Rape might last half an hour if that while inceldom lasts a lifetime.
Duration doesn't matter unless you establish severity too, they multiply to create the product of net suffering.
Some foids for example will permanently fuck up their eyebrows "for a lifetime" but that's obviously not as bad, for example.
And why do they make it out to be some super traumatic experience that scars you for life?
It might genuinely be that, at least sometimes. I know personally a lot of abuse can stick with you and poison how you interact with others.
That said, I do think it gets milked and special treatment compared to all other non-sexual abuses, or non-female abuses.
Modern women have taken 100's of dicks from a very early age
Dude, that's just wrong. Please watch this video and educate yourself:
so why does rape matter so much just because it's forced?
It's just a single dick going somewhere that hundreds of other dicks have gone before.
If I had been given hundreds of blowjobs by women, I'd still be pissed off if a guy sucked my dick even though it's "a single mouth going somewhere that hundreds of other mouths have gone before".
So I can see being annoyed by it. It should be a crime of harassment in some way, like getting slapped on the ass or something, except a bit worse since it's contact with mucous membranes that can spread STDs, and slightly more embarassing.
That said, I don't fully empathize with dedicating a lot of resources to it considering the backlog of harassment against men which fucks us up way worse which hasn't even been touched.
Circumcision, for example, is worse than at least 99% of rapes, so we should hold off on prosecuting rapes until we prosecute all the circumcisers and accessories to circumcision first.
You are absolutely not making the first move as you do with a normal gf.
It's a different first move but it's still the first move.
You are acting im a totally different way.
There's no such thing as total difference. I see similarities where it counts, and the differences seem negligible.
Many times you hire the escort online without her even seeing your face. You Don't approach her, you Don't court her, you simply pay her to satisfy you Like You would pay for an icecream
Hiring is approaching though. Like when I get cold-called by guys trying to get me to pay them to empty my non-existant septic tank.
Even the ice cream man drives around randomly approaching customers in suburban neighborhoods.
The closest thing escorts do to this is maybe lurking on street corners and propositioning passersby.
Again. Not true and even it true absolutely not in the same way that is true for a gf.
She rejected me because she wanted money?
Lol she asked for a relatively small quantitative of money to satisfy me and then leave.
Compare that with the average gf who nags you for bigger car or for more expensive restaurants to go to or simply for shit test.
Tell me it's the same.
Come on
I never said it's the same, because no two escorts and no two girlfriends are the same either. There are always differences, but they still get grouped together because of sharing more in common than they do with other stuff.
Both of these are worlds apart from having a GF who cares about you and doesn't nag for cars/restaurants. GFs won't do that with Chad if he threatens to leave them over it. It's a shit test for Chad but it's an actual requirement for non-Chads to get pussy.
We didn't know each other before i hired her. How could her have offered sex for free?
She could've said "now that I've taken a look at you, I'd like to give you your money back so that you know you can fuck me for free any time you want. Don't be a stranger!"
This is how Chad lives.
I tried once and it didn't feel fake at all.
It Was actually quite satisfying even tho it was only fetish stuff and not sex
Ability to imagine/compartmentalize varies person to person... and even with one person it varies moment to moment.
Tbh i hate those kind of romance with passive feminine foids who let all the burden of courting her to you
Heroine of Outlander wasn't really passive she was stitching up severed limbs and crap.