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Being short at 20 yrs old

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Greycel
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Every passing day I grow more angry at my height. Being 5’3 110lbs at 20 sucks I can’t seem to attract any women. Honestly I don’t even hate women the ones in our friend group are generally nice to me and at parties and shit I’ve never really had a women be mean or bully me although sometimes they’ll mention my height or poke fun of me but nothing that really hurt my feelings or anything. but I just can’t seem to get any women to like me in anyway other than a friend. Probably not the place to ask this but do any of you have any advice I feel like this is the only place where some men might know how I feel.
 
I feel for ya, i also had similar experiences. No woman was particulary mean to me, only 0 attraction. What advice could i give you other than to learn to accept the fact that women don't like short dudes, you always be seen as the gay friend/ puppy. If you have a good enough face you may be able to get a gf, but if you're average with little to no things to improve you're pretty much done.

Get copes and look for things outside of dating, escortcelling with VIP teen prostitutes may be an option too
 
I feel for ya, i also had similar experiences. No woman was particulary mean to me, only 0 attraction. What advice could i give you other than to learn to accept the fact that women don't like short dudes, you always be seen as the gay friend/ puppy. If you have a good enough face you may be able to get a gf, but if you're average with little to no things to improve you're pretty much done.

Get copes and look for things outside of dating, escortcelling with VIP teen prostitutes may be an option too
Exactly I feel like they look at me and treat me like a puppy which is so obvious to me but they don’t know how it makes me feel but there only in their minds trying to be nice but it’s so obvious they’ll treat me differently than other guys.
 
Exactly I feel like they look at me and treat me like a puppy which is so obvious to me but they don’t know how it makes me feel but there only in their minds trying to be nice but it’s so obvious they’ll treat me differently than other guys.
Most of the time you'll only be able to attract girls shorter than you, but they want taller guys relative to other male's height. So if she's 5'2 and you're 5'3 it's gonna be over either way. I've found a dude recently who was 5'3 and had a "pretty" GF, but he was really goodlooking. How good is your face?
 
Every passing day I grow more angry at my height. Being 5’3 110lbs at 20 sucks I can’t seem to attract any women. Honestly I don’t even hate women the ones in our friend group are generally nice to me and at parties and shit I’ve never really had a women be mean or bully me although sometimes they’ll mention my height or poke fun of me but nothing that really hurt my feelings or anything. but I just can’t seem to get any women to like me in anyway other than a friend. Probably not the place to ask this but do any of you have any advice I feel like this is the only place where some men might know how I feel.
In your same position, they either treat me like im a child or a puppy. I do appreciate that im not as ridiculed by them as some incels on here though.
 
Most of the time you'll only be able to attract girls shorter than you, but they want taller guys relative to other male's height. So if she's 5'2 and you're 5'3 it's gonna be over either way. I've found a dude recently who was 5'3 and had a "pretty" GF, but he was really goodlooking. How good is your face?
I would give my face 4-5 and I know one girl who might actually be interested in me (like a hook up not a gf) but she’s actually taller than me lmao so I’ll see what comes of it. Also idk how girls think in my head I think I’m a 4-5 but girls might thinks I’m a 2-3 I have no idea tbh. Lastly the girl who seemed interested in me is probably like a 5-7.
 
Pean holes are known for their vanity. Heightism is another way for them to avoid exhibiting their Pean micro-intellect.
 
In your same position, they either treat me like im a child or a puppy. I do appreciate that im not as ridiculed by them as some incels on here though.
Agreed.
 
I would give my face 4-5 and I know one girl who might actually be interested in me (like a hook up not a gf) but she’s actually taller than me lmao so I’ll see what comes of it. Also idk how girls think in my head I think I’m a 4-5 but girls might thinks I’m a 2-3 I have no idea tbh. Lastly the girl who seemed interested in me is probably like a 5-7.
It's pretty simple really, do people compliment you? do people act hostile/want to stay away from you? former (You goodlooking), latter you ugly. Neither you're average.

If you think you can score go for it, DON'T MISS ANY CHANCES. Cause they're hard to come by
 
How is she interested in you, what is different about her talking to you than girls just being nice in general
It's pretty simple really, do people compliment you? do people act hostile/want to stay away from you? former (You goodlooking), latter you ugly. Neither you're average.

If you think you can score go for it, DON'T MISS ANY CHANCES. Cause they're hard to come by
People actually generally like I think because of my personality and height I have plenty of friends male and female
 
People actually generally like I think because of my personality and height I have plenty of friends male and female
Generally like me** (I’m fucking baked rn)
 
People actually generally like I think because of my personality and height I have plenty of friends male and female
Op u will probably ascend eventually. You seem NT enough.
 
Every passing day I grow more angry at my height. Being 5’3 110lbs at 20 sucks I can’t seem to attract any women. Honestly I don’t even hate women the ones in our friend group are generally nice to me and at parties and shit I’ve never really had a women be mean or bully me although sometimes they’ll mention my height or poke fun of me but nothing that really hurt my feelings or anything. but I just can’t seem to get any women to like me in anyway other than a friend. Probably not the place to ask this but do any of you have any advice I feel like this is the only place where some men might know how I feel.
So you're a framelet as well?
 
Yes last weekend
Next time you see her ask her about it, then proceed to kiss her. Don't waste chances dude, if not you'll be like me without anything happening at 26. tho a girl didn't say she wanted to kiss me lmfao
 
Next time you see her ask her about it, then proceed to kiss her. Don't waste chances dude, if not you'll be like me without anything happening at 26. tho a girl didn't say she wanted to kiss me lmfao
Go out and cold approach
 
Next time you see her ask her about it, then proceed to kiss her. Don't waste chances dude, if not you'll be like me without anything happening at 26. tho a girl didn't say she wanted to kiss me lmfao
I’ll take the chance but don’t give up hope on yourself even if it’s almost unbearable
 
Some average height for women is shorter than 5 foot. Though they still prefer taller dudes, I'd say you still get a chance.
God bless bros
 
Don't give up you sound like a good looking dude because foid wants to kiss you:panties:.
 
im 5'4 and 20 yrs old too i keep trying to get a gf but always gets rejected for my height I FUCKING HATE MY HEIGHT:cryfeels:
 
Resonates with me, It sucks being 5'8 zoomer, a lot of guys my age i see in school everyday are heightmoggers. The current generation of young people is too tall:lasereyes:.
 
Most of the time you'll only be able to attract girls shorter than you, but they want taller guys relative to other male's height. So if she's 5'2 and you're 5'3 it's gonna be over either way. I've found a dude recently who was 5'3 and had a "pretty" GF, but he was really goodlooking. How good is your face?
It doesn’t matter how good his face is, if you are short even a 10 /10 face wont save you
 
yeah it's brutal. whenever i go to church i get mogged(not only in terms of looks but also in terms of virtue) so it's brutal.

i am 5'8 so not as bad as you brocel,but over here in london only like 5% of men are shorter then you so yeah.apart from this based oldcel from church,can't think of anyone there who is shorter then me.
 
Sounds like you have a good face, maybe you can LatAm maxx since foids are shorter on avg there :feelshehe:
Was considering that and my skin tone is slightly tan so it might work out.
 
It doesn’t matter how good his face is, if you are short even a 10 /10 face wont save you
Did You Even read? Good face is what matters, Even if you're 5'2 a good face Will save You
 
Go back to reddit, you are bluepilled
I believe he may be right I’ve seen it with my OWN eyes. A my friend 5’5 not an inch taller dated the hottest girl in my county for a few months. A good face CAN save you he’s not lying.
 
Seems brutal; OP, are you considering leg-lengthening surgery eventually?
 
Maybe that thing with the kiss was meant to express that she finds you cute like a puppy because of your height, or maybe youre just a troll who wants to see the forum fighting,
 
Bruh 5'2 is just too short in any case.
I just saw the new bf of a friend, he's 5'3 and goodlooking. Our faces are the problem, nor our height. If girls are willing to date a 5'3 who's even shorter than them because they're goodlooking, there's not much to say. I had been born with a shitty face
 
I just saw the new bf of a friend, he's 5'3 and goodlooking. Our faces are the problem, nor our height. If girls are willing to date a 5'3 who's even shorter than them because they're goodlooking, there's not much to say. I had been born with a shitty face
I face mog pretty much every guy in my grade at school yet they have gfs and I don’t because they are taller, fuck off with your bluepilled trash saying height doesn’t matter
 
I'm sorry, but it's over for you in the West. Study hard and Travelmaxx.
 
I face mog pretty much every guy in my grade at school yet they have gfs and I don’t because they are taller, fuck off with your bluepilled trash saying height doesn’t matter
Take it easy bloodassasin04, i didn't say height is not important. I just said face was moreso, also if i accept lookism so i can't be bluepilled. Not like you would know cause you're ignorant as fuck and start arguing with people without a shred of knowledge, this is also why you think you're goodlooking when in reality you're average at best.

So ofc you won't have a gf cause you're both not attractive and short lmfao, same as me. So take it easy and stop being so confrontational.

Maybe one in a hundred thousand chance it could happen (I do see it in real life but that is just extremely rare though)
I've seen 3 examples and i've been in uni 2 weeks, i'm not sure dude. Height is important sure, but goodlooking people always win. Being average and short is a death sentence, but being average height and average is not good too.
 
At that height 99.9 % its over. Im same height, but also mentally ill, fat and ugly do its not only height to blame
 

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