Can you be incel and also happy?

[Notanincelrobot]

I understand that the more you think about a thought the heavier that thought gets inside your thought process. Additionally, we only have a specific amount of space in the forefront of our minds to influence our thought process. If we are to obsess over our stigma enough it will eventually become our identity and all we can think about.

I realize this is just a place to vent for many of us, but for some it galvanizes the pessimism to a fateful level. I just wonder how many here are for the most part happy, all things considered.

Yes, I am new here. Hello all.

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

if u are bluepilled, yes

 

[Evil Genius]

no only sticking my dick in stacies will make me truly happy

 

[Narazz]

yeah is you go more mgtow and swear off women trying to use you for your money.
big issue is finding hobbies that inspire you and being able to make money past wage levels.

 

[Weirdcel]

You can cope is the best you can do as an incel.

 

[PleaseKillMeLoseSkin]

until a guy experiences love and then realize that it doesn't exist you can never be happy alone.

 

[Zarko]

Accept the meaningless of your life and the universe. Get money and do whatever you want. Thats what I do and I'm not rotting or think about rope quite yet.

 

[EthnicelNL]

I am happy...ive accepted my fate and have no hope. I try to find happiness in small things like gymcelling fifacelling and pokercelling

 

[Gremlincel]

"Galvanizes the pessimism to a fateful level", I like that.
I don't really believe in happiness anymore.

 

[whogivesafucc]

i honestly wouldn't care about being incel if i had a realistic sex doll or a lot of money.

 

[Evildoer]

I doubt anyone lives all days happily, there are just moments when happiness may be felt.

 

[Deleted member 2429]

Yeah, but only temporarily. There will always be that aching void of desire for female companionship.

 

[ordinaryotaku]

If you're coping pretty hard then yeah. I do happen to be happy sometimes when I'm not reminded I'm incel.

 

[Ritalincel]

Yes bro

 

[Potbellypos]

I'm pretty happy. I'd say MDMA was the biggest contributing factor for making me not care as much about women. Tripping on ecstasy was just hours and hours of non-stop orgasmic sensations filling every inch of your body. I took 200 ecstasy pills within a year, usually just binging on weekends. I had 16 pills throughout a weekend and stayed up for 60 hours straight without eating. I've taken 10 pills within an hour. Between the ecstasy abuse and large quantities of mushrooms, I've had psychedelic experiences that make a lot of negative aspects of life seem insignificant. It did take me several years to get back to normal once I quit drugs. For a while I was scared that I would be permanently depressed and fried. Drugs are dangerous and a lot of people didn't come out of it as unscathed as I did. For that reason, I can't recommend taking the same path that I did. I've had hellish trips that taught me the concept of eternity, I've experienced ego death, I've suffered psychological trauma that took years to recover from. It's hard to stress about the little things in life when you've had your soul flayed while you spanned the length of infinity.

 

[Deleted member 6101]

I'm slightly happy (i.e. content) 90% of the time, since I've already given up and went hard in the paint on atheism/nihilism.
The other 10% are interctions with people.

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

i honestly wouldn't care about being incel if i had a realistic sex doll or a lot of money.

Will you ever get one?

For moments I can be happy, but not in general.

 

[newcel997]

no icels cannot be truly happy

 

[Weirdcel]

I'm pretty happy. I'd say MDMA was the biggest contributing factor for making me not care as much about women. Tripping on ecstasy was just hours and hours of non-stop orgasmic sensations filling every inch of your body. I took 200 ecstasy pills within a year, usually just binging on weekends. I had 16 pills throughout a weekend and stayed up for 60 hours straight without eating. I've taken 10 pills within an hour. Between the ecstasy abuse and large quantities of mushrooms, I've had psychedelic experiences that make a lot of negative aspects of life seem insignificant. It did take me several years to get back to normal once I quit drugs. For a while I was scared that I would be permanently depressed and fried. Drugs are dangerous and a lot of people didn't come out of it as unscathed as I did. For that reason, I can't recommend taking the same path that I did. I've had hellish trips that taught me the concept of eternity, I've experienced ego death, I've suffered psychological trauma that took years to recover from. It's hard to stress about the little things in life when you've had your soul flayed while you spanned the length of infinity.

Starts with "Im pretty happy". Ends with "psychological trauma". You are coping beyond belief.

no icels cannot be truly happy

Only correct answer.

 

[Potbellypos]

Starts with "Im pretty happy". Ends with "psychological trauma". You are coping beyond belief.

The pain faded with time. It's amazing what the mind and body are capable of recovering from.

 

[Darthmat]

You can be incel and not be crawling in my skin like a lot of these people are here.

 

[Awoo]

Maybe. I sometimes think I am but then again the case for coping is also pretty hard.

 

[kekboi]

I think you can. Right now im pretty content, got a couple of friends from university, gymceling and videogames.
Gonna graduate soon and probably move to another town, probably gonna be difficult to meet people then and having no friends made me fucking depressed in the past.

 

[Cam The Angel]

I really hope so

 

[Stoiccel]

Not sure. It is possible to be indifferent to it all.

 

[Notgoingtomakeit]

If you are happy you are coping for the time being.

 

[Mainländer]

I don't believe in permanent happiness. You can have moments of happiness, even a cancer patient can experience some at times, but everlasting happiness is a myth.

The fact you're an incel means a crucial part of your life (sex, relationships, reproduction) is seriously compromised so it will always take its toll on your general happiness.

 

[Notanincelrobot]

Do you think forums like this help or hurt? I am starting to wonder.

 

[Kointo1]

Not when you can't go outside without having to endure harsh life mogging and sometimes mockery.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

Do you think forums like this help or hurt? I am starting to wonder.

It's not beneficial to be here TBH.

 

[Bernard]

I can´t be truly happy without experiencing intimate relationships. Money, friends, hobbies, career, studies, money, good health and all that doesn´t fill the deep void inside of me. Drugs make me temporarily happy, but I can´t keep getting high. Currently trying to cope with SSRIs and doing plastic surgeries

 

[READY]

Once a girl touched me on the shoulder at the library and she smelled really nice. It made me happy but then sad. I still like to think about it. Patting my cat is the next best thing to actual pussy, sometimes it makes me happy or at least less sad. Mostly I feel pain and frustration.

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

Not when you can't go outside without having to endure harsh life mogging and sometimes mockery.

 

[5mb]

I mean can you really be happy while swallowing the blackpill?

not really

 

[Sparrow's Song]

Perhaps if you're an Ashtavakracel...