’t get results. When you don’t get results, your brain starts looking for a reason and closes the loop by blaming your height.
Women don’t ignore you because of your height. You self-sabotage with women because you make your height a problem.
I have never seen a man who has many friends and no success with women.
And certainly, men who are not successful with women either have no male friends at all, or the few male friends they have are just as much losers as they are.
You have no evidence, because you stay at home, have no experience, make no effort to gain your own experience, and listen to the opinions of strangers on the internet.
The problem with lack of experience is that when you hear someone else’s belief, you don’t have personal experience to compare it against.
That’s why when you hear a negative opinion online that resonates with your fears and negative thoughts, you immediately take it at face value.
When you don’t have your own experience, you can’t resist the belief and you accept it as truth.
You don’t even try to analyze beliefs critically.
You haven’t thought about whether these online opinions are objective or subjective.
Dating is the same. You’ve buried yourself in negative opinions from losers who have no real life experience and spread lies just to feel better about their lack of results.
That’s why I told you I’ve never seen a single man who followed the action plan I gave you above and then had no results.
But I have seen thousands of men who don’t put in effort, or put in very mediocre, minimal effort, get no results, and then invent excuses about how hard and unfair it is.
Why do you accept other people’s opinions as objective truth? Just because some girls say they don’t want short men, does that mean it applies to all women? You’ve repeatedly encountered women who told you they have or have had men shorter than them.
The real question isn’t whether women want a tall man. Yes, there are women like that—but there are also women who don’t care at all. The question is how to find the women who don’t care about height.
There are women who will never like a man without a beard. Since I can’t grow a beard, I have no chance with those women, no matter how charismatic I am. My goal is to have attractive charisma for women who don’t care that I don’t have a beard.
There are women who want men who are 180 cm tall, and I don’t qualify. My goal is to find the ones who don’t care that I’m under 180.
There are women who want millionaires and would never date me. My goal is to find and be charismatic for women who don’t care that I’m not a millionaire.
There are women who only like muscular men. My goal is to communicate with women who don’t care what kind of body I have.
For every female criterion you hear online, in real life you will find women who don’t care about that criterion, as well as women who would make an exception.
I’ll give you an example with my ex-girlfriend. Before me, all of her boyfriends were bodybuilding competitors or MMA fighters. I’m the first man in her life who has absolutely no built physique.
Why did she make an exception for me, despite the belly and lack of muscles? Because she changed as a person, developed, and no longer places that kind of importance on muscles. She had been too disappointed by that type of men and started valuing values and intellect more than physical appearance.
Така че трябва да спрете да се фокусирате върху това, което жените казват онлайн, защото винаги ще има жени с коренно различни критерии.
Basically he says I don't know how to communicate with women and I don't communicate with them in general and he says to stop reading about incels, blackpill and generally about studies and the like. He says to work out, talk to women live to give pleasant emotions and such. He also sent these pictures.
Second, the AI analyst told you the same.
Third, you are still young and the male face matures in attractiveness until your 30th year.
Fourth, the amount of body fat plays a big role in how attractive your face is. When you have about 15% subcutaneous fat, your face is smoothed out and you become even more attractive.
Fifth, it is full of ugly men who date beautiful women, because women care more about how you make them feel. Even if you are super handsome, if you have a negative mindset, grumbling, without self-confidence, you are constantly afraid, this automatically makes you unattractive to women.
No matter how much you read on the internet, practice shows that your actions and your mindset are the most determining thing whether you will be successful with women.
I proved it to myself.
Mitko proved it to himself.
Krasi, whose chat I showed you above, proved it to herself.
What more do you want?
What are you looking for by reading these things and posting them here?
What do you want from us and from life?
Do you really want to find a girlfriend and have women want to go out with you, or do you want to stay home and feel sorry f
r yourself
The 8.5 rating is precisely for your genetics. And you are wasting your good genetics by not maintaining them and not realizing their potential.
I was going to send pictures of the people you showed me from the Internet where they've lost weight and look better, but I don't know how to upload them, it won't let me post them from my phone. I'm about 50-60kg, I'm not fat, but I don't have a flat stomach and I probably have subcutaneous fat to lose.
So, tell me what you think and give counter arguments if you want. I'll write them to him to see what he says. Honestly, I don't really trust him, but I know. Hopefully he's right and we can all find wives. Thank you if you've read all this. By the way, I'm 22.
