Welcome to Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate Forum

Welcome! This is a forum for involuntary celibates: people who lack a significant other. Are you lonely and wish you had someone in your life? You're not alone! Join our forum and talk to people just like you.

It's Over Being called a "stalker" cause you tried to be friends with a girl

D

Dominic567

Waiting for info.
-
Joined
Feb 27, 2024
Posts
14
Hi this is my first post ever on a forum really,




Long story with detail:

It all started in 2018 on Instagram, I didn't talk to many girls or use Instagram at all (I was anonymous). But I did know this one redhead girl on there from Canada, she didn't like me. When things didn't work out with her, I moved on. I saw that she had a fight in an Instagram Story with this other girl that was bullying her, a brunette. Because of "an enemy of my enemy is my friend" I generally thought that starting a relationship with the brunette would be easy since we know the same girl and the redhead girl disliked us both. I was wrong, it's not easy. And it's the brunette we're talking about here. She's my problem.

I was 24, the brunette girl was 18.

We're 29 and 23 now.

The brunette is bisexual. I hate the LGBT shit too. But she seemed normal (not woke)

Me and the brunette got on great at first, she calmed me down when I was angry about the other girl. I dm'd brunette on Instagram to try and have regular conversations but I was never annoying. I ensured to leave 4-5 days between our conversations just to not spook her. I saw that she made up with the redhead one day, she followed her, I asked brunette "Why are you following her? Like did you guys make up?" Brunette then goes crazy, tells me because I'm only 6 years older, to "stop stalking young girls" "make real friends so you don't have to talk to me" That's when she started blocking me and called me a stalker.

This turned into a huge overblown thing because every effort I made to speak to that brunette girl thereafter is "you're a stalker"

It's 2024, it's still going on to this day, she's ignoring me although I leave her alone now for long periods of time (5, 8 months). I want to be actual online friends with that girl and I admit I have harassed her in the past. But I've harassed her because she's unreasonable, you'd think after 6 years she'd not care anymore but I'm the only person in the whole world that she hates. We used to get on, now we don't. I would at least like her to give me an explanation of what her problem with me is, she won't.

Just recently, she deleted her new Insta just because I showed up and wanted to reach out. Like who tf does that? I wanted to be friends, if she's gay I don't mind, but I wanted me and her to be online friends if she was gay. I told her deleting her new Insta solely because of me just shows how much she cares, anyone else would keep their Insta and just ignore.




Short story and a question:

I knew a girl online anonymously on Instagram, we used to get on. But because she got spooked from my totally normal friendly dm's, she blurts out "stop stalking young girls" "make real friends so you don't have to talk to me" she then blocked me and would always block me, this then turned into an entire thing and now going on 6 years she's ignoring me, forever.

Have any of you guys had similar experiences trying your luck with girls, only to have them label you as "stalking them" or whatever because you wanted to make female friends and relationships?
 
sub5 = creepy and stalking

chad = brave and approaching
 
Joined Today at 2:29 PM Posts 1
 
I wanted to be friends, if she's gay I don't mind, but I wanted me and her to be online friends if she was gay
you sound so fucking retarded right now. there is no benefit to being “””friends””” and beta orbiting a toilet that you have no chance of fucking. you need to get over it
 
I was wrong, it's not easy. And it's the brunette we're talking about here. She's my problem.
because it's a woman, women are a pain in the ass
The brunette is (((bisexual))). I hate the (((LGBT))) shit too. But she seemed normal (not woke)
not surprised, probably LARPing for attention
"stop stalking young girls" "make real friends so you don't have to talk to me" That's when she started blocking me and called me a stalker.
dumb bitch
 
you sound so fucking retarded right now. there is no benefit to being “””friends””” and beta orbiting a toilet that you have no chance of fucking. you need to get over it

You say that, but my intention was never really to fuck her irl. My intention was to make online female friends. Like playing games and talking on Discord. If she was bi, I thought that could've progressed maybe but she might be gay, idk.
 
Last edited:
sub5 = creepy and stalking

chad = brave and approaching

We did talk about this and how funnily she never seemed to have this problem with "michael".

I was like "Yeah because he's michael"

She said to me in 2020 "If you’re thinking he didn’t deserve forgiveness and you did, that’s not your decision to make. I’ve never hated Michael and he’s always respected me and my space."

Yeah, because he's michael. She never had a problem with him to begin with because she accepted him, he was already her friendzoned simp.
 
not surprised, probably LARPing for attention

You should have heard her reaction back in 2018 to me calling her a lesbian when she's "bisexual"

She reacted with a voice message saying...

"I'm done texting you because clearly it's just going over your head. Yah, I'm bisexual. OH NO Ahh bisexuality! I like girls, I like guys that's my business, not fucking yours."

Imagine the sassyest, stuck-up, triggered girl.
 
Never date a bisexual bitch
 
You should have heard her reaction back in 2018 to me calling her a lesbian when she's "bisexual"

She reacted with a voice message saying...

"I'm done texting you because clearly it's just going over your head. Yah, I'm bisexual. OH NO Ahh bisexuality! I like girls, I like guys that's my business, not fucking yours."

Imagine the sassyest, stuck-up, triggered girl.
bisexual = chadsexual
i hate how she said it's her business to try to get you to stop talking about it
ALL WOMEN ARE ENTITLED WHORES
Never date a bisexual bitch
 
Hi this is my first post ever on a forum really,




Long story with detail:

It all started in 2018 on Instagram, I didn't talk to many girls or use Instagram at all (I was anonymous). But I did know this one redhead girl on there from Canada, she didn't like me. When things didn't work out with her, I moved on. I saw that she had a fight in an Instagram Story with this other girl that was bullying her, a brunette. Because of "an enemy of my enemy is my friend" I generally thought that starting a relationship with the brunette would be easy since we know the same girl and the redhead girl disliked us both. I was wrong, it's not easy. And it's the brunette we're talking about here. She's my problem.

I was 24, the brunette girl was 18.

We're 29 and 23 now.

The brunette is bisexual. I hate the LGBT shit too. But she seemed normal (not woke)

Me and the brunette got on great at first, she calmed me down when I was angry about the other girl. I dm'd brunette on Instagram to try and have regular conversations but I was never annoying. I ensured to leave 4-5 days between our conversations just to not spook her. I saw that she made up with the redhead one day, she followed her, I asked brunette "Why are you following her? Like did you guys make up?" Brunette then goes crazy, tells me because I'm only 6 years older, to "stop stalking young girls" "make real friends so you don't have to talk to me" That's when she started blocking me and called me a stalker.

This turned into a huge overblown thing because every effort I made to speak to that brunette girl thereafter is "you're a stalker"

It's 2024, it's still going on to this day, she's ignoring me although I leave her alone now for long periods of time (5, 8 months). I want to be actual online friends with that girl and I admit I have harassed her in the past. But I've harassed her because she's unreasonable, you'd think after 6 years she'd not care anymore but I'm the only person in the whole world that she hates. We used to get on, now we don't. I would at least like her to give me an explanation of what her problem with me is, she won't.

Just recently, she deleted her new Insta just because I showed up and wanted to reach out. Like who tf does that? I wanted to be friends, if she's gay I don't mind, but I wanted me and her to be online friends if she was gay. I told her deleting her new Insta solely because of me just shows how much she cares, anyone else would keep their Insta and just ignore.




Short story and a question:

I knew a girl online anonymously on Instagram, we used to get on. But because she got spooked from my totally normal friendly dm's, she blurts out "stop stalking young girls" "make real friends so you don't have to talk to me" she then blocked me and would always block me, this then turned into an entire thing and now going on 6 years she's ignoring me, forever.

Have any of you guys had similar experiences trying your luck with girls, only to have them label you as "stalking them" or whatever because you wanted to make female friends and relationships?
dnr but yeah you can’t be friends with anyone when you’re an incel
 
You say that, but my intention was never really to fuck her irl. My intention was to make online female friends. Like playing games and talking on Discord. If she was bi, I thought that could've progressed maybe but she might be gay, idk.
being “friends” with a toilet is quite possibly the dumbest shit you can do and a huge waste of time
 
Hi this is my first post ever on a forum really,




Long story with detail:

It all started in 2018 on Instagram, I didn't talk to many girls or use Instagram at all (I was anonymous). But I did know this one redhead girl on there from Canada, she didn't like me. When things didn't work out with her, I moved on. I saw that she had a fight in an Instagram Story with this other girl that was bullying her, a brunette. Because of "an enemy of my enemy is my friend" I generally thought that starting a relationship with the brunette would be easy since we know the same girl and the redhead girl disliked us both. I was wrong, it's not easy. And it's the brunette we're talking about here. She's my problem.

I was 24, the brunette girl was 18.

We're 29 and 23 now.

The brunette is bisexual. I hate the LGBT shit too. But she seemed normal (not woke)

Me and the brunette got on great at first, she calmed me down when I was angry about the other girl. I dm'd brunette on Instagram to try and have regular conversations but I was never annoying. I ensured to leave 4-5 days between our conversations just to not spook her. I saw that she made up with the redhead one day, she followed her, I asked brunette "Why are you following her? Like did you guys make up?" Brunette then goes crazy, tells me because I'm only 6 years older, to "stop stalking young girls" "make real friends so you don't have to talk to me" That's when she started blocking me and called me a stalker.

This turned into a huge overblown thing because every effort I made to speak to that brunette girl thereafter is "you're a stalker"

It's 2024, it's still going on to this day, she's ignoring me although I leave her alone now for long periods of time (5, 8 months). I want to be actual online friends with that girl and I admit I have harassed her in the past. But I've harassed her because she's unreasonable, you'd think after 6 years she'd not care anymore but I'm the only person in the whole world that she hates. We used to get on, now we don't. I would at least like her to give me an explanation of what her problem with me is, she won't.

Just recently, she deleted her new Insta just because I showed up and wanted to reach out. Like who tf does that? I wanted to be friends, if she's gay I don't mind, but I wanted me and her to be online friends if she was gay. I told her deleting her new Insta solely because of me just shows how much she cares, anyone else would keep their Insta and just ignore.




Short story and a question:

I knew a girl online anonymously on Instagram, we used to get on. But because she got spooked from my totally normal friendly dm's, she blurts out "stop stalking young girls" "make real friends so you don't have to talk to me" she then blocked me and would always block me, this then turned into an entire thing and now going on 6 years she's ignoring me, forever.

Have any of you guys had similar experiences trying your luck with girls, only to have them label you as "stalking them" or whatever because you wanted to make female friends and relationships?
fuck this shit lowkey happened to my homie last year. he was new to the school and he was talking to this foid and that femfag did the most deplorable shit ever instead of just rejecting my hb, that foid fucker sent screenshots of him asking her to hangout to a bunch of people. my homie thought he did something wrong and applogized to her and this fag BLOCKED him like everywhere. and he felt so bad so he made an account to applogize to her and she told everyone he was stalking her or some shit. dude that shit sent my homie into a spiral i wouldn't wish it on anyone bro. you see my homie wasn't the best looking guy, he had a neckbeard but he wasn't fucking subhuman but i guess he came off creepy cause he wasn't like conventionally attractive but i bet if it was an attractive guy doing that she wouldn't have even rejected him in the first place
 
fuck this shit lowkey happened to my homie last year. he was new to the school and he was talking to this foid and that femfag did the most deplorable shit ever instead of just rejecting my hb, that foid fucker sent screenshots of him asking her to hangout to a bunch of people. my homie thought he did something wrong and applogized to her and this fag BLOCKED him like everywhere. and he felt so bad so he made an account to applogize to her and she told everyone he was stalking her or some shit. dude that shit sent my homie into a spiral i wouldn't wish it on anyone bro. you see my homie wasn't the best looking guy, he had a neckbeard but he wasn't fucking subhuman but i guess he came off creepy cause he wasn't like conventionally attractive but i bet if it was an attractive guy doing that she wouldn't have even rejected him in the first place

Thanks for sharing this story.

It's definitely a spiral, I wouldn't wish it on anyone either. You're expected to just accept being blocked without a legitimate reason why, even though you were both good. Like they have some final enforceable judgment to gag your speech. The girl acts like "If you get blocked then move on" but for what legitimate reason?? Because I asked about whether she made up with the girl that we both knew??
 

Short story and a question:

I knew a girl online anonymously on Instagram, we used to get on. But because she got spooked from my totally normal friendly dm's, she blurts out "stop stalking young girls" "make real friends so you don't have to talk to me" she then blocked me and would always block me, this then turned into an entire thing and now going on 6 years she's ignoring me, forever.

Have any of you guys had similar experiences trying your luck with girls, only to have them label you as "stalking them" or whatever because you wanted to make female friends and relationships?
 
Me and the brunette got on great at first, she calmed me down when I was angry about the other girl. I dm'd brunette on Instagram to try and have regular conversations but I was never annoying. I ensured to leave 4-5 days between our conversations just to not spook her.
Just respect wahmen bro :soy:

you'll still get scrutinized and bitched at anyway. foids are annoying tbh
 
you sound so fucking retarded right now. there is no benefit to being “””friends””” and beta orbiting a toilet that you have no chance of fucking. you need to get over it
Retweet
 
there is no benefit to being “””friends””” and beta orbiting a toilet that you have no chance of fucking. you need to get over it
exactly. if a foid isn't fucking you, then there's no point in interacting with them at all. you should just avoid them, because why bother jumping through their dumb hoops
 
exactly. if a foid isn't fucking you, then there's no point in interacting with them at all. you should just avoid them, because why bother jumping through their dumb hoops

So don't have personal relationships with girls online over Discord etc. at all? How do you expect to make progress with a girl if not to talk to her without fucking?

you'll still get scrutinized and bitched at anyway. foids are annoying tbh

I agree. They fucking suck.
 
So don't have personal relationships with girls online over Discord etc. at all? How do you expect to make progress with a girl if not to talk to her without fucking?
foids aren't going to fuck you bc you simp for them on Discord lmao

no progress for your face
 
Hi this is my first post ever on a forum really,




Long story with detail:

It all started in 2018 on Instagram, I didn't talk to many girls or use Instagram at all (I was anonymous). But I did know this one redhead girl on there from Canada, she didn't like me. When things didn't work out with her, I moved on. I saw that she had a fight in an Instagram Story with this other girl that was bullying her, a brunette. Because of "an enemy of my enemy is my friend" I generally thought that starting a relationship with the brunette would be easy since we know the same girl and the redhead girl disliked us both. I was wrong, it's not easy. And it's the brunette we're talking about here. She's my problem.

I was 24, the brunette girl was 18.

We're 29 and 23 now.

The brunette is bisexual. I hate the LGBT shit too. But she seemed normal (not woke)

Me and the brunette got on great at first, she calmed me down when I was angry about the other girl. I dm'd brunette on Instagram to try and have regular conversations but I was never annoying. I ensured to leave 4-5 days between our conversations just to not spook her. I saw that she made up with the redhead one day, she followed her, I asked brunette "Why are you following her? Like did you guys make up?" Brunette then goes crazy, tells me because I'm only 6 years older, to "stop stalking young girls" "make real friends so you don't have to talk to me" That's when she started blocking me and called me a stalker.

This turned into a huge overblown thing because every effort I made to speak to that brunette girl thereafter is "you're a stalker"

It's 2024, it's still going on to this day, she's ignoring me although I leave her alone now for long periods of time (5, 8 months). I want to be actual online friends with that girl and I admit I have harassed her in the past. But I've harassed her because she's unreasonable, you'd think after 6 years she'd not care anymore but I'm the only person in the whole world that she hates. We used to get on, now we don't. I would at least like her to give me an explanation of what her problem with me is, she won't.

Just recently, she deleted her new Insta just because I showed up and wanted to reach out. Like who tf does that? I wanted to be friends, if she's gay I don't mind, but I wanted me and her to be online friends if she was gay. I told her deleting her new Insta solely because of me just shows how much she cares, anyone else would keep their Insta and just ignore.




Short story and a question:

I knew a girl online anonymously on Instagram, we used to get on. But because she got spooked from my totally normal friendly dm's, she blurts out "stop stalking young girls" "make real friends so you don't have to talk to me" she then blocked me and would always block me, this then turned into an entire thing and now going on 6 years she's ignoring me, forever.

Have any of you guys had similar experiences trying your luck with girls, only to have them label you as "stalking them" or whatever because you wanted to make female friends and relationships?
You have to move on nigga JFL

I had a similiar story at work kinda, some girl thought I was stalking her or some shit and would skip shifts while I was there JFL.

What a fucking moron, I ded srs just wanted to befriend her and hang out so I messaged her one day and she said shes not intrested so cool, I dropped it there wasnt gonna follow it much, but this retards starts acting cringe.

Moral of the story is that if you are sub5, people automaticlly assume you want to rape or stalk them or some shit :lul: :lul: :lul: :lul:

Retarded motherfuckers
 
foids aren't going to fuck you bc you simp for them on Discord lmao

no progress for your face

Ok but what if you became online best friends, I mean really, playing games together every other day. Then you became closer, shared each other's Instas/Snapchat/TikTok. You starting video calling, 2-4 years later you meet irl.

Ok that's rare, but this ain't Twitch streamers, these would be your own personal relationships.

I admit. It is rare.
 
Ok but what if you became online best friends, I mean really, playing games together every other day. Then you became closer, shared each other's Instas/Snapchat/TikTok. You starting video calling, 2-4 years later you meet irl.
then you're a normie, not an incel

also this is oddly specific

Just play goyslop vidya with a foid bro :soy:
 
Welcome to the black pill

approaching women:
Sub5 = creep
Normie = Friend
Chad = Wanna make him my boyfriend NOW
 
Welcome to the black pill

approaching women:
Sub5 = creep
Normie = Friend
Chad = Wanna make him my boyfriend NOW

Totally agree.

But I should probably mention that brunette girl failed to find a single chad at the age of 18. She'd never had a single boyfriend ever, not as a young teen, never in her life. Although she was "bisexual" (So she claimed).
 
Last edited:
Although she was "bisexual" (So she claimed).
When a girl turns bisexual, in most cases it´s because she was either hurt by a Chad in the past, or has identity issues.
They often go through a ´hoe phase´ after a breakup, to regain confidence (that has been stripped away).
The girl in your case, must have been mentally deranged cause you claim she never had a boyfriend.
 
Hi this is my first post ever on a forum really,




Long story with detail:

It all started in 2018 on Instagram, I didn't talk to many girls or use Instagram at all (I was anonymous). But I did know this one redhead girl on there from Canada, she didn't like me. When things didn't work out with her, I moved on. I saw that she had a fight in an Instagram Story with this other girl that was bullying her, a brunette. Because of "an enemy of my enemy is my friend" I generally thought that starting a relationship with the brunette would be easy since we know the same girl and the redhead girl disliked us both. I was wrong, it's not easy. And it's the brunette we're talking about here. She's my problem.

I was 24, the brunette girl was 18.

We're 29 and 23 now.

The brunette is bisexual. I hate the LGBT shit too. But she seemed normal (not woke)

Me and the brunette got on great at first, she calmed me down when I was angry about the other girl. I dm'd brunette on Instagram to try and have regular conversations but I was never annoying. I ensured to leave 4-5 days between our conversations just to not spook her. I saw that she made up with the redhead one day, she followed her, I asked brunette "Why are you following her? Like did you guys make up?" Brunette then goes crazy, tells me because I'm only 6 years older, to "stop stalking young girls" "make real friends so you don't have to talk to me" That's when she started blocking me and called me a stalker.

This turned into a huge overblown thing because every effort I made to speak to that brunette girl thereafter is "you're a stalker"

It's 2024, it's still going on to this day, she's ignoring me although I leave her alone now for long periods of time (5, 8 months). I want to be actual online friends with that girl and I admit I have harassed her in the past. But I've harassed her because she's unreasonable, you'd think after 6 years she'd not care anymore but I'm the only person in the whole world that she hates. We used to get on, now we don't. I would at least like her to give me an explanation of what her problem with me is, she won't.

Just recently, she deleted her new Insta just because I showed up and wanted to reach out. Like who tf does that? I wanted to be friends, if she's gay I don't mind, but I wanted me and her to be online friends if she was gay. I told her deleting her new Insta solely because of me just shows how much she cares, anyone else would keep their Insta and just ignore.




Short story and a question:

I knew a girl online anonymously on Instagram, we used to get on. But because she got spooked from my totally normal friendly dm's, she blurts out "stop stalking young girls" "make real friends so you don't have to talk to me" she then blocked me and would always block me, this then turned into an entire thing and now going on 6 years she's ignoring me, forever.

Have any of you guys had similar experiences trying your luck with girls, only to have them label you as "stalking them" or whatever because you wanted to make female friends and relationships?
Fuck off kys mogger grey cel
 
The girl in your case, must have been mentally deranged cause you claim she never had a boyfriend.

Yeah, that "Michael" guy I mentioned was her best friend. Skater boy. She never even started a relationship with him. She temporarily lived with him too because she wasn't able to live with her mom at the time.
 
Last edited:
Tbh its because you didn't take no for an answer
 
Yeah, that "Michael" guy I mentioned was her best friend. Skater boy. She never even started a relationship with him. She temporary lived with him too because she wasn't able to live with her mom at the time.
Yea so she most likely had a ´friend with benefits´ with him, she got fucked and later on got dumped, with the end result of her being in emotional pain and seeking a different identity to cope......How predictable, isn´t it?
Props to feminism and the sexual revolution
 
So she’s an agecuck as well as a dyke, this just gets better.
 
Yea so she most likely had a ´friend with benefits´ with him, she got fucked and later on got dumped, with the end result of her being in emotional pain and seeking a different identity to cope......How predictable, isn´t it?
Props to feminism and the sexual revolution

I see what you're saying but actually in this case, he was the one that had feelings for her and she rejected him. He continued to be her best friend. Do you think it's possible lesbians identify as bi but aren't telling us the truth that they're gay?
 
Do you think it's possible (((lesbians))) identify as bi but aren't telling us the truth that they're gay?
99% lesbians aren't truly gay they are chadsexual
 
Ok but what if you became online best friends, I mean really, playing games together every other day. Then you became closer, shared each other's Instas/Snapchat/TikTok. You starting video calling, 2-4 years later you meet irl.
:lul: :lul: :lul: :lul: :lul: :lul:
 
99% lesbians aren't truly gay they are chadsexual

I agree that most girls today in school/college under the current-day LGBT banner are LARPing.

But in this instance? She had lived with Michael the skater boy he wasn't her boyfriend, she never had 1 boyfriend at 18 years old, said she hated seeing guys bodies and bodily fluids, told people that she's never even kissed a boy cos she weren't a "hoe".

Is it possible she's lying about being bi? And she's just a lesbian?
 
Last edited:
I agree that most girls today in school/college under the current-day LGBT banner are LARPing.

But in this instance? She had lived with Michael the skater boy he wasn't her boyfriend, she never had 1 boyfriend at 18 years old, said she hated seeing guys bodies and bodily fluids, told people that she's never even kissed a boy cos she weren't a "hoe".

Is it possible she's lying about being bi? And she's just a lesbian?
could be feminist propaganda making her like that but it actually does sound like she's a faggot the way you're describing it
 
You had/have oneitis syndrome, the cure is to forget about her.
Tbh its because you didn't take no for an answer

You're on an incel forum and you sound exactly like this foid we're talking about.

The whole "you need to let go" is foid attitude. That's what she would say, in fact, has said.

You're expected to just accept being blocked without a legitimate reason why, even though you were both good. The girl acts like "If you get blocked then move on" but for what legitimate reason?? Because I asked about whether she made up with the girl that we both knew??
 
now going on 6 years
This actually makes you a stalker. At the time she said it, she was being a retarded cunt, just saying whatever to attack you. But the fact that you've kept this thread alive for 6 years is stalker shit.
 
Been there.

Done that...
 
IDK, I can't help you with that. Whenever I've "tried my luck" with girls, it has resulted in them screaming, running away and/or calling the cops. At least you had a positive interaction with a femoid at one point. I never had no shit like that.
 
Last edited:

Similar threads

LonelyATM
Replies
33
Views
1K
Slut_Annihilator298
Slut_Annihilator298
XDFLAMEBOY
Replies
27
Views
1K
XDFLAMEBOY
XDFLAMEBOY
R
Replies
19
Views
425
NeverEvenBegan
NeverEvenBegan
Lv99_BixNood
Replies
5
Views
331
Shitskin_Shitlife
S
Q
Replies
60
Views
743
Qwertyuiop99
Q

Users who are viewing this thread

shape1
shape2
shape3
shape4
shape5
shape6
Back
Top