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Story [Blackpill] I told a girl I liked her some time ago, this was her response

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I was reading some of the oneitis posts here... and It reminded me of the time I've got rejected by text message... It was the final nail in the coffin for me. Since then I've given up

I still have her message saved, here you go:

"so about the other subject, anon.. to be fair I'm quite the airhead to notice some stuff, but I had my suspicions...
I agree, we get along really well, I really enjoy talking to you, I think you're a great guy, and I also think you're a very genuine person.
And to be honest, nowadays It's just so hard to find a guy like you, you know?

I'm not going to lie, the thought has crossed my mind, but I have this mental barrier that prevents me from getting into a relationship just because the other person is worth it, ya know?
I don't know... I just can't...
I might be wrong, maybe someday I'll regret it.

Try not to take it too hard.. really... I like you, but... I only see you as a friend."


tehee

Groundhog


It was so brutal at the time... I know she was trying to be polite about it, but women don't seem to realize how brutal it is to be told what essentially amounts to "I want a guy kinda like you, but attractive." or..."I want a guy like you but with better bone configuration".

The part about the mental barrier thing JFL... so fucking bullshit... Like "I have this barrier... but only Chad can go through it"
JFL

It's my personality, IT! I need to take more showers, I need therapy.. that'd fix my unattractive face... of course
anyway... It's fucking over!
im done
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Call her a shallow whore and that's all she'll be good for.
 
Fucking virtue signalling cunt.
 
brutal man, some days I wondered what it would feel like to have a oneitis, but some days I'm glad I never really had one
 
I prefer foids that are brutally honest than the manipulative ones that only want to keep you as a beta orbiter
 
Brutal.

I have been rejected tons of times, but the ones that hurt the most were the first ones. I will always remember one of them
- IsolationHurts: We like the same things, we are best friends, we love to talk, i know everything about you, you know everything about me, every guy youve talked me about have treated you badly but you know i would never do that, you say that you want a bf and i want a gf, i realy like you, etc... Want to go on a date with me?
- *Visibly disgusted* "Wait... WHAT? IsolationHurts... have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror? No, Isolation, no. I dont want to date you" *Nervous and loud laugh* *Changes the subject*

Then, after i accompanied her to her flat (as i always did as a good orbiter) she ignored me for the rest of her life like we never ever met.
I could not even understand her at that time. I was so bluepilled. You can be so bluepilled that you dont even perceive what is in front of you since you were born.
This happened irl, before social media was so wide spread, and way way before the tinderpocalypse. She actually told me that dating me wasnt even a possibility given my physical appearance. I will never forget it.
And you know what did i do after that and for many years? Still trying to enhance my personality lmao.
 
Just don't be worth it theory

She might as well have said " eww gross youre ugly" than type all that rubbish.
Brutal.

I have been rejected tons of times, but the ones that hurt the most were the first ones. I will always remember one of them
- IsolationHurts: We like the same things, we are best friends, we love to talk, i know everything about you, you know everything about me, every guy youve talked me about have treated you badly but you know i would never do that, you say that you want a bf and i want a gf, i realy like you, etc... Want to go on a date with me?
- *Visibly disgusted* "Wait... WHAT? IsolationHurts... have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror? No, Isolation, no. I dont want to date you" *Nervous and loud laugh* *Changes the subject*

Then, after i accompanied her to her flat (as i always did as a good orbiter) she ignored me for the rest of her life like we never ever met.
I could not even understand her at that time. I was so bluepilled. You can be so bluepilled that you dont even perceive what is in front of you since you were born.
This happened irl, before social media was so wide spread, and way way before the tinderpocalypse. She actually told me that dating me wasnt even a possibility given my physical appearance. I will never forget it.
And you know what did i do after that and for many years? Still trying to enhance my personality lmao.

Lets hope she gets beat up by an abusive asshole.
 
This should be the intro of every "Blacks on blonde" video on Pornhub
 
She’s getting fucked by a superior male as we speak
 
It does not matter whether you are nice or a hateful mysogynist.
If you are ugly, you are disqualified.
 
Holy shit man. She hit you with the most cliche rejection.
 
You should never ever spill the beans to any girl like that. Only the chad can get away with it and not ruin the attraction (if she even had any for you in the first place)
 
I told thousands of girls i liked "hey i like you"

And in 100% of the cases, 100/100 of the fucking cases, what I got was a


NO.
 
Cruel, vile creatures. No idea why you're saving it, unless it's a reminder to never get attached to a foid or develop oneitis.
 
The night after she said that, she fucked your high school bully. The really nasty one. Him. She fucked him.
 
Brutal.

I have been rejected tons of times, but the ones that hurt the most were the first ones. I will always remember one of them
- IsolationHurts: We like the same things, we are best friends, we love to talk, i know everything about you, you know everything about me, every guy youve talked me about have treated you badly but you know i would never do that, you say that you want a bf and i want a gf, i realy like you, etc... Want to go on a date with me?
- *Visibly disgusted* "Wait... WHAT? IsolationHurts... have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror? No, Isolation, no. I dont want to date you" *Nervous and loud laugh* *Changes the subject*

Then, after i accompanied her to her flat (as i always did as a good orbiter) she ignored me for the rest of her life like we never ever met.
I could not even understand her at that time. I was so bluepilled. You can be so bluepilled that you dont even perceive what is in front of you since you were born.
This happened irl, before social media was so wide spread, and way way before the tinderpocalypse. She actually told me that dating me wasnt even a possibility given my physical appearance. I will never forget it.
And you know what did i do after that and for many years? Still trying to enhance my personality lmao.
When they're polite it's already brutal but this is really strong suicidefuel, like i would have never leaft the house again if someone had told me that in teen years.My most brutal was getting ignored and blocked on WhatsApp by a girl who just belived I was approaching her, another one said I was a stalker because I told her I saw her Facebook profile and she was a 2/10 no joke ugliest girl in the whole school ded srs
 
That fucking hurt to read. My instant thought was "sure, a 'mental barrier,' probably doesn't apply to chad."
 
OP it's over, even if she decides to give you a chance it won't last,

without physical attraction you'll have nothing to fall back on when you do wrong or there is disagreement, and if you date exclusively she will resent you for being ugly and holding her off from sexual pleasure, which means you will get cucked or just dumped. You would be lucky tomget starfish sex or any physical affection in such a relationship.

So if she "gave you a chance" it wouldn't even be a relationship to begin with. She is not attracted to you, she cannot force herself to be.

My advice would be to take a break from her indefinitely, ASAP. This is 100% the best course of action whatever your intent is; unless you're soyfag who wants to figuratively castrate themselves and hangout with women wihout getting any.
 
Had the exact same thing said to me before as well. But hey, it’s my personality right?
 
Apparently you were too good for her, she knew you deserved a better gf and would find a girl that would truly live up to you.

I bet she thought of herself as a kind and caring person after saying that humiliating rosy bullshit to you. +100 bonus points to her inflated self-esteem.
 
FUCK THAT WHORE tbh
The night after she said that, she fucked your high school bully. The really nasty one. Him. She fucked him.
:feelscry:
You should never ever spill the beans to any girl like that. Only the chad can get away with it and not ruin the attraction (if she even had any for you in the first place)
:redpill::redpill::feelsugh::feelsugh:
 
I hope you ghosted her immediately.
 
I was reading some of the oneitis posts here... and It reminded me of the time I've got rejected by text message... It was the final nail in the coffin for me. Since then I've given up

I still have her message saved, here you go:

"so about the other subject, anon.. to be fair I'm quite the airhead to notice some stuff, but I had my suspicions...
I agree, we get along really well, I really enjoy talking to you, I think you're a great guy, and I also think you're a very genuine person.
And to be honest, nowadays It's just so hard to find a guy like you, you know?

I'm not going to lie, the thought has crossed my mind, but I have this mental barrier that prevents me from getting into a relationship just because the other person is worth it, ya know?
I don't know... I just can't...
I might be wrong, maybe someday I'll regret it.

Try not to take it too hard.. really... I like you, but... I only see you as a friend."


tehee

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It was so brutal at the time... I know she was trying to be polite about it, but women don't seem to realize how brutal it is to be told what essentially amounts to "I want a guy kinda like you, but attractive." or..."I want a guy like you but with better bone configuration".

The part about the mental barrier thing JFL... so fucking bullshit... Like "I have this barrier... but only Chad can go through it"
JFL

It's my personality, IT! I need to take more showers, I need therapy.. that'd fix my unattractive face... of course
anyway... It's fucking over!
im done
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I feel your pain OP, that is brutal, sorry you had to go through that.
Btw r u white and at least a 5 facially?
 
You should never ever spill the beans to any girl like that.
jfl
like @ionlycopenow said... this is redpill cringe
there was no attraction to begin with, she only wanted me as an orbiter
and It's not like I said something cringe or stupid
I just said we got along well and I liked her... that was it
you can't force attraction... there's no set of magical words you can say to make someone attracted to you

OP it's over, even if she decides to give you a chance it won't last,

without physical attraction you'll have nothing to fall back on when you do wrong or there is disagreement, and if you date exclusively she will resent you for being ugly and holding her off from sexual pleasure, which means you will get cucked or just dumped. You would be lucky tomget starfish sex or any physical affection in such a relationship.

So if she "gave you a chance" it wouldn't even be a relationship to begin with. She is not attracted to you, she cannot force herself to be.

My advice would be to take a break from her indefinitely, ASAP. This is 100% the best course of action whatever your intent is; unless you're soyfag who wants to figuratively castrate themselves and hangout with women wihout getting any.
yeah, man
thanks for taking the time to write this, but I've learned this the hard the way
if she's not attracted to you... It's fucking over
You can't force attraction
This happened years ago, when I still believed your behavior, your personality could somehow make up for your looks
I was bluepilled and delusional...
I'm not a soyfaggot... It's been years since we last spoke
but thanks for the advice anyway

I hope you ghosted her immediately.
yes... I told her I needed time to process everything
and now It's been years since we last spoke to each other
 
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- *Visibly disgusted* "Wait... WHAT? IsolationHurts... have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror? No, Isolation, no. I dont want to date you"
This happened irl, She actually told me that dating me wasnt even a possibility given my physical appearance. I will never forget it.
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first time i confided i had a crush on somebody was in 3rd grade. told a "friend" which girl i had a crush on after he pestered me. immediately went and told her. shock and disgust on her face.
 
When foids do this or "I love you as a friend" or "I see you as a brother", evil creatures will never even look at us as living creatures unless we manage to be 6/10+, and then not as possible partners until we're 7/10+
 
I was reading some of the oneitis posts here... and It reminded me of the time I've got rejected by text message... It was the final nail in the coffin for me. Since then I've given up

I still have her message saved, here you go:

"so about the other subject, anon.. to be fair I'm quite the airhead to notice some stuff, but I had my suspicions...
I agree, we get along really well, I really enjoy talking to you, I think you're a great guy, and I also think you're a very genuine person.
And to be honest, nowadays It's just so hard to find a guy like you, you know?

I'm not going to lie, the thought has crossed my mind, but I have this mental barrier that prevents me from getting into a relationship just because the other person is worth it, ya know?
I don't know... I just can't...
I might be wrong, maybe someday I'll regret it.

Try not to take it too hard.. really... I like you, but... I only see you as a friend."


tehee

View attachment 245429

It was so brutal at the time... I know she was trying to be polite about it, but women don't seem to realize how brutal it is to be told what essentially amounts to "I want a guy kinda like you, but attractive." or..."I want a guy like you but with better bone configuration".

The part about the mental barrier thing JFL... so fucking bullshit... Like "I have this barrier... but only Chad can go through it"
JFL

It's my personality, IT! I need to take more showers, I need therapy.. that'd fix my unattractive face... of course
anyway... It's fucking over!
im done
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Did you try getting a haircut and watching a movie with a strong female protagonist?
 
Dude i got a nice answer to her, picking up b3atches on the internet is so easy. When did that happen? I can write you some good lines to get something off that poor foid.
 
Mogs me cause girls text him
 
Foidspeak translation: "I'm rejecting you because of your looks, but I don't want to be known as the shallow whore that I am."
 

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