Being critized

[ardeys]

People think that when you’re harshly criticized you’ll want to behave better and show your worth, nothing is more false, at the best I want to take immediate revenge against who insulted my value in anything, why the fuck would I respond to an insult by performing like a bitch, and I know that being someone who answers positively to challenges betters your curriculum but it cannot resonate with me and I don’t know why as I said I would just like to punish whoever tried to insult and denigrate my work or qualities.

 

[DogTeeth]

I think there's a very big difference between being scolded or attacked than genuinely criticized. Most ppl are pretty awful at giving actual useful criticism

 

[nirvana]

"If I didn't bully you, you wouldn't have a reason to change for the better" is a mindset that some normies have about this thing, when in reality you can give a person who needs to change constructive criticism without ruining their self-esteem and worth.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

((normscum)) lies

They only want to give themselves the good role or clear their conscience from the bad things they've done to us

 

[ardeys]

((normscum)) lies

They only want to give themselves the good role or clear their conscience from the bad things they've done to us

Yeah exactly

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

I don't mind criticism if it's constructive — the problem is it seldom is.

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

Critiquing is fine when it's both constructive and done with good intentions, but most people don't do that because they are only looking to put down others.

Can't tell you how many shitheads I've met in my life who hide behind the excuse of having "no filter" to harshly criticize those they secretly dislike. It just devolves into bullying at a certain point.

Total bully death.

 

[ardeys]

Critiquing is fine when it's both constructive and done with good intentions, but most people don't do that because they are only looking to put down others.

Can't tell you how many shitheads I've met in my life who hide behind the excuse of having "no filter" to harshly criticize those they secretly dislike. It just devolves into bullying at a certain point.

Total bully death.

I think I would like for duels to be legal, There’s difference between suggesting something to change and calling you incompetent, I’m an incel and I would want to make insults as costly as they can be