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I agree with that professor who once said being incel for a long time can cause the same trauma to your mind as being raped.
I really feel related to this stuff since i feel like i was personally violated and because of that incapable of expressing my sexuality as i wished. I feel traumatized and I'm just starting to recover and to accept this as i grow up and as i age.

Violence by commission is just as bad as violence by omission
In this case however violence by omission is worse since you can have tons of people and centers to help you recover from a rape (as long as you are a foid ofc) but there's only ostracization and mockery for incels who have been victim of long denyal of sexuality and eroticism
 
Rape only lasts for a short period of time anyway. After that it's recovery.

Inceldom lasts for your entire youth, if not your whole life.
 
Rape only lasts for a short period of time anyway. After that it's recovery.

Inceldom lasts for your entire youth, if not your whole life.
This idea that rape victims never heal is a myth
 
Highest of IQ's. I agree. And nobody will ever accept us or try to help us. There won't ever be an IA (Incels Anonymous) group in real life where we can talk about our problems.
 
who will bite?
 
I agree with that professor who once said being incel for a long time can cause the same trauma to your mind as being raped.
I really feel related to this stuff since i feel like i was personally violated and because of that incapable of expressing my sexuality as i wished. I feel traumatized and I'm just starting to recover and to accept this as i grow up and as i age.

Violence by commission is just as bad as violence by omission
In this case however violence by omission is worse since you can have tons of people and centers to help you recover from a rape (as long as you are a foid ofc) but there's only ostracization and mockery for incels who have been victim of long denyal of sexuality and eroticism
Low IQ trying to compare and downplay suffering and lump and body generalize other ppls experiences.
 
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Low IQ trying to compare and downplay suffering and lump and body generalize other ppls experiences.
Low IQ not understanding the point of the thread. Fuck off
Rape only lasts for a short period of time anyway. After that it's recovery.

Inceldom lasts for your entire youth, if not your whole life.
High IQ
Highest of IQ's. I agree. And nobody will ever accept us or try to help us. There won't ever be an IA (Incels Anonymous) group in real life where we can talk about our problems.
Exactly
Being sexually deprived is not being bullied.Being bullied comes after when you talk about that.
I'm saying that living in anche extremely cold environment is just as bad as living in an extreme hot one. People Are low IQ and can't understand the point.

Oh and many incels would pay to get raped by a foid.
I'll repeat that foreverforever: being sexually deprived for Life Is worse than being sexually forced once
 
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I never said in that quote that healing from rape is impossible. I just said it’s worse than being teased in school
 
I never said in that quote that healing from rape is impossible. I just said it’s worse than being teased in school
Yes but my point is not about being teased it Is about being teased after being victim of sexual and emotional denyal for decades (that is worse than being forced to sex because it has zero support groups or social understanding)
 
If someone doesnt have sex when they become 16 its fuckin over,all the hormones in your body will become un-stable because you never found a non cope way to release and please them.Causing you to lose social communication skills and lack of adrenaline.
 
If someone doesnt have sex when they become 16 its fuckin over,all the hormones in your body will become un-stable because you never found a non cope way to release and please them.Causing you to lose social communication skills and lack of adrenaline.
It's a problem that indirectly causes other problems that together end up to make you lonely, failed, sexless, childless and less motivated to evrything. Your life becomes a mess and no one seems to accept the real root of al the problems. They will blame symtpoms instead. It's irritating as fuck
Sauce? Link?
I'd like to find the name of that professor. He was very famous here years agosto because he pissed off SJW cucks a lot lol
 
Being sex deprived against your will for a long time is worse than being a victim of rape
What I don't like about this statement is the oversimplification, the lack of distinction between particulars.

Like for example how long is "a long time" and how bad of a rape?

Obviously since some rape is worse than other rape, the worse rapes are more competitive with certain time periods of emotional neglect.

I honestly think it's more emotional neglect in general than sexual neglect that's the problem.

I guess in that way I could be controversial in empathizing with emcel sluts. But only to a degree, because they actually have the freedom to emotionally connect with non-Chads if they wanted to.

We're probably more repulsive to them than to each other.

violence by omission is worse since you can have tons of people and centers to help you recover from a rape (as long as you are a foid ofc) but there's only ostracization and mockery for incels who have been victim of long denyal of sexuality and eroticism
A bit too small-picture. You're right, of course, but it's also part of a broader spectrum of apathy towards male suffering in general, unless of course it's a cute little boy or Chadmigrants.
 
OP is playing 5D chess with himself trying to justify raping foids. Im not epathetic towards them but just dont bother. If you were thinking about seriously doing it. Dont. Isnt worth spending your life in a cell for a quick nut. Just fap
 
Like for example how long is "a long time" and how bad of a rape
From the beginning of my puberty (i guess around 12) till now (nearly 26) and probably even for my whole life Is enough?
There is a grey area tho. I agree
A bit too small-picture. You're right, of course, but it's also part of a broader spectrum of apathy towards male suffering in general, unless of course it's a cute little boy or Chadmigrants.
Of course. Just compare the number of foids saved by a man or for whom a man sacrificed his life in the workplace or by whom was pushed to suicide through divorce to the number of foids who sacrificed themselves for a man (f eks lifeguard who drowned to save another person)
OP is playing 5D chess with himself trying to justify raping foids
No man. I actually like soft fetish stuff and foids being into me. I wouldn't be able to rape them. And probably THIS is the main problem with me
 
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Only privileged foids could deny this. Imagine your life is fulfilling all the time but then you get raped once.

Does anyone really think your life wouldn't be better than an incel's?
 
From the beginning of my puberty (i guess around 12) till now (nearly 26) and probably even for my whole life Is enough?
There is a grey area tho. I agree
What "this is equivalent to X cocks ripping open my anus in a prison shower" rating would you assign to those 14 years?

the number of foids who sacrificed themselves for a man (f eks lifeguard who drowned to save another person)
TBH would not count lifeguards since that is probably just foid overestimating their fitness (underestimating risk) not literally thinking "I'm dying to save this guy".

No man. I actually like soft fetish stuff and foids being into me.
I wouldn't be able to rape them.
And probably THIS is the main problem with me
Possibly cope. I like soft stuff and foids being into me too, but I also dabble into other genres.

It will go smoother if we just admit we'd never actually know because we're too high-inhib and mogged by the law/society that it's pressures are internalized.
 
What "this is equivalent to X cocks ripping open my anus in a prison shower" rating would you assign to those 14 years?
It's a different kind of pain. One is more abstract the other is more concrete. I would consider equally painfull to be raped in prison or by a foid to ho your whole life without anyone touching you not giving you sex and the more you ask for it the more you get ostracized, ending up alone, fucked up in the head and probably with severe depression
TBH would not count lifeguards since that is probably just foid overestimating their fitness (underestimating risk) not literally thinking "I'm dying to save this guy".
It was just an example to explain how is much more possible that a male lifeguard will drown to save a foid in danger than for a female lifeguard to drown to save a male in danger
 
It's a different kind of pain.
One is more abstract the other is more concrete.
I would consider equally painfull to be raped in prison or by a foid to ho your whole life without anyone touching you not giving you sex and the more you ask for it the more you get ostracized, ending up alone, fucked up in the head and probably with severe depression
I don't know how specific I can get about weighing these, but male suicides mog female suicides, so I know that for whatever reason we have it worse.
 
Possibly cope. I like soft stuff and foids being into me too, but I also dabble into other genres.

It will go smoother if we just admit we'd never actually know because we're too high-inhib and mogged by the law/society that it's pressures are internalized
I'm extremely low inhib when pissed because of autism. However i still don't find rape attractive. I want foids to be into me and be reciprocating.
There are some steps that must be followed for me to being really into a girl.
I lack the capability of falling in love with a girl i see just because i saw her one time and she was cute.
This Is my big problem probably related with being non NT
 
I'm extremely low inhib when pissed because of autism.
Give example of low-inhib thing you did when pissed.

However i still don't find rape attractive. I want foids to be into me and be reciprocating.
What makes you think you need to be pissed off to want to rape? That's buying into the feminist "it's all about hating women" bullshit.

There are some steps that must be followed for me to being really into a girl.
I lack the capability of falling in love with a girl i see just because i saw her one time and she was cute.
What do you consider to be required parameters for "love" ?
 
I don't know how specific I can get about weighing these, but male suicides mog female suicides, so I know that for whatever reason we have it worse.
That's probably linked to sexual irrelevance since there are countries in the World where foids commit suicide more than men
Give example of low-inhib thing you did when pissed.
Being expelled from the uni dorm for throwing stuff at a whore from the window because i was pissed + drunk
What makes you think you need to be pissed off to want to rape? That's buying into the feminist "it's all about hating women" bullshit.
I was explaining how i can he extremely zero fuck giving about society and social connections. Yet i can't find the idea of rape as sexually stimulating
What do you consider to be required parameters for "love" ?
Well a foid being into me like I'm into her and showing that with proactive actions
 
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Foids don't judge these things on actual research into how bad the mental effects of various traumas are, they just want to be victims.
 
I agree with that professor who once said being incel for a long time can cause the same trauma to your mind as being raped.

I believe and agree with this 100%

If she had a sexual encounter and she wasn't in the mind, two years later she can change her mind and said she was 'raped'
If a woman really was raped, I wont deny that it's traumatic but she gets society's support, and over time, she can mentally recover.

A man that is denied sex over and over, despite doing all of the correct things that well-meaning relatives tells him to do, starts to feel ugly, unwanted, and even non-human ---- all feelings that I have felt. Yet people still make fun of him and blame it on his personality.


I want foids to be into me and be reciprocating.

That's why I haven't hired a hooker. First, it's illegal where I live. And second, it must be a great feeling to be wanted and have your attraction reciprocated.
 
What country? Where's your data?
For what I remember it's China and maybe Pakistan
A man that is denied sex over and over, despite doing all of the correct things that well-meaning relatives tells him to do, starts to feel ugly, unwanted, and even non-human ---- all feelings that I have felt.
Can totally relate
That's why I haven't hired a hooker. First, it's illegal where I live. And second, it must be a great feeling to be wanted and have your attraction reciprocated.
You can pay good escorts to fake it tho. You Don't Have to make the first move and deal with all the nagging and rejection that comes with dealing with a regular foid when you approach her for romantic purpose that is usually a huge turn off since it feels like you are the only one who needs sex
Only privileged foids could deny this. Imagine your life is fulfilling all the time but then you get raped once.

Does anyone really think your life wouldn't be better than an incel's?
The most enraging thing is foids actually prefer a Chad to act rapey rather than shy so the whole "rape" thing is a big grey area since foids don't find shy introvert men who don't dominate sexually attractive
If someone doesnt have sex when they become 16 its fuckin over,all the hormones in your body will become un-stable because you never found a non cope way to release and please them.Causing you to lose social communication skills and lack of adrenaline.
This Is exactly what I am experiencing
 
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Lol, I've wanted sex for over 10 years and never got any. I go on pornhub and dont even look for sex, just like naked girls doing stuff. Because I like to pretend my gf is around me and is naked.
 
Rape only lasts for a short period of time anyway. After that it's recovery.

Inceldom lasts for your entire youth, if not your whole life.
Suifuel af.
Also welcome back
 
Cool story bro, I will rape your ass with a dildo since it is preferable to you being sex deprived.
 
Rape only lasts for a short period of time anyway. After that it's recovery.

Inceldom lasts for your entire youth, if not your whole life.
Rape is just foids entitlement to only fuck attractive men tbh when men will fuck any foid.
 
Giga-IQ post. Anyone who disputes this is a soy chugging cucklord
 
Incelcucktears will probably comment on this thread. But ya its better to be sexually harassed (which includes raped) than go through life as a ghost while seeing 100s of couples eveyday holding hands and kissing.
 
Cool story bro, I will rape your ass with a dildo since it is preferable to you being sex deprived.
I would gladly experience that as long as i get Out of inceldom after that.
Big retard. I was especially talking about heterosexual rape
Incelcucktears will probably comment on this thread. But ya its better to be sexually harassed (which includes raped) than go through life as a ghost while seeing 100s of couples eveyday holding hands and kissing.
Going as a ghost per se is pure hell after decades of living like That.
Honestly fuck that subhuman non-thinking trash that is cucktears
 
The academic spits facts


spit it chief spit it
 
You can pay good escorts to fake it tho.
What's the point? Would it actually convince you?

It would be more convincing if you didn't ask them to fake enthusiasm and they just did it on their own. That's probably more often what happens and what works.

You Don't Have to make the first move
Sure you do, you approached the escort for sex and probably paid them in advance, that's the first move. The only time you're not making the first move is if someone else hired the escort for you.

and deal with all the nagging and rejection that comes with dealing with a regular foid when you approach her for romantic purpose
You were already pre-rejected because she wanted money.

She will also nag you if you don't pay her.

Plus many higher-end ones having bathing/scent requirements they might nag you about if you don't meet.

that is usually a huge turn off since it feels like you are the only one who needs sex
You will probably feel like that anyway with an escort since if she really needed sex from you she'd offer it for free.

You can imagine she enjoys it and is fulfilling a need, and that might even be occasionally true, but for the most part it's just cope.

Aphrodite IQ
thats low IQ isn’t that
Yeah - its over for Aphroditecels
I have her game stats, it's IQ16 which probably mogs the majority of this forum. Yeah it's inferior to Athena (Goddess of Wisdom) having IQ 27 but compared to the human average of 10.5 in this game it's still pretty impressive and gives her skill bonuses.

I go on pornhub and dont even look for sex, just like naked girls doing stuff.
Because I like to pretend my gf is around me and is naked.
If you have the IQ to imagine these are somehow your GF you should have the IQ to imagine you are somehow the guy fucking her.

Rape is just foids entitlement to only fuck attractive men tbh when men will fuck any foid.
Neither is true since foids will fuck unattractive men for money/status (but will probably secretly fuck Chad on the side, perhaps in secret) and some gigachads will abstain from fucking low-tier rank 1-2 foids because they are flooded with preferable Becky/Stacy options.

I would gladly experience that as long as i get Out of inceldom after that.
I mean honestly... I don't know if I'm outing myself as a fem-brained soap-watcher but wouldn't we all love to be Jamie Frasier?

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Spoiler for season 1 finale lads: he gets raped by the villain (Black Jack Randall, the ancestor of Claire's first husband Jonathan Randall) but has hot sex with series protagonist Claire who he marries.

Even though she's older than him and a non-virgin she's basically high-tier in terms of foid selection in centuries-ago Scotland because she would have better dental hygiene (despite being British) and health in general, not to mention she has amazing medical skills.

Jamie Frasier is a pretty awesome example because obviously we all want to be handsome ginger-chad even if it meant having a scarred-up back from being lashed by the English army, even if it meant BJ Randall forced you to do gay shit with him to save your wife, because at the end of it you still have a QT nurse wife to have hot sex with, not to mention lots of other girls chasing you that you need to fight off with a stick in case your wife ever died or traveled back to the future.
 
What's the point? Would it actually convince you?

It would be more convincing if you didn't ask them to fake enthusiasm and they just did it on their own. That's probably more often what happens and what works
Many times they fake it or even enjoy it without you asking them to do so
Sure you do, you approached the escort for sex and probably paid them in advance, that's the first move. The only time you're not making the first move is if someone else hired the escort for you.
You are absolutely not making the first move as you do with a normal gf. You are acting im a totally different way. Many times you hire the escort online without her even seeing your face. You Don't approach her, you Don't court her, you simply pay her to satisfy you Like You would pay for an icecream
You were already pre-rejected because she wanted money.

She will also nag you if you don't pay her.

Plus many higher-end ones having bathing/scent requirements they might nag you about if you don't meet.
Again. Not true and even it true absolutely not in the same way that is true for a gf. She rejected me because she wanted money? Lol she asked for a relatively small quantitative of money to satisfy me and then leave. Compare that with the average gf who nags you for bigger car or for more expensive restaurants to go to or simply for shit test. Tell me it's the same. Come on
You will probably feel like that anyway with an escort since if she really needed sex from you she'd offer it for free.

You can imagine she enjoys it and is fulfilling a need, and that might even be occasionally true, but for the most part it's just cope.
We didn't know each other before i hired her. How could her have offered sex for free?
I tried once and it didn't feel fake at all. It Was actually quite satisfying even tho it was only fetish stuff and not sex
I mean honestly... I don't know if I'm outing myself as a fem-brained soap-watcher but wouldn't we all love to be Jamie Frasier?
Tbh i hate those kind of romance with passive feminine foids who let all the burden of courting her to you
 
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