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What else even comes close? Your hobbies? I like my hobbies okay, but they're really just to pass the time more than anything. Your job? Unless you're doing something really ground-breaking or life changing, I don't see how the method in which you generate income can be the most important thing...Whatever happened to "money isn't everything"?
I guess maybe you can argue friendship is up there. But I would say that can also fall under love. And it's also something a lot of us also struggle with. Not to mention that if you're a man, other guys probably won't want to be friends with you if you're never with a woman. Or if they do, that'll probably change when they get married, and just want to hang around other married couples.
Most people don't have amazing jobs or worthwhile hobbies, but you know what they do have? Somebody to share their life with. They might not have true love in a fairy-tale sense, but they at least have someone to lay beside at night. Just listen to The Beatles song "All You Need is Love", it's basically saying that it doesn't matter what you do in life, as long as you have someone to share it with. That was an insanely popular song worldwide. Love is the thing that almost everyone in the world has in common.
The people who somehow argue it's not the most important thing probably say that for two different reasons. Either they're naïve to this fact, because they've never had to truly live without it (arguably not liars, just foolish). Or more maliciously, they think people who can't find love are repulsive, and lie to us so we shut up. Okay, maybe not always maliciously, perhaps deep down they know how much this sucks, and they think they're being kind by telling us not to focus on it.
