Blackpill Being successful in a same sex peer group is a must for men but not for women

[Zer0/∞]

Reading a book on love shyness. It was a study conducted on 500 men ages 18-50 who were heterosexual and virgins. They were classed as love shy because they had a great fear of approaching women and this played into their perpetual virginity. One interesting thing that the researcher found was that all of the love shy men were low status in same sex peer groups. They were typically disliked and disrespected by other men.

He compared them against men who were not love shy and not virgins. The non virgin men typically could fit in with their same sex peer group. And many of the non virgin men were looked up to and well respected by other men. But all of them could at least fit in and be respected by a same sex peer group.

On the other hand, this didn't hold true for women. A woman could be low status in a same sex peer group of other women but still be popular with men. But the researcher found ZERO cases of the opposite, a man who was low status among his male peer group but popular with women.

Shyness & Love

Shyness & Love covers the only major study conducted to date on social anxiety disorder as it is manifested in informal, unstructured, male/female dating and courtship situations. It focuses on the causes—both biomedical as well as situational—of “love-shyness” and the consequences for those...

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Shyness and Love: Causes, Consequences and Treatments by Dr. Gilmartin

 

[parzurnacs]

This is why NTpill kinda true tbh. When a women sees that you have no friends at all you better be chad or chadlite. Not even a HTN could get away with being low status

 

[Med Amine]

interesting stuff

They were classed as love shy because they had a great fear of approaching women and this played into their perpetual virginity.

pretty sure a ton of users here are only incels because they never tried at all, a trucel is someone who approaches toilets and when everything doesn't work then he announces his defeat

 

[Zer0/∞]

@WorthlessSlavicShit

 

[AlexDelarge]

true, another entry on huge lists of things that automatically disqualifies a man from ever getting to have sex or reproduce. and funny thing is almost no item on that list will also disqualify a woman. Be ugly, short, unrespected, stinky, fat, stupid, poor, lonely, shy, mentally ill - none of that is any issue for a woman. For a man, be any of that and it is fucking over.

 

[Friezacel]

I cant cope being aware how worthless the average man is

 

[Epedaphic]

Is dr gilmartin a man or woman