Venting Being Lusted After. What incels really want

[Summer202]

There is often a misconception about what we actually want as incels so I'll try to clarify it here.

BEING LUSTED AFTER

Why does sex with prostitutes leave incels feeling empty and alone? Why is betabuxxing so unappealing to the point where most would rather stay incel then to enter in that kind of relationship?

The truth is, we, as incels, on a fundamental level, want to be lusted after.

Some guys here simply want to have one loyal wife who they can have kids with. Others completely reject the idea of marriage but still want to be desired by many women.

Even to the most imoral of the incels. Rape is not appealing because it doesn't fix our fundamental need, which is, I'll reiterate, TO BE LUSTED AFTER.

The distinction is important. If for no other reason than to counteract the typical normie response of "If you want sex so bad just go see a prostitute."

Lust can not be forced. And we (not including @VST) were born too fucked up to be able to arouse that feeling in a woman.

Do you guys agree? Discuss!

 

[lastchancel]

i just want love tbh ngl

 

[ControlledInsanity]

Lust implies too much sexually. We just want to feel wanted.

Also, high IQ

 

[Summer202]

i just want love tbh ngl

If you are talking about the Disney type eternal love than you might aswell wish for a unicorn because that doesn't exist.

All "love" is conditional.

Lust implies too much sexually. We just want to feel wanted.

Wanted in what way besides sexually?

 

[ControlledInsanity]

Wanted in what way besides sexually?

Being wanted as a male companion. In a way that even if sex weren't a possibility that she would want to be with you just because.

 

[lastchancel]

If you are talking about the Disney type eternal love than you might aswell wish for a unicorn because that doesn't exist.

All "love" is conditional.

i've never experienced it, therefore doesn't exist

 

[WakeMeUpIncel]

Being wanted as a male companion. In a way that even if sex weren't a possibility that she would want to be with you just because.

True. Why do I think of peewees voice when I read your replies.

 

[Zyros]

This is what so many people fail to understand about inceldom.

 

[Anger]

I just want to know what it feels like to be loved by the female kind.

 

[Professorjpj]

Ive found kinda a way Around that when I used to use escorts.... My MAIN criteria for her was the fact that I understood that she wasnt attracted to me, but just make me BELIEVE that she was! She HAD to at least SEEM seriously passionate or no deal! Total girlfriend experience, lots of deep french kissing, making out, and no limits... Just like she would do with boyfriends... Otherwise she wouldnt get full amount! I know if was an illusion, but it does WORK...

 

[ControlledInsanity]

True. Why do I think of peewees voice when I read your replies.

Because, much like real life, we all judge others on the most immediate visual thing we can associate to them. There was even a thread on this phenomenon: https://incels.is/threads/its-inter...s-your-perception-of-them.60567/#post-1124343

 

[Summer202]

Being wanted as a male companion. In a way that even if sex weren't a possibility that she would want to be with you just because.

Isn't that merely friendship tho? You could achieve that by becoming friends with a foid.

i've never experienced it, therefore doesn't exist
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You believe in Disney myths yet have the audacity to call me autistic.

Ok then buddy, let's have a little thought experiment. Imagine a beautifull girl that you fall in love with. You love each other and you do all sorts of things together. Then, she gets ACID FACED!

The once beautifull girl now looks like this. You can tell yourself you will love her all the same, but you won't. You can rationalize it's her attitude that changed, but that would be a lie.

For women it's the same thing but it's a guy's looks and alphaness.

Love does exist. But it's temporary and conditional. The moment the girl loses her beauty or a guy loses his alphaness. It's gone.

 

[deepthroat]

yeah love is a lust basically.. it's not magic or something unexplainable. That's why it is nearly impossible for us to experience it

 

[Xbox]

Fk being lusted after or wanted, all i want is being accepted and treated like a human being.

 

[Cuyen]

Love and sex bro

 

[Summer202]

yeah love is a lust basically.. it's not magic or something unexplanable. That's why it is nearly impossible for us to experience it

Agreed. Love isn't some magical phenomenon.

It's your brain telling you this is a good mate and you should have sex with them and keep them around.

Even family love is easily explained by kin selection.

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

Because, much like real life, we all judge others on the most immediate visual thing we can associate to them. There was even a thread on this phenomenon: https://incels.is/threads/its-inter...s-your-perception-of-them.60567/#post-1124343

I've never done this. Must be a sub 110 IQ thing.

 

[lastchancel]

You believe in Disney myths yet have the audacity to call me autistic.

Ok then buddy, let's have a little thought experiment. Imagine a beautifull girl that you fall in love with. You love each other and you do all sorts of things together. Then, she gets ACID FACED!

The once beautifull girl now looks like this. You can tell yourself you will love her all the same, but you won't. You can rationalize it's her attitude that changed, but that would be a lie.

For women it's the same thing but it's a guy's looks and alphaness.

Love does exist. But it's temporary and conditional. The moment the girl loses her beauty or a guy loses his alphaness. It's gone.

Ah yes, I do recall saying that I believe in disney mythology. Oh wait, I never said that. I just said I wanted to experience love, which you implied was a disney thing, which is just 0iq.

 

[ControlledInsanity]

Isn't that merely friendship tho? You could achieve that by becoming friends with a foid.

I see your point. Maybe having never reached so much as a real date I cannot conceptualize going any farther than that with a girl?

 

[WakeMeUpIncel]

Because, much like real life, we all judge others on the most immediate visual thing we can associate to them. There was even a thread on this phenomenon: https://incels.is/threads/its-inter...s-your-perception-of-them.60567/#post-1124343

I remember introduction to psychology. Fun class

 

[deepthroat]

Love does exist. But it's temporary and conditional. The moment the girl loses her beauty or a guy loses his alphaness. It's gone.

Nah. Even seniors at retirement houses fall in love together. They don't lust after each other. They wanna feel compassionate, have a body beside them, feel their vibes. U'r totaly ignoring what's bonding about. It even goes across species, do you think your dog admire your beauty? That's the beatiful kind of love, it doesn't weaken.

 

[Deleted member 13060]

I would much rather just make a woman's vagina soaking wet and give her the best orgasms of her life than be "loved". All I've ever experienced is escorts who were completely turned off by me, rubbish sex, pity sex from one woman as a one off and a physically repulsive possessive desperate old woman who "loved" me. NONE of this is real validation whatsoever and i am yet to find it, and I will NEVER find it unless I improve.

 

[Summer202]

Nah. Even seniors at retirement houses fall in love together. They don't lust after each other. They wanna feel compassionate, have a body beside them, feel their vibes. U'r totaly ignoring what's bonding about. It even goes across species, do you think your dog admire your beauty? That's the beatiful kind of love, it doesn't weaken.

That's friendship. If you want that you can get it from your male friends and even from foids.

 

[Deleted member 10124]

i just want love tbh ngl

Lust implies too much sexually. We just want to feel wanted.

Also, high IQ

I just want to know what it feels like to be loved by the female kind.

This too. With escorts read a book on sex prior to that session & ask them.

I would much rather just make a woman's vagina soaking wet and give her the best orgasms of her life than be "loved". All I've ever experienced is escorts who were completely turned off by me, rubbish sex, pity sex from one woman as a one off and a physically repulsive possessive desperate old woman who "loved" me. NONE of this is real validation whatsoever and i am yet to find it, and I will NEVER find it unless I improve.

 

[Professorjpj]

I would much rather just make a woman's vagina soaking wet and give her the best orgasms of her life than be "loved". All I've ever experienced is escorts who were completely turned off by me, rubbish sex, pity sex from one woman as a one off and a physically repulsive possessive desperate old woman who "loved" me. NONE of this is real validation whatsoever and i am yet to find it, and I will NEVER find it unless I improve.

Even if you "improve" you probably WONT!!! I suspect getting women is kinda like TRYING to be a successful telemarketer.. Either you naturally "have it" and can sell from the first day, or you NEVER have it, and no matter how long you try, you will never have the KNACK for it... Getting women is JUST like that I think...

 

[Deleted member 10124]

Love and sex bro

Fk being lusted after or wanted, all i want is being accepted and treated like a human being.

Ive found kinda a way Around that when I used to use escorts.... My MAIN criteria for her was the fact that I understood that she wasnt attracted to me, but just make me BELIEVE that she was! She HAD to at least SEEM seriously passionate or no deal! Total girlfriend experience, lots of deep french kissing, making out, and no limits... Just like she would do with boyfriends... Otherwise she wouldnt get full amount! I know if was an illusion, but it does WORK...

Yes bro. Copenhardon

 

[deepthroat]

That's friendship. If you want that you can get it from your male friends and even from foids.

Not a fucking friendship. Love it is. Maybe u can get it from your male friends but then you are gay if you develop such feelings for him. With a foid it's common thing, and its next thing that happens after infatuation phase. Even heartbeats eventually sync up if you live long enough together. But why am I even trying... all you can think about is sex and primal urges

 

[Deleted member 4760]

Isn't that merely friendship tho? You could achieve that by becoming friends with a foid.



You believe in Disney myths yet have the audacity to call me autistic.

Ok then buddy, let's have a little thought experiment. Imagine a beautifull girl that you fall in love with. You love each other and you do all sorts of things together. Then, she gets ACID FACED!

The once beautifull girl now looks like this. You can tell yourself you will love her all the same, but you won't. You can rationalize it's her attitude that changed, but that would be a lie.

For women it's the same thing but it's a guy's looks and alphaness.

Love does exist. But it's temporary and conditional. The moment the girl loses her beauty or a guy loses his alphaness. It's gone.

Extremely High IQ althought there are some exceptions.

So many guys here seem to be delussional about what relationships are.

I've never had one but just hearing my friends tlak about it, it sounds like a lot of work.

 

[Zesto]

I want the love of my waifu.

 

[VST]

And we (not including @VST) were born too fucked up to be able to arouse that feeling in a woman.

JFL at the implication that women lust after me. They don't even look at me twice.

 

[Ap0calypse]

Lust implies too much sexually. We just want to feel wanted.

Also, high IQ

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

Silly incels, wetting pussies is for Chad and Tyrone

 

[blickpall]

Affection and affirmation.

 

[fred_herbert]

That's common sense. Having a relationship is much more validating than one night stands with random whores. Most incels just want a relationship.

 

[BRCel123]

I just wanna fuck and kiss tbh

 

[acnescarcel]

yup 100%. fuck love, fuck betabuxx, fuck hookers, and fuck cuckoldry. i just want to feel attractive to women and fuck some of them.

 

[Mik_TFL]

I just want a hug

 

[BasedTruecel]

Yeah I agree, and not only that, but I want to be loved. I have no friends, obviously never a girlfriend, and not even a family that loves me. I am literally loved by ZERO people on this planet and that shit sucks.