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Being young and incel is worse

Alone75

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I say this as a now middle-aged virgin, I remember when I was 16 and I felt the worst I ever felt when literally everyone from my year in school had got their first kiss and sex. The feeling of hopelessness and dark depression was indescribable. 

Your senses are so much sharper in your youth, your ears can hear a wider range of sound, your eyes can see better, your sense of taste and smell is stronger. You can recharge faster, hormones are flooding your system. Sex, especially in your teen years, their is a magic you can never experience later on. 

I knew it was over at 16 deep in my heart, I fucked up a few chances later on soon after leaving school due to high anxiety and worry over not being able to kiss right, will my dick be big enough? ect If girls had let me have the first experiences everybody else had I wouldn't have been so fucked I'm sure.
 
This is true. I'm in my mid twenties and I can feel my sex drive dropping. Inceldom was horrible when I was a teenager because my hormones were raging and seeing my friends get relationships and release their sexual tension through having sex while mine was built in/released through masturbation. Now I honestly just want a loving gf IDC about sex that much anymore but lol at getting a loving gf as an incel in 2018
 
I'm 31 and things don't bother me any more. Not just being incel, everything. You can have strong feelings only for so long until it just becomes a facet of reality that your brain accepts. It's fine.
 
Thank you for your sympathy and kind words. We, youngcels, always get shit on here.
 
Damn oldcels, keep fighting the good fight!
 
Abso-fuckin'-lutely. I knew at around 16 as well. I always thought to myself at that age that I'd end up in my 20's a virgin. It happened. I didn't want it to, but it did.

Something was different about my issues and the way I acted, it wasn't a simple fix like it is for more normal people.
 

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