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Benefits of cold approaching

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Based. Although I'm surprised none of these foids has falsely accused you.

I have cold approached a lot as well and it does help with inhibition, but I've found that stacking rejections does a lot of harm to your sense of self-esteem and confidence and ultimate find the effort not worth it. Feels like you're intentionally developing CPTSD. Plus, there is a risk you can get falsely accused.
Pros: makes you more low inhib and ''confident'', and not so worried or anxious about dealing with people

Cons: most of it never goes anywhere and could potentially make you feel worthless and hopeless
 
Only made me feel worse and more anxious
 
It all depends on how the interaction goes. Best believe if it’s a really bad interaction, it’ll only make your inhibition even higher
 
I'm in my late 20s, I've never cold-approached or asked a girl out. I always knew there was no point so why embarrass myself? I also won't run for governor, because I won't have a chance. Although... the odds of me getting a high political office are much higher than me getting a pretty gf.
 
I'm in my late 20s, I've never cold-approached or asked a girl out. I always knew there was no point so why embarrass myself? I also won't run for governor, because I won't have a chance. Although... the odds of me getting a high political office are much higher than me getting a pretty gf.
Kinda true.

I'm planning to climb the Everest one day
 
Tbh when I used to try that, I just got the typical "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm a lesbian" responses.

Some just looked at me like they'd seen a ghost and walked away without talking lol.
 
I also won't run for governor, because I won't have a chance. Although... the odds of me getting a high political office are much higher than me getting a pretty gf.
 
Pros: makes you more low inhib and ''confident'', and not so worried or anxious about dealing with people

Cons: most of it never goes anywhere and could potentially make you feel worthless and hopeless
Exactly, but there are other, better ways of becoming low inhib.
 

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