I can't speak for anyone else, but the worst thing for me about Inceldom is having nothing to do.
So far, I've tried to find clubs with interests that correspond to my own, but all the meetups that I can find are either for children, or they're for women only (big surprise) or they are too far away from where I live, OR they're several cities away, according to meetup.com
You'd be shocked how little there is to do where I live! In fact, you'll probably be spending most of your time commuting to an event than you do spending time at the event.
I actually envy incels who have some type of discernible talent or aptitude; I have neither of these things. I don't know what I'm good at, and, as a result, I feel even worse about the fact that I have nothing to do at all, let alone no one to do it with. In addition, I've lost most sense of motivation to try newer things, because I either fail at them, or I don't exhibit any success with them. I don't wish to be lazy, or LDAR, but I honestly don't know what to do.
The last thing that I want to do is spend all my time in entertainment. I don't have anything against men who choose that route, but I'm the kind of guy who really wants to do something.
Recently, I've been reading a book called "Man's Search for Meaning," by Viktor E. Frankl. I haven't finished the book yet, but in the preface, it's revealed that Frankl would ask his patients (via his Logostherapy), "Why they haven't committed suicide". The answer? Finding meaning in their work, the people they love, and some cause they are passionate about. I'm dumbing it down to a great degree, but this is the impression I'm getting so far.
I don't find meaning in my job (even though I like my workplace environment), I'm not interested in relationships (I don't want what I can't have, and I don't want relationships), and I've lost my passion for most of life.
So I think Frankl's book is only applicable under a certain set of circumstances.
I do want to learn about the world, however, just like my hero Stardusk. I have an abysmal IQ, so I will never be as smart as him, but I do want to learn about biology and evolutionary psychology to understand the incel position even better. It isn't necessary, but I just want to see the facts for myself. So, while I do read books on the subject from time to time, but that isn't really a life goal or even a hobby. It's actually something I have to force myself to do, because I have no drive for it.
Any ideas, guys?
So far, I've tried to find clubs with interests that correspond to my own, but all the meetups that I can find are either for children, or they're for women only (big surprise) or they are too far away from where I live, OR they're several cities away, according to meetup.com
You'd be shocked how little there is to do where I live! In fact, you'll probably be spending most of your time commuting to an event than you do spending time at the event.
I actually envy incels who have some type of discernible talent or aptitude; I have neither of these things. I don't know what I'm good at, and, as a result, I feel even worse about the fact that I have nothing to do at all, let alone no one to do it with. In addition, I've lost most sense of motivation to try newer things, because I either fail at them, or I don't exhibit any success with them. I don't wish to be lazy, or LDAR, but I honestly don't know what to do.
The last thing that I want to do is spend all my time in entertainment. I don't have anything against men who choose that route, but I'm the kind of guy who really wants to do something.
Recently, I've been reading a book called "Man's Search for Meaning," by Viktor E. Frankl. I haven't finished the book yet, but in the preface, it's revealed that Frankl would ask his patients (via his Logostherapy), "Why they haven't committed suicide". The answer? Finding meaning in their work, the people they love, and some cause they are passionate about. I'm dumbing it down to a great degree, but this is the impression I'm getting so far.
I don't find meaning in my job (even though I like my workplace environment), I'm not interested in relationships (I don't want what I can't have, and I don't want relationships), and I've lost my passion for most of life.
So I think Frankl's book is only applicable under a certain set of circumstances.
I do want to learn about the world, however, just like my hero Stardusk. I have an abysmal IQ, so I will never be as smart as him, but I do want to learn about biology and evolutionary psychology to understand the incel position even better. It isn't necessary, but I just want to see the facts for myself. So, while I do read books on the subject from time to time, but that isn't really a life goal or even a hobby. It's actually something I have to force myself to do, because I have no drive for it.
Any ideas, guys?
