Best Friend is back down from uni and didn't even bother to contact me

[AlexanderR97]

usually he texts me the day he comes down but its been a day and he hasn't even texted me... I guess ive been forgotten and replaced... 

feelsbadman

 

[non_factor]

Maybe try texting him first?

 

[Deleted member 1627]

Maybe try texting him first?

He said he normally texts him

 

[AlexanderR97]

Maybe try texting him first?

its been a process but ive slowly been getting replaced over the past few months since he moved. This was inevitable. No point in texting somebody who doesn't want anything to do with you anymore.

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Maybe try texting him first?

He said he normally texts him

exactly... If he wants to hang out he usually texts me saying that hes down to visit. I'm not going to text him because that would look clingy. Just imagine "hey I saw you were down here to visit just wondering if you want to hang out?" makes me look pathetic.

 

[non_factor]

its been a process but ive slowly been getting replaced over the past few months since he moved. This was inevitable. No point in texting somebody who doesn't want anything to do with you anymore.

How do you know he doesn't want anything to do with you?Maybe he assumes you don't want anything to do with him since he always has to text you first.

When you're alone all the time you realize how valuable friends are,hold on to them dude.

 

[AlexanderR97]

its been a process but ive slowly been getting replaced over the past few months since he moved. This was inevitable. No point in texting somebody who doesn't want anything to do with you anymore.

How do you know he doesn't want anything to do with you?Maybe he assumes you don't want anything to do with him since he always has to text you first.
When you're alone all the time you realize how valuable friends are,hold on to them dude.

I think he just found better people to hang out with instead and hanging out with me would be a waste of time. Ever since he moved away to uni he has a new social circle and seems great. Can't say I blame him but it kinda sucks. I guess thats life :/

 

[non_factor]

I think he just found better people to hang out with instead and hanging out with me would be a waste of time. Ever since he moved away to uni he has a new social circle and seems great. Can't say I blame him but it kinda sucks. I guess thats life :/

You're overthinking this so much.If you wanna hang out with him ask him,what do you have to lose?Fear of rejection is the dumbest thing there is.

 

[AlexanderR97]

I think he just found better people to hang out with instead and hanging out with me would be a waste of time. Ever since he moved away to uni he has a new social circle and seems great. Can't say I blame him but it kinda sucks. I guess thats life :/

You're overthinking this so much.If you wanna hang out with him ask him,what do you have to lose?Fear of rejection is the dumbest thing there is.

I'm not saying he will reject me. In fact im sure we will hang out if I ask but I feel like it will only be out of pity or boredom rather than him wanting me. Which is the main reason why I want him to text first. Besides he doesn't even know that I know hes here so it would make me look kinda clingy.

 

[St.Tropez]

>he

Who gives a fuck? Male friendships arent real and are only there for mutual benefit. He prob found someone more valuable.
Move on and stop obsessing over non existant terms

 

[woke_nigga]

not the best friend indeed

 

[AlexanderR97]

>he
Who gives a fuck? Male friendships arent real and are only there for mutual benefit. He prob found someone more valuable.
Move on and stop obsessing over non existant terms

I agree with you but that's just it... He doesn't care about me anymore and found people better. That's why im upset. But yeah I need to move on.

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not the best friend indeed

I guess not anymore :/

 

[woke_nigga]

I agree with you but that's just it... He doesn't care about me anymore and found people better. That's why im upset. But yeah I need to move on.

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I guess not anymore :/

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never was

 

[non_factor]

I'm not saying he will reject me. In fact im sure we will hang out if I ask but I feel like it will only be out of pity or boredom rather than him wanting me. Which is the main reason why I want him to text first. Besides he doesn't even know that I know hes here so it would make me look kinda clingy.

Prime example of having high inhibition,if you were NT you would not be worrying about "looking clingy",and I can tell you from personal experience,high inhibition will fucking destroy you.Drink a large beer,call your friend and stop overthinking things like this.

 

[idkwattodowithlife]

Maybe he has no phone credit? Batterys out? Or phones broken?

>he
Who gives a fuck? Male friendships arent real and are only there for mutual benefit. He prob found someone more valuable.
Move on and stop obsessing over non existant terms

Toomuchreallife/10

 

[AlexanderR97]

I agree with you but that's just it... He doesn't care about me anymore and found people better. That's why im upset. But yeah I need to move on.

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I guess not anymore :/

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never was

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Trust me we were lol... We hung out every weekend for 2 years straight. We did everything together but people move on once they move away I guess... This is why Im afraid of LTRs with women... they will just eventually replace me with a newer better guy :/

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Maybe he has no phone credit? Batterys out? Or phones broken?

>he
Who gives a fuck? Male friendships arent real and are only there for mutual benefit. He prob found someone more valuable.
Move on and stop obsessing over non existant terms

Toomuchreallife/10

I tracked him on Snapchat and he has a phone thats working

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I'm not saying he will reject me. In fact im sure we will hang out if I ask but I feel like it will only be out of pity or boredom rather than him wanting me. Which is the main reason why I want him to text first. Besides he doesn't even know that I know hes here so it would make me look kinda clingy.

Prime example of having high inhibition,if you were NT you would not be worrying about "looking clingy",and I can tell you from personal experience,high inhibition will fucking destroy you.Drink a large beer,call your friend and stop overthinking things like this.

maybe you are right... maybe its all just in my head

 

[Akarin]

If you were his friend you would just fucking text him. Maybe he is tired of that shit that he has to drag you out from your house every single time.

 

[AlexanderR97]

If you were his friend you would just fucking text him. Maybe he is tired of that shit that he has to drag you out from your house every single time.

He doesn't know that I know hes down to visit though.

 

[Akarin]

He doesn't know that I know hes down to visit though.

Real friend would just start to scream and wave "HEEEEEEEEY DUDEEEEEEE WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE?!?!" instead of waiting for a polite invitation

 

[AlexanderR97]

He doesn't know that I know hes down to visit though.

Real friend would just start to scream and wave "HEEEEEEEEY DUDEEEEEEE WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE?!?!" instead of waiting for a polite invitation

I guess lol

I'm so mentally fucked xd

 

[woke_nigga]

I agree with you but that's just it... He doesn't care about me anymore and found people better. That's why im upset. But yeah I need to move on.

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I guess not anymore :/

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never was

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Trust me we were lol... We hung out every weekend for 2 years straight. We did everything together but people move on once they move away I guess... This is why Im afraid of LTRs with women... they will just eventually replace me with a newer better guy :/

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Maybe he has no phone credit? Batterys out? Or phones broken?

>he
Who gives a fuck? Male friendships arent real and are only there for mutual benefit. He prob found someone more valuable.
Move on and stop obsessing over non existant terms

Toomuchreallife/10

I tracked him on Snapchat and he has a phone thats working

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I'm not saying he will reject me. In fact im sure we will hang out if I ask but I feel like it will only be out of pity or boredom rather than him wanting me. Which is the main reason why I want him to text first. Besides he doesn't even know that I know hes here so it would make me look kinda clingy.

Prime example of having high inhibition,if you were NT you would not be worrying about "looking clingy",and I can tell you from personal experience,high inhibition will fucking destroy you.Drink a large beer,call your friend and stop overthinking things like this.

maybe you are right... maybe its all just in my head

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2 years is too soon to consider someone his best friend

 

[uglyblackcel]

Just text him bro