My whole life I've been told in a roundabout way that it's my fault that I'm unattractive to women and that it's a Vicious Circle.
The circle being that I'm low on confidence so women see that and find me unattractive because of it, so my confidence gets lower because of that and they find me even more unattractive because my confidence is even lower etc etc.
The problem is this - YOU CANNOT FUCKING SEE CONFIDENCE. It doesn't physically exist. Can you tell how confident a girl is when she is sitting there quietly on the train facing straight ahead? Or can you only see how attractive she is physically? What makes anyone think that people can see that when looking at you in the same position???
Unless a guy is literally walking around with his shoulders slouched forward, his head looking down at the floor and his eyes filled with tears he isn't going to look 'Unconfident'. And most guys who are unattractive, including myself, don't walk around like that at all, they walk and act in the same fashion as attractive men do except they are simply UNATTRACTIVE PHYSICALLY, end of fucking story. And even if someone does look unconfident as long as they are above an acceptable level of looks they will get interest from women.
If anyone is telling you that your inceldom is due to a vicious circle spit in that fucking cowards face because being unattractive to women is simply a straight line of being shit from the start and getting ignored because of that alone forever. You might not even look that bad at all which I think is my case but women's eyes just will not even pick you up and it's nothing to do with her noticing your confidence.
The circle being that I'm low on confidence so women see that and find me unattractive because of it, so my confidence gets lower because of that and they find me even more unattractive because my confidence is even lower etc etc.
The problem is this - YOU CANNOT FUCKING SEE CONFIDENCE. It doesn't physically exist. Can you tell how confident a girl is when she is sitting there quietly on the train facing straight ahead? Or can you only see how attractive she is physically? What makes anyone think that people can see that when looking at you in the same position???
Unless a guy is literally walking around with his shoulders slouched forward, his head looking down at the floor and his eyes filled with tears he isn't going to look 'Unconfident'. And most guys who are unattractive, including myself, don't walk around like that at all, they walk and act in the same fashion as attractive men do except they are simply UNATTRACTIVE PHYSICALLY, end of fucking story. And even if someone does look unconfident as long as they are above an acceptable level of looks they will get interest from women.
If anyone is telling you that your inceldom is due to a vicious circle spit in that fucking cowards face because being unattractive to women is simply a straight line of being shit from the start and getting ignored because of that alone forever. You might not even look that bad at all which I think is my case but women's eyes just will not even pick you up and it's nothing to do with her noticing your confidence.
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