I gave a quiet nerd a chance, beneath the surface and fake allay of women facade, he was probably the most misogynistic, parasitic, spineless man I've encountered. Most pornsick man I've ever met too. Given short and less attractive guys a chance too, in my experience, what you wrote has been true for me, 'nice guys' are actually worse than the men they call 'chads' or 'alphas', filled with insecurity, bitter simmering resentment or even rage and like to play power games, gaslight you and grind you down to prevent you from leaving them, whilst trying to pull someone even more attractive behind your back. They don't appreciate it when they get an attractive woman, they want the next best thing and are constantly trying to prove themselves to other men.