Serious Can you guys give me concrete ideas to meet girls?

[calimero]

I am not following uni lectures anymore because I graduated so I need a realistic plan to meet girls. So far, the following things didn't work:

- Sending whatsapp messages to girls I used to know. 10 girls blocked me.
- Getting to know neighbor girls. They called the housing corporation on me.
- Dating apps: tinder, happn, facebook dating and boo. Zero matches. I can't wait 2 years to have a few stale conversations.
- "Going out". I wander the city alone because I have no friends but it leads to nothing.
- Work environment. If I ask a girl I get rejected and I can't risk reputation.
- Interpals. Girls barely message back. Only girls interested are filipino's but they just want a visa and afterwards they drop you.

What probably won't work:
- Joining a social or sport club. I'm high inhib and I can't compete with loud guys and the fast-paced atmosphere. It tires me and I am also socially phobic.

What should I do? I'm almost 30. There really isn't a system in place for non normies like me.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Go to your uni classes and you will have a much better chance.

 

[calimero]

Go to your uni classes and you will have a much better chance.

I graduated already

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Sorry, but past your college years, it's damn near impossible unless you're attractive enough for dating apps/social media.

Work is probably the best bet, but if you care about your career at all it's a very risky decision.

Other than that, women just don't want to be bothered with any sort of lonely men.

 

[calimero]

Sorry, but past your college years, it's damn near impossible unless you're attractive enough for dating apps/social media.

Work is probably the best bet, but if you care about your career at all it's a very risky decision.

Other than that, women just don't want to be bothered with any sort of lonely men.

Life sucks if it's really this hard

 

[RollD20]

I graduated already

Well.
Single co-workers or join some sort of hobby community is your only chances.

 

[Count Yorga]

Go out into the street and take your dick out and flail around with it.

 

[ShiiOfTheSPLC]

 

[Sepp Janko cel]

Go out into the street and take your dick out and flail around with it.

 

[Sepp Janko cel]

Its over for you, just give up and start coping

 

[NirvanaFan1988]

Asking dating advice on an incel forum.
Get raped and killed, fucking bitch.

 

[calimero]

This perfectly describes me and my situation and im interested in what advice others have.

One thing that I never did was talking to neighbors and getting in trouble with a housing association though. Could you elaborate on what happened there?

Nice to see I am not the only one

I had a burn-out and sort of psychotic episode which made me more low inhib. I had a good excuse, because I would just play with my cat in the hallway for hours and this way I could greet girls and start convos with them. Though it went well on my mind, people made calls to the housing corporation because they felt uncomfortable.

Btw. if you ever find a solution for your similar situation, let me know.

 

[calimero]

I turned 30 only a few months ago and im losing hope.

I actually bought a motorcycle to try to make friends but im too scared to ride it. I have no interests at all, and I feel like if I joined a club, normies would smell my desperation and get scared.

Yes I know that problem too. If you sign up only to find a gf or make friends, people will see you're desperate and they will avoid it. It will also exhaust you if you have no succes

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Don't bother.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

I graduated already

It’s over then

 

[NorthernWind]

Go EA H.

 

[BarrelStuffer]

Clubs are filled with bored married people and lonely guys like yourself

 

[calimero]

Clubs are filled with bored married people and lonely guys like yourself

I don't think I can get in a club by myself. I look really young and they will probably pick up on that. Plus I wouldn't know what to do there. I'm very high inhib. I can go to metal concerts and maybe an Alan Walker concert but that's about it

 

[BarrelStuffer]

I don't think I can get in a club by myself. I look really young and they will probably pick up on that. Plus I wouldn't know what to do there. I'm very high inhib. I can go to metal concerts and maybe an Alan Walker concert but that's about it

I meant hobby clubs and sports clubs. Young foids don’t do anything these days. Maybe some fitness related like yoga but even shit like that is filled with mostly older married foids

 

[kek1]

I know guys will go to college to get college girls in various ways. Chads will go to college parties in frats somehow, but you can go to your local college and talk to the girls there. Maybe join a college club or visit its events, they have a lot of public events.

 

[ZtarvationArmy]

girls I used to know

 

[calimero]

In the sense of seeing them as friends, but they saw me as a stalker. Guess my love was one-sided

 

[ZtarvationArmy]

Joining a social or sport club

It's your only option

 

[ZtarvationArmy]

Getting to know neighbor girls. They called the housing corporation on me.

what exactly happened?

 

[kek1]

Hordes of 30yo incels should go around colleges asking college girls out. Creep them out so much that they give up on education completely. Then only incels will have degrees.

 

[calimero]

Hordes of 30yo incels should go around colleges asking college girls out. Creep them out so much that they give up on education completely. Then only incels will have degrees.

They win that game because they will complain to uni or police and it is not worth getting a criminal record for harrasment. As someone who has been falsly accused once, I know girls are expert in it and university and authorities will side with the girl. It's a brutal climate in 2023

 

[kek1]

They win that game because they will complain to uni or police and it is not worth getting a criminal record for harrasment. As someone who has been falsly accused once, I know girls are expert in it and university and authorities will side with the girl. It's a brutal climate in 2023

Become a tutor for college girls maybe?

 

[Alexander400]

I wanted college to be my time to make up for my past but covid hit and i was forced inside my room for most of my enrollement in the school. By the time i had gotten out i was dealing with a lot of inner demons regarding some bad decisions i made online during lockdown with an e girl. I was lonely and did the unthinkable, i regret it even now. I went to the gym and i also tried to hit on the girls in my class whenever possible but even tho i am proud of myself for having tried it just didnt go anywere. Sometimes my approach would end up being cringe and i would just look like a loser in public.

Nearing the end when i was due to graduate i passed on walking as i just didnt feel accomplished or like it was all worth while. I was still lost and all that really mattered to me was not an education but to have a relationship and just have a happy ending but it was not meant to be. I remember how i got a job and i would just watch the days go by, i would be too tired or depressed to want to try to visit the gym at the campus in the hopes of meeting anyone so i went less and less. Eventually they removed me from the system of active students and i now have to pay a membership fee to get in and i always feel like i dont belong there.

I still go but way less often and i sometimes feel like i shouldn't try but if i dont go at least a couple times a week i would start feeling really fucking depressed and hopeless. So i go even tho i know i am wasting money and my time but if it means i get to calm myself and feel like i am trying then i guess thats enough for now....

By the way, i usually try and stay away from this site because i am trying to avoid sinking back into a depressive mood but whenever i am feeling really low i would come to vent here not like anyone listens anyways but it feels good to let it out.

 

[Ellsworth]

Work is one the best places to meet a girl. Focus your efforts there.

 

[Drakul]

Just go to parks, squares etc and go talking to women idling. Don't do pua crap and straight admit you're Virgin, lonely and looking for a girlfriend compatible with you. Rinse and repeat until you ascend or become the village idiot and people will reject you a priori.

 

[calimero]

 

[Fancy Alcoholic]

- "Going out". I wander the city alone because I have no friends but it leads to nothing.

creepmaxxing is based

 

[Fancy Alcoholic]

become the village idiot

 

[blackedpiller]

I am not following uni lectures anymore because I graduated so I need a realistic plan to meet girls. So far, the following things didn't work:

- Sending whatsapp messages to girls I used to know. 10 girls blocked me.
- Getting to know neighbor girls. They called the housing corporation on me.
- Dating apps: tinder, happn, facebook dating and boo. Zero matches. I can't wait 2 years to have a few stale conversations.
- "Going out". I wander the city alone because I have no friends but it leads to nothing.
- Work environment. If I ask a girl I get rejected and I can't risk reputation.
- Interpals. Girls barely message back. Only girls interested are filipino's but they just want a visa and afterwards they drop you.

What probably won't work:
- Joining a social or sport club. I'm high inhib and I can't compete with loud guys and the fast-paced atmosphere. It tires me and I am also socially phobic.

What should I do? I'm almost 30. There really isn't a system in place for non normies like me.

It's over brocel, even I as a 20 year old college student is struggling, if a young dude like me still in the social light struggle then you unfortunately have no chance, sorry

 

[FakeFakecel]

go to pubs or bars,get ready to mogged HARD by chads and get rejected by foids a lot though.

 

[Newton the 2nd]

Its over for you, just give up and start coping

 

[suicidecase]

Here is what I would do: focus on Instagram. Use Tinder to find girls' Instagrams (ideally in your area). Look them up, Follow them and message them. Make an Insta profile but fraud status by buying followers (give yourself ~10k). A good % of girls will be instantly intrigued by a guy who has that many followers. Girls are that shallow and stupid. Fake some wealth/status with your pictures and stories, pretend you have some high status job. Most girls will have messages from randoms blocked, but some won't. For the ones that don't, just spam and harass them until they either block you or respond. Try to be funny and keep things light, comment on their stories etc.

This would be my approach if I was younger and still in the game. Tinder is a waste of time.

 

[7in-cel]

I am not following uni lectures anymore because I graduated so I need a realistic plan to meet girls. So far, the following things didn't work:

- Sending whatsapp messages to girls I used to know. 10 girls blocked me.
- Getting to know neighbor girls. They called the housing corporation on me.
- Dating apps: tinder, happn, facebook dating and boo. Zero matches. I can't wait 2 years to have a few stale conversations.
- "Going out". I wander the city alone because I have no friends but it leads to nothing.
- Work environment. If I ask a girl I get rejected and I can't risk reputation.
- Interpals. Girls barely message back. Only girls interested are filipino's but they just want a visa and afterwards they drop you.

What probably won't work:
- Joining a social or sport club. I'm high inhib and I can't compete with loud guys and the fast-paced atmosphere. It tires me and I am also socially phobic.

What should I do? I'm almost 30. There really isn't a system in place for non normies like me.

Learn to be less antisocial and go do club activities.