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Can we even handle having a gf ?

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I have never had a gf , no experience with women whatsoever. Even if somehow somehow a girl become interested in me can  I handle her well ?

How many of you thinks like this ?
 
probably not, would ghost her out of anxiety
 

Mentalcels are a sick joke and at this point you guys sound more like trolls.
 
129samot said:
probably not, would ghost her out of anxiety

After having sex
 
You're going to fuck up, it's just a fact. You have to learn from experience, that's why incels are at such a disadvantage. My advice? Be laid back af, make all of the plans for going out, etc., be prepared to yell at her and give her shit instantly if she says / does something you don't like, don't kiss her ass, try to check her when necessary, etc. There's a lot of shit to it.
 
prepare to have someone checking in on you 24/7. Prepare to get yelled at for not answering your phone.

prepare to have NO free time if you live together.
 
IronMike said:
prepare to have someone checking in on you 24/7. Prepare to get yelled at for not answering your phone.

prepare to have NO free time if you live together.

Le negging wife meme.
 
Sub8Hate said:
You're going to fuck up, it's just a fact. You have to learn from experience, that's why incels are at such a disadvantage. My advice? Be laid back af, make all of the plans for going out, etc., be prepared to yell at her and give her shit instantly if she says / does something you don't like, don't kiss her ass, try to check her when necessary, etc. There's a lot of shit to it.
 
She would walk all over you. It would not last long.
 
I don't even know how people get into relationships.
If they start online how does each party know they're "boyfriend and girlfriend"
Does one party have to ask whether they are now officially boyfriend and girlfriend or is it just something that you "just know" with time.
Or
If they start through friends how does one party know that the other party likes them? Especially when female indications of interest are stupid bullshit like "looking at him twice" or "touching him in a friendly way" etc. It's fucking stupid. Does a man just have to risk it becoming awkward and him potentially going friendless and telling the girl that he likes her for anything to start between them?
 
Good points to discuss.

I don't think I would be able to handle it. The idea of me having a GF is just as weird as believing that Middle-Earth is real. It's bad, especially if you're in your mid to late 20s when women will expect you to know how to act.


VST said:
I don't even know how people get into relationships.
If they start online how does each party know they're "boyfriend and girlfriend"
Does one party have  to ask whether they are now officially boyfriend and girlfriend or is it just something that you "just know" with time.
Or  
If they start through friends how does one party know that the other party likes them? Especially when female indications of interest are stupid bullshit like "looking at him twice" or "touching him in a friendly way" etc. It's fucking stupid. Does a man just have to risk it becoming awkward and him potentially going friendless and telling the girl that he likes her for anything to start between them?

My thoughts as well.
 
VST said:
I don't even know how people get into relationships.
If they start online how does each party know they're "boyfriend and girlfriend"
Does one party have  to ask whether they are now officially boyfriend and girlfriend or is it just something that you "just know" with time.
Or  
If they start through friends how does one party know that the other party likes them? Especially when female indications of interest are stupid bullshit like "looking at him twice" or "touching him in a friendly way" etc. It's fucking stupid. Does a man just have to risk it becoming awkward and him potentially going friendless and telling the girl that he likes her for anything to start between them?

You want to let the womyn ask. If things go really well, you'll never have to ask as you'll be smashing regularly and she will make her feelings known. I never, ever ask to go steady or anything like that. It will just happen. And all that means is that you'll be having regular sex. The foid will let you know, she will ask in time. If not, at best it's a fwb situation.

The friends game is wack and almost never works out, especially for us. You have to ask them out and make sure they know it's a date. When it springs up organically, she'll either straight up start making out with you, or a lot of play fighting will commence. If she's all smiles and constantly trying to wrestle or mess with you, she most likely wants the cock.
 
No, Gfs are expensive and once they notice you are a shut-in introvert they will run away.
 
I am not sure. It would be tough knowing she wouldn't truly be attracted to me.
 
The real question is, can the gf handle ME?
 
I'd probably try to smash as soon as possible and stop giving a fuck afterwards
 
Miro Chad said:
No, Gfs are expensive and once they notice you are a shut-in introvert they will run away.

Beta bux theme is too strong here. You can have a gf and not pay for her shit, at all.
 
Jockcel said:
The real question is, can the gf handle ME?

If she can't handle you at your worst, she doesn't deserve you at your best.
 
Mahlo said:
Jockcel said:
The real question is, can the gf handle ME?
If she can't handle you at your worst, she doesn't deserve you at your best.
That's some highiq stuff right here. Are you a scholar of some kind?
 
No I can't handle a girlfriend in the west, because I'm a virgin and she's more experienced. Our only hope is a virgin
 
I think from being older and an escortcel, I could deal with it to an extent, but it would be very strange and I'd be trying not to raise red flags. The trouble is that I am too much of a poorcel shut-in to ever be interesting to an FHO. Even in an LTR, she'd cuck me with the first Chad she sees.

I have given up on ever having a GF, but an FWB would be nice. Unlikely to ever happen though.
 
Wouldn't be able to keep one tbh, most of them are high maintenance and hyperneurotypical.
She'd probably dump me if I didn't text her for a day or two.

Basically not worth the trouble.
 
IronMike said:
prepare to have someone checking in on you 24/7. Prepare to get yelled at for not answering your phone.

prepare to have NO free time if you live together.

That's how relationships look like when you are a pathetic beta.
 
dawn said:
I have never had a gf , no experience with women whatsoever. Even if somehow somehow a girl become interested in me can  I handle her well ?

How many of you thinks like this ?
 

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I just imagine them ghosting me after a day when they see that all i like to do is work out and sit in my room.
 
No. Imagine going to her family on christmas. They will think im such an autist. Imagine a guy catcalling her. You will have to fiight him or she will lose respect for you. It’s so over.


IronMike said:
prepare to have someone checking in on you 24/7. Prepare to get yelled at for not answering your phone.

prepare to have NO free time if you live together.

Sounds ideal
 

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