He's genuinely deep into the blackpill ideology and has been for years (he's currently just 20), and it's disheartening to witness. His views about women are derogatory, demeaning, and perpetuate the same harmful narrative that I once believed in myself. He not only uses slurs like the F-word to refer to women but also talks about them like they were merely objects, fueling the very attitudes I've worked so hard to leave behind.
He has stuck to rhetoric claiming "it's all looks and being NT" (neurotypical), and focuses almost all of his attention on his appearance. The thing is, I still haven't had any luck with women so far; I am 24 and still a virgin. I'm short (5'4), would say I have an average face (realized it after battling my BDD), am white, thankfully have a full head of hair, and have autism. I've taken every rejection well so far and just focus on socializing with people and having fun, but romantically nothing's come out of it so far.
But my friend has slept with 2 girls in the last few months, kissed 3, and gone on dates with even more. He says he meets them on online apps like Bumble and Tinder. For further reference, Al went on a weight loss journey, grew his hair out, bought rings, started wearing lifts, baggy clothes, and had a cosmetic surgery I won't call by name. He keeps saying he's "zoomer prettyboymaxxing," basically emphasizing his youth and blending into modern culture. I will say his face is average or a bit above, and he's 5'5 (same height as I am).
