They grew up together and their mothers were even sorority sisters and best friends. The girlfriend agreed to no pre-marital sex with each other. But this promise was broken when she went to a leadership program for 2 weeks and during that time, she cheated and lost her virginity to some random that pumped and dumped her. With all those formative bonds contributing to the buildup, it could have been a one in a million fairy tale in a cold and merciless world. But she threw it all away for one night of random cock who didn’t even commit.
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The “emotional debt” that the guy accumulated was believing that his bond with the girl was unbreakable, given the fact that both their families were close and their mothers were best friends. It subconsciously may have made him believe that the girl would be far more wary of the consequences of breaking the premarital promise.
This built up a fairy-tale “equity”. Even when you have everything in your favor, you can never be complacent as a guy. Complacency and the illusion of security were that guy’s “liability”. In the right circumstances, a guy with enough persistence will manage to take your girlfriend's virginity, as if those countless bonding moments and rich history never meant anything in the first place.
To live as a conscious man who feels deeply is to diversify your “emotional portfolio” continuously.
Archived thread here:
The “emotional debt” that the guy accumulated was believing that his bond with the girl was unbreakable, given the fact that both their families were close and their mothers were best friends. It subconsciously may have made him believe that the girl would be far more wary of the consequences of breaking the premarital promise.
This built up a fairy-tale “equity”. Even when you have everything in your favor, you can never be complacent as a guy. Complacency and the illusion of security were that guy’s “liability”. In the right circumstances, a guy with enough persistence will manage to take your girlfriend's virginity, as if those countless bonding moments and rich history never meant anything in the first place.
To live as a conscious man who feels deeply is to diversify your “emotional portfolio” continuously.
