Discussion Can someone here list the steps that a normie goes through to get laid? If you can't, then why is there such a thing as "failed normies"?

[Personalityinkwell]

I've noticed people here tend to think every normie gets guaranteed pussy for just existing, and then somehow claims that there can be such a thing as a "failed normie". This is confusing to me because I still haven't heard after months of asking how normies get laid. Most people here claim "I don't know", but seriously act like there are methods that normies use, and that it's not luck or betabuxxing. If there is no method, by the way, you can't blame it on the "failed normie" for "failing" something that there is no clear method for. They simply did not get lucky. You can't put blame on someone for not being lucky.

We have people on this forum unironically calling this guy below a "5/10 normie". People also call ER a normie. So the below two dudes are supposedly equal in attractiveness. It makes me believe that people generally can't rate for shit and that's where all the confusion for what a "failed normie" is.

You're literally retarded if you think they are equal looking.

So how do normies get laid? I don't want to hear that they "just do", I want to hear plain and simple the exact steps they take to get laid. Otherwise, I'll just guess it was straight up luck or betabuxxing.

 

[ThoughtfulCel]

I don't believe there is a guaranteed set of steps for every encounter a normie has with a female. Some get lucky and some don't.

 

[dehydrated]

betabuxxing

imo

 

[tulasdanslos]

I'm interested in this because I know a 5/10 acquaintance who is also turbomanlet (5'6) and he claims to have had girls. It baffled me until I realized he was lying.

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Mainly jestermaxxing tbh ngl
also taking sloppy seconds and betabuxxing

 

[Personalityinkwell]

I'm interested in this because I know a 5/10 acquaintance who is also turbomanlet (5'6) and he claims to have had girls. It baffled me until I realized he was lying.

Yeah, normies who get laid are either

1. Lying their ass off
2. Betabuxxing or escortcelling
3. Getting lucky (maybe the girl was mega drunk)

 

[ItsOver4cel]

not this again, pls

 

[Stalin]

Early betabuxxing - generally foid's carcass begins to decline after 22 at most 25, but they were already whoring with chads for up to a decade(starting at about 14) before settling(dating) down with the normie. And a happy normie in turn thinks he is getting almost a virgin foid lol, in her prime with at most few fuckers behind.

 

[omnilet]

I've noticed people here tend to think every normie gets guaranteed pussy for just existing, and then somehow claims that there can be such a thing as a "failed normie". This is confusing to me because I still haven't heard after months of asking how normies get laid. Most people here claim "I don't know", but seriously act like there are methods that normies use, and that it's not luck or betabuxxing. If there is no method, by the way, you can't blame it on the "failed normie" for "failing" something that there is no clear method for. They simply did not get lucky. You can't put blame on someone for not being lucky.

We have people on this forum unironically calling this guy below a "5/10 normie". People also call ER a normie. So the below two dudes are supposedly equal in attractiveness. It makes me believe that people generally can't rate for shit and that's where all the confusion for what is a "failed normie" is.

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You're literally retarded if you think they are equal looking.

So how do normies get laid? I don't want to hear that they "just do", I want to hear plain and simple the exact steps they take to get laid. Otherwise, I'll just guess it was straight up luck or betabuxxing.

who teh fuck calls zyros a normie?

 

[WØLF]

Mainly jestermaxxing tbh ngl
also taking sloppy seconds and betabuxxing

This

 

[Personalityinkwell]

who teh fuck calls zyros a normie?

go to ban discussion megathread lol.

 

[Angry_runt]

You can't betabux unless you have a lot more money than the foid, which simply isn't the case for most people who are getting laid.
Women under 30 already out-earn men under 30, so all those 18-30 year old guys who have girlfriends, it's unlikely to be due to betabuxxing.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

You can't betabux unless you have a lot more money than the foid, which simply isn't the case for most people who are getting laid.
Women under 30 already out-earn men under 30, so all those 18-30 year old guys who have girlfriends, it's unlikely to be due to betabuxxing.

so how do normies get laid? Can you list the steps?

 

[grondilu]

There is a clear method : just get a boring office job, work diligently during years and wait for a female to come to you once she's done riding the cock carousel.

There was a larp on r/braincels describing exactly that, it was pathetic AF.

 

[Deleted member 23981]

Mainly through social circle, in high school girls cant just access chads straight away, they can settle down for a normie guy. A normie will get like at least 6-7 matches or date a week.

 

[ShiiOfTheSPLC]

I don't believe there is a guaranteed set of steps for every encounter a normie has with a female. Some get lucky and some don't.

yeah this thread is autism tbh. usually normie relationships are a result of the guy meeting a girl who finds him attractive and they take a liking to each other. the vast majority of men have relationships at some point in their life, this is a fact. OP just has a weird fixation on defending fakecels

 

[ItsOver4cel]

I've noticed people here tend to think every normie gets guaranteed pussy for just existing, and then somehow claims that there can be such a thing as a "failed normie". This is confusing to me because I still haven't heard after months of asking how normies get laid. Most people here claim "I don't know", but seriously act like there are methods that normies use, and that it's not luck or betabuxxing. If there is no method, by the way, you can't blame it on the "failed normie" for "failing" something that there is no clear method for. They simply did not get lucky. You can't put blame on someone for not being lucky.

We have people on this forum unironically calling this guy below a "5/10 normie". People also call ER a normie. So the below two dudes are supposedly equal in attractiveness. It makes me believe that people generally can't rate for shit and that's where all the confusion for what is a "failed normie" is.

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You're literally retarded if you think they are equal looking.

So how do normies get laid? I don't want to hear that they "just do", I want to hear plain and simple the exact steps they take to get laid. Otherwise, I'll just guess it was straight up luck or betabuxxing.

ER is low tier normie, so to speak a 4.5/10. End of the story. As for why he didn't slay well, along with his subpar face he was hapa, autistic and turbomanlet. Given that he was kind of rich he could've ascended if he played his cards right and looksmaxxed.
as for the normie question it is quite simple, pityfucking from socialcirclemaxxing, hooking up with drunk girls, simping, jestermaxxing, literally doing everything right and they have a fair shot.

 

[omnilet]

go to ban discussion megathread lol.

Thats insane lengths to go to try to "prove" that normies can ascend, anyone that looks at his face can easily tell he isn't and will never be normie. There are better examples to use (for normies can ascend thing) but jfl if this is normie tier minimum chadlite facially

 

[grondilu]

so how do normies get laid? Can you list the steps?

Most just jestermaxx in night clubs every Saturday nights.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

yeah this thread is autism tbh. usually normie relationships are a result of the guy meeting a girl who finds him attractive and they take a liking to each other. the vast majority of men have relationships at some point in their life, this is a fact. OP just has a weird fixation on defending fakecels

>implyng women have attraction to 5/10 dudes

 

[Deleted member 25274]

Mainly through social circle, in high school girls cant just access chads straight away, they can settle down for a normie guy. A normie will get like at least 6-7 matches or date a week.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

need to tag:

@Colvin76 @mylifeistrash @rightfulcel

 

[Angry_runt]

so how do normies get laid? Can you list the steps?

Simple: sub-8 "law" is bullshit in that it's not a law. It's more of a sub-8 rule-of-thumb for which there are many exceptions and not-so-extreme outliers. If you're a normie and you are social and meet a lot of foids, you'll hook up with a girl every few months or years depending and then you'll be in a relationship a few months or years and that's how most normies are getting laid, sporadically or regularly with foids of varying quality.

 

[DarthSpectra]

If by getting laid you mean one night stands or fucking at parties, they don't. But they do manage to get into relationships mostly by luck those who are young. They were passable enough to get a date with someone and she eventually gave him a chance mostly because she didn't thought she could do better. It's not a guide, they were at the right place and at the right time. And those who eat shit that they get laid constantly are lying. A guy I met through some friends showed off to me and another guy how he gets laid all the time, how every girl he fucked he fucked her in the ass, how he fucked lots of high school girls and how much money he made by selling tickets at some huge concert (lol). Needless to say, he is short (180 at the best, could be shorter), skinny fat (has a very unattractive dad bod), shitty beard and shitty hair. And his face lacks bones. Plus, his girlfriend is an overweight girl (not landwhale, but overweight).we met her the second time we met with him.

So yeah, after he left we all kind of laughed at him because of how much he was lying. Pretty sad and pathetic

 

[Personalityinkwell]

get into relationships mostly by luck

It's not a guide, they were at the right place and at the right time.

luck tbh. Kinda what I thought

 

[ShiiOfTheSPLC]

>implyng women have attraction to 5/10 dudes

the average man does get a girlfriend and have sex at some point in his life, so if 5/10 is average then yeah. it's easier for women to date up but normies still have plenty of opportunities to experience affection and intimacy, and most do. I'm sick of hearing about how the poor normies have it just as bad as me. boo fucking hoo. if you're an average looking NT man there's no reason for you to be angry at society

 

[Personalityinkwell]

the average man does get a girlfriend and have sex at some point in his life, so if 5/10 is average then yeah. it's easier for women to date up but normies still have plenty of opportunities to experience affection and intimacy, and most do. I'm sick of hearing about how the poor normies have it just as bad as me. boo fucking hoo. if you're an average looking NT man there's no reason for you to be angry at society

You still haven't explained the methods normies take to get laid. You just say "they do". In my original post I specifically stated I wasn't asking someone to say "they just do" I wanted to hear about HOW they get laid.

 

[dehydrated]

the average man does get a girlfriend and have sex at some point in his life, so if 5/10 is average then yeah. it's easier for women to date up but normies still have plenty of opportunities to experience affection and intimacy, and most do. I'm sick of hearing about how the poor normies have it just as bad as me. boo fucking hoo. if you're an average looking NT man there's no reason for you to be angry at society

normies don't have it bad but they do have to put in more effort than chads do (ie they dont get laid for simply existing)

 

[ItsOver4cel]

Simple: sub-8 "law" is bullshit in that it's not a law. It's more of a sub-8 rule-of-thumb for which there are many exceptions and not-so-extreme outliers. If you're a normie and you are social and meet a lot of foids, you'll hook up with a girl every few months or years depending and then you'll be in a relationship a few months or years and that's how most normies are getting laid, sporadically or regularly with foids of varying quality.

Rn, the way I see it, it is more of a competition between normies, if anything. I believe sub8 law in the sense that only Chad can fuck everything that moves and what not, but you gotta have a really twisted and kind of warped sense of reality if you think 6/10 and 7/10 aren't getting laid, dare I say 5/10 in some cases but that's an entirely different can of worms to deal with and I don't wanna trigger op with my statements cuz I understand his situation.
Normies have to stand out and put effort, basically, but to say they don't get laid at all is just non sense, goes to show how many in this forum have no fucking idea of how social gatherings work.

 

[ShiiOfTheSPLC]

You still haven't explained the methods normies take to get laid. You just say "they do". In my orgiginal post I specifically stated I wasn't asking someone to say "they just do" I wanted to hear about HOW they get laid.

because women find them attractive, that's how. if you agree that women select their sexual partners based on looks, you agree that most men are attractive enough to get laid, considering that the vast majority of them do. incels are the outliers. do you think that it's your personality or some shit that makes women attracted to you? lmao

 

[Personalityinkwell]

because women find them attractive. if you agree that women select their sexual partners based on looks, you agree that most men are attractive enough to get laid, considering that the vast majority of them do. incels are the outliers. do you think that it's your personality or some shit that makes women attracted to you? lmao

Betabuxxing is another way of getting laid. Also the girl might be dating someone she isn't attracted to. There are countless stories of women who have non Chad boyfriends (Chad can't commit to them all) and as a result are unattracted to their boyfriend.

 

[Deleted member 1060]

"Normie" is the grey area. Chads fall into white area, they can get laid no matter what. Incels fall into the dark area, we can't get laid no matter what effort we put.

Normies can get laid sometimes, depending on what kind of low tier foids they get lucky with. As luck plays a role, it's not possible to find a specific recipe for normies.

Low tier normies are like borderline incels, and low tier chads are like borderline normies and so on.

In your pic, the top guy is a borderline normie, the bottom guy is a borderline incel. Both are normies.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

"Normie" is the grey area. Chads fall into white area, they can get laid no matter what. Incels fall into the dark area, we can't get laid no matter what effort we put.

Normies can get laid sometimes, depending on what kind of low tier foids they get lucky with. As luck plays a role, it's not possible to find a specific recipe for normies.

Low tier normies are like borderline incels, and low tier chads are like borderline normies and so on.

agreed

 

[ShiiOfTheSPLC]

Betabuxxing is another way of getting laid. Also the girl might be dating someone she isn't attracted to. There are countless stories of women who have non Chad boyfriends (Chad can't commit to them all) and as a result are unattracted to their boyfriend.

"betabuxx cucks" and women in polygamous relationships with Chad are a statistically insignificant portion of the population. "it's common for women to date men they aren't attracted to" borders on bluepill, literally sounds like something IT would say. again, incels are the outliers. the average man experiences sexual affection and intimacy during his lifetime; if they didn't, incels wouldn't be the outcasts.

it pisses me off that I can't go here of all places without having to hear about the poor normies and how much they suffer. average men have been horrible to me and treated me like garbage for my entire life. now they want to come in to my space and make excuses for themselves, as if they expect me to show them sympathy. if you're an average looking, NT man I feel no empathy for you and you need to get the fuck out of this community

 

[Personalityinkwell]

"it's common for women to date men they aren't attracted to" borders on bluepill,

you're bluepilled if you think that women aren't hypergamous and only attracted to a small amount of men

 

[ShiiOfTheSPLC]

you're bluepilled if you think that women aren't hypergamous and only attracted to a small amount of men

I'm very aware of men and women's respective biological natures. I literally already addressed this, pussy has inherent value so it's easier for women to date up. however, it is also an irrefutable fact that the vast majority of men get hook ups, dates, short term girlfriends etc throughout their life. claiming that 80% of the male population are either betabuxx or incel is a retarded distortion of reality. average men can't relate to incels, don't deserve sympathy and don't belong on this forum.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

I'm very aware of men and women's respective biological natures. I literally already addressed this, pussy has inherent value so it's easier for women to date up. however, it is also an irrefutable fact that the vast majority of men get hook ups, dates, short term girlfriends etc throughout their life. claiming that 80% of the male population are either betabuxx or incel is a retarded distortion of reality. average men can't relate to incels, don't deserve sympathy and don't belong on this forum.

@ionlycopenow has stated how more normies than you think are incels these days

@sub8male thoughts?

 

[cryptic__egg]

It's a term for implying that foids could be attracted to you but that you're somehow doing something wrong. I don't believe in them; if you are attractive people will like you.

 

[Deleted member 25707]

ER is 4.5/10 ( SMV hit cuz hapa in west)
Zyros is 6.5/10 ( looks 7-7.5 in pics)

ER would only get 2-3/10 gooks or obese landwhales. He wanted 6+ white blonde beckies+. Impossible for him.

Zyros can get 5/10 slim foids, but not on Tinder. Tinder is GigaChad territory.
Zyros needs too socialmaxx and friendsmax. He can get 5/10 slim white foids via making social connections.

Also, you @Personalityinkwell are an incel but you're not a truecel. Also the concept of failed normie is giga stupid. You're either an incel or not.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Also, you @Personalityinkwell are an incel but you're not a truecel. Also the concept of failed normie is giga stupid. You're either an incel or not.

agreed

 

[Deleted member 20811]

need to tag:

@Colvin76 @mylifeistrash @rightfulcel

Normies have to betabuxx, simp, be cucks and jestermaxx just to share a sub3 foid or landwhale

 

[Profligate]

It's just a numbers game for them

 

[Stalin]

lol incels.co = chads.co + larpers.co; truecels prob are too busy coping to post here much.

 

[omnilet]

lol incels.co = chads.co + larpers.co; truecels prob are too busy coping to post here much.

People want him back here btw

 

[sub8male]

Normies have to betabuxx, simp, be cucks and jestermaxx just to share a sub3 foid or landwhale

Yep that’s pretty much how normies get laid. @Personalityinkwell

I'm very aware of men and women's respective biological natures. I literally already addressed this, pussy has inherent value so it's easier for women to date up. however, it is also an irrefutable fact that the vast majority of men get hook ups, dates, short term girlfriends etc throughout their life. claiming that 80% of the male population are either betabuxx or incel is a retarded distortion of reality. average men can't relate to incels, don't deserve sympathy and don't belong on this forum.

Pre tinder you would be right. Now that tinder has allowed foids to swipe for chad they can simply all flock to chad and normies have to fuck whales/sub 3 foids.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

I've noticed people here tend to think every normie gets guaranteed pussy for just existing, and then somehow claims that there can be such a thing as a "failed normie". This is confusing to me because I still haven't heard after months of asking how normies get laid. Most people here claim "I don't know", but seriously act like there are methods that normies use, and that it's not luck or betabuxxing. If there is no method, by the way, you can't blame it on the "failed normie" for "failing" something that there is no clear method for. They simply did not get lucky. You can't put blame on someone for not being lucky.

We have people on this forum unironically calling this guy below a "5/10 normie". People also call ER a normie. So the below two dudes are supposedly equal in attractiveness. It makes me believe that people generally can't rate for shit and that's where all the confusion for what a "failed normie" is.

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You're literally retarded if you think they are equal looking.

So how do normies get laid? I don't want to hear that they "just do", I want to hear plain and simple the exact steps they take to get laid. Otherwise, I'll just guess it was straight up luck or betabuxxing.

Years of socialmaxxing to the point that you have many female acquaintances, then you get lucky with one of them. That's how the average looking guys that I know have gotten laid.

 

[ColdLightOfDay]

I don't believe there is a guaranteed set of steps for every encounter a normie has with a female. Some get lucky and some don't.

Exactly, I totally agree. It’s such and an autistic mentality to believe there is some regimented process to achieving some social goal, that is what deluded PUA copers believe. Normies meet people through gatherings because they have social circles. OP is projecting his own situation onto the majority of normies because he considers himself in the average looks range, I’m not trying to insult him when I say this: either he is below average or he lacks the social ability to have a social circle and pass as a normie. I feel like a cunt pointing this out but it is really salient, given his avi is a picture of a Yu-Gi-Oh character and he’s in his mid 20s I am leaning towards the idea that perhaps it is the latter, though he may be deluding himself about his looks level as well.

 

[Irredeemable]

Yeah, normies who get laid are either

1. Lying their ass off
2. Betabuxxing or escortcelling
3. Getting lucky (maybe the girl was mega drunk)

These are spot on, especially the third option when it comes to teenage normies. They go to parties to hopefully fuck a barely conscious drunk whore.

 

[UglySlav]

Mainly by social circle maxing
they get invited to parties,find a drunk girl and fuck them.
Or by getting lucky

 

[Ropemaxx]

I've noticed people here tend to think every normie gets guaranteed pussy for just existing

Lol literally no one is saying that except the retarded "its over if you are not chad" crowd

I and then somehow claims that there can be such a thing as a "failed normie". This is confusing to me because I still haven't heard after months of asking how normies get laid. Most people here claim "I don't know", but seriously act like there are methods that normies use, and that it's not luck or betabuxxing. If there is no method, by the way, you can't blame it on the "failed normie" for "failing" something that there is no clear method for. They simply did not get lucky. You can't put blame on someone for not being lucky.

So how do normies get laid? I don't want to hear that they "just do", I want to hear plain and simple the exact steps they take to get laid. Otherwise, I'll just guess it was straight up luck or betabuxxing.

Normies get laid like this:
Go to school, hobbies etc. Make friends(who are social and do social activities)
Have a group of male and female friends.Go to parties, festivals and social gatherings with those friends.
Spent enough time around a girl , she finds you attractive(the bar is a million times lower in social circles compared to tinder and cold approach), and you kiss and have sex. Good possibility of LTR

How normies dont get laid or become a failed normie
Dont have friends, or only low status gamer friends whos only interest is video games or anime
Dont attend social gatherings
Dont be near women
Be socially awkward and low status
Spend most of your time behind a computer instead of socializing with your peers

Also, you @Personalityinkwell are an incel but you're not a truecel. Also the concept of failed normie is giga stupid. You're either an incel or not.

Lol massive cope and you even contradict yourself in this statement.
Either incel or not, yet you say there is truecel and incel.

Sure at the end of a day, an incel is an incel. But even a gigachad could be incel if he didnt install tinder and rotted in his basement.

People want him back here btw

his posts were good tbh, but damn he is actually a chadlite in motion