I'll be honest here.
I already tried to have a nice conversation with BrazilianSigma (the top poster from IT), I PM'd him in portuguese as I'm brazilian as well, and whoever was behind that account wasn't up to debate. He completely ignored my message, I was calm and collected there, I legitimately tried to get his opinion on my Inceldom, and why he thinks Incels aren't for real. But nope, he not only ignored but kept posting anti-Incel content a few hours after.
These people are there just to collect karma/Reddit points, and nothing else. It's actually good for them to make our lives miserable. They DON'T want to help us and they actively seek that our condition as Incels is kept (that we don't ascend).