Discussion Being high inhib makes you low inhib eventually

[Belowthesalt]

My theory is that being high inhib will eventually lead to you being completely alone because you won't be able to socialize correctly and if you try you will fail and/or make a fool of yourself, this isolation will eventually make you deteriorate mentally to such a degree that you won't care about anybody's opinions of you, and you'll become low inhib. This can only happen if you are ugly since being high inhib is only seen as weird and repulsive if you aren't good-looking also good-looking people get approached.

This is kinda what happened to me, I wonder if anyone can relate.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

For me its just gets worse over time. Nowadays im even too high inhib to go buy groceries alone or buy food

 

[sub5ricemale]

My theory is that being high inhib will eventually lead to you being completely alone because you won't be able to socialize correctly and if you try you will fail and/or make a fool of yourself, this isolation will eventually make you deteriorate mentally to such a degree that you won't care about anybody's opinions of you, and you'll become low inhib. This can only happen if you are ugly since being high inhib is only seen as weird and repulsive if you aren't good-looking also good-looking people get approached.

This is kinda what happened to me, I wonder if anyone can relate.

tbh it's the other way around for me. I used to be a super high inhib jester who tried his luck with foids as well as became the class clown in high school. Eventually, I figured out clownmaxxing isn't a good idea at all and decided to tune my inhibition down. Now, I'm scared of hanging out with friends

 

[PersonalityChad]

Cool, hopefully i will become low inhib soon since i'm high inhib af currently

 

[Dead End]

Not really, at least in my experience. You avoid social situations because you're uncomfortable and as a result continue to fear them because of your lack of experience otherwise. Your inhibition maintains or worsens.

 

[sellsword]

tbh it's the other way around for me. I used to be a super high inhib jester who tried his luck with foids as well as became the class clown in high school. Eventually, I figured out clownmaxxing isn't a good idea at all and decided to tune my inhibition down. Now, I'm scared of hanging out with friends

same in school I would say i was pretty confident, I still never talked to foids but now its been months since ive left the house

 

[sub5ricemale]

same in school I would say i was pretty confident, I still never talked to foids but now its been months since ive left the house

I usually just leave the house to gymcel for my own mental health preservation. How do you get your groceries btw?

 

[sellsword]

I usually just leave the house to gymcel for my own mental health preservation. How do you get your groceries btw?

Parents for now but I'm moving in march to wageslave for a 5 year contract

 

[sub5ricemale]

Parents for now but I'm moving in march to wageslave for a 5 year contract

I'm planning to get into some trade. Trades are opening up in my country.

 

[sellsword]

I'm planning to get into some trade. Trades are opening up in my country.

What job would you go for

 

[sub5ricemale]

What job would you go for

I already got accepted into some community college for a higher-end trade job

 

[undesiredsamsung]

Cool, hopefully i will become low inhib soon since i'm high inhib af currently

 

[TooSomething]

Cool, hopefully i will become low inhib soon since i'm high inhib af currently

I have told you, Mafiamaxx and you will get low inhib af.

 

[Rapistcel]

For me its just gets worse over time. Nowadays im even too high inhib to go buy groceries alone or buy food

 

[xstermin]

For me its just gets worse over time. Nowadays im even too high inhib to go buy groceries alone or buy food

 

[Nithingr]

Disagree

For me its just gets worse over time.

Your inhibition maintains or worsens.

This is the case. In many cases, being low inhib actually leads to being high inhib. One low inhib mistake can traumatise you and bring about the downward spiral Frieza and Dead describe. Becoming more low inhib is only possible when the environment rewards it.

 

[Nithingr]

If that's your experience it's the exception, and if so you are more disconnected from environmental cues that ought to induce shame or joy in you which may be inhuman or risky. I understand how being rejected can make you more indifferent to people's opinions of you, but on some layer there is still an instinctual response to people's approval or disapproval. If you're posting this you seem to be still connected to some people's opinions, which tells me you're still vulnerable to being humiliated by your environment. Just speculating

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

Interesting. Hope this happens to me too but I'm not betting on it.

 

[Pikacel]

My theory is that being high inhib will eventually lead to you being completely alone because you won't be able to socialize correctly and if you try you will fail and/or make a fool of yourself, this isolation will eventually make you deteriorate mentally to such a degree that you won't care about anybody's opinions of you, and you'll become low inhib. This can only happen if you are ugly since being high inhib is only seen as weird and repulsive if you aren't good-looking also good-looking people get approached.

This is kinda what happened to me, I wonder if anyone can relate.

Well that’s just apathy not low inhib

If some thuggish dude pressed you for acting like a creep you’d still fold like an umbrella