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Toxic Femininity Being friends with women is the biggest blackpill

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Very insightful post I found on r/SikeOrPsyche:
Literally all but one blackpilled thing i've learned is from being "friends" with women. Watching them date and complain about their options is pure suifuel. They all say the same shit that women on reddit do. How they just want a "normal man". How "the bar is literally in hell". "Dying of thirst in a swamp". A million options all of them bad. But then they show you who they are talking about and it turns out their definition of a normal man is Chad. And the rotten hot dogs on the ground are average/low status men like you. The absolute contempt they had for them was astounding. If you don't have an athletic body, good looks and a high salary job, you are basically a worthless, lazy manchild to them. And it's all your fault for not putting in the effort to get them. And when you listen to this, and watch how they treat you and compare it to their gal pals and Chads, you realise they have 0 respect for you. They might like you, but they don't respect you. You just exist to be their pet "one of the good ones", listen to them vent about their awful options, console them when Chad doesn't commit, validate them and tell them they deserve better, "be interested in them as a person" and when asked show them how fine you are with being a lonely virgin all your life. And if you behave you might get a pat on the head and get told you'll meet someone eventually if you just focus on your hobbies and being happy alone
Another thing i've learned is how much they despise doing anything for men. They will have a whole list of expectations for men they want to date. And if you want to be their "friend" you better learn to be emotionally available and validate them. But they get offended at even the thought of a guy wanting anything from them other than "getting to know them as a person". But it's different you see. Men have expectations because they feel entitled. Women have expectations because they don't want to mother some worthless manchild or do "emotional labor"

View: https://old.reddit.com/r/SikeOrPsyche/comments/1r8x978/getting_to_know_women_is_the_biggest_blackpill/



I can relate to this, because even though I was never really friends with a woman, I did listen in to a lot of foid conversations in high school and they were exactly as what he said in the post.



Some comments:
Genuinely nothing will Bp you more than being friends with women, Especially if you’ve been in group chats with them I’ve openly seen them talk about cheating on their bf’s lmao
For whatever reason, I always found myself paired up or grouped together with females during HS and college presentations (thanks, teach).
The amount of misandrist drivel that I'd consistently hear coming out of their mouths would be enough to blackpill my non-existent future male descendants.
I was platonic friends with a women once. She often complained about “not being able to find a nice guy”. She also had a sugar daddy.
She could not comprehend why this would be a problem for dudes wanting date her.
Yeah they just talk about looks a lot. I don't know why people deny this. I live in China with relatively conservative Chinese people and women talk about guys' looks all the time, they even talk about when little kids are handsome, like actual boys / toddlers. When I was in the west it was pretty common too, girls would just mention in passing who is hot. I don't know why people are in denial about how important men's looks are.


Ugh... We're allowed to have preferences. You probably want a thin submissive virgin with big boobs. Is is so wrong that I want a guy at least 6' tall, handsome, ripped with a big dick, a house and a 6 figure income? I know what I'm worth and I don't want to settle! Go touch grass inkwell!
:foidSoy::foidSoy::foidSoy::foidSoy:

The people in the Reddit thread didn't get the joke resulting in this response:

actually most men don't have those standards at all, personally i like women who are submissive in bed, not in general life just in bed, but there's plenty of dudes out there who go crazy for dominant women
boob size doesn't matter shape does, men who think the bigger the better are a minority
most guys don't want a virgin, you have to teach her how to have sex plus she doesn't even know her own body or her sexual preferences there's nothing good about that
and a lot of guys like chubby chicks, just not obese
actually a lot of men preferences are about personality traits
all you mentioned are very shallow preferences
if you want big dicks stop lying to men about how their dick size doesn't matter when the first insult woman always use is you have a small dick
chances are the chads you are chasing are the ones with those preferences, do you meet those preferences?
 
Rare quality Reddit post. I completely agree with him based on my experiences. Even here, I don't think many realize how utterly worthless you are to women.
 
I don't think many realize how utterly worthless you are to women.
I wrote a bang ass (no doubt) song lyrics for a local project the social circle im involved in wants to participate in.

Absolute crickets from them. One doesnt even want to hear the damn song till im physically present. Too much work, i guess...

I could have written the new 5th symphony of beethoven, all by myself, in 5 minutes, on the garageband app, it (ofc) wouldnt make a dime of a difference

Although, if the local chad (there's always an "aspirational one" they ALL want to bang in ANY vicinity, at ANY point in time, NO question about it) wrote a semi decent wonderwall cover and sent it to all of them specifically, they would cream their pants about it FOREVER.
 
they show you who they are talking about and it turns out their definition of a normal man is Chad. And the rotten hot dogs on the ground are average/low status men like you. The absolute contempt they had for them was astounding. If you don't have an athletic body, good looks and a high salary job, you are basically a worthless, lazy manchild to them. And it's all your fault for not putting in the effort to get them. And when you listen to this, and watch how they treat you and compare it to their gal pals and Chads, you realise they have 0 respect for you.
Soy fact
 
It's no suprise that Women are literally comically evil. being only "Friends" with women is the most cucked thing you can do since for them your only an attention farm. It just reaffirms the idea that there is no such thing as Women and "Friends" as we have too little in common with them not to mention the fact you wouldn't want that either regardless even if your a Chad KEK. Chads don't even have to care if they get cheated on as they can just take the next foid on the street with ease.
 
Very insightful post I found on r/SikeOrPsyche:


View: https://old.reddit.com/r/SikeOrPsyche/comments/1r8x978/getting_to_know_women_is_the_biggest_blackpill/



I can relate to this, because even though I was never really friends with a woman, I did listen in to a lot of foid conversations in high school and they were exactly as what he said in the post.



Some comments:







:foidSoy::foidSoy::foidSoy::foidSoy:

The people in the Reddit thread didn't get the joke resulting in this response:

I have female housemates and every time they talk about men I want to kill either them or myself, it’s nauseating.
 
he’s a cuck for still being friends with them but he’s right. All women see in men, is what men can do for them.
 
genuinely feel like i want to grab their heads off of their bodies everytime i even see one of them glance at a HTN+
 
RIP r/SikeOrPsyche

Anyways, I copied the entire post in the thread so you can still read it
As soon as the truth is revealed the sub gets taken down
 
Imagine being friend of a whore and not getting the posibility to grape her ass because she's more attracted to chad jfl :lul: :lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul:
Friendship with men and women will never exist, accept it
 

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