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RageFuel Being bullied ruined my confidence

thespanishcel

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Until I was 11 years old everything was okay, I know I wasn't the most handsome boy in the world but I had friends, I was confident to talk to people and people actually liked me despite being ugly. But in middle school it all ended and it's when my inceldom begun. Some normies and chads thought it would be funny to bully me (For example they laughed at my surname, at the way I dressed, my haircut and that I liked to read comics. When I tried to defend they would hit me harder) and my confidence was slowly destroyed. So I became very shy and I couldn't make a normal conversation with anyone, it's so frustrating. Of course when talking to girls I would panic and think of rejection all time.

Don't get me wrong, if I wasn't bullied I would still be an incel because I'm ugly but at least I could talk with people easily and it wouldn't be so horrible. But no, I'm ugly and shy as fuck thanks to bullying :feelstastyman: Shycels have it the worst.
 
Life was so good until I hit 13 then everything turned out upside down and I started getting bullied when I was 15 and 16, jfl


I know perfectly how you feel.. Humanity shits on you so you turn away from it, I am in the same situation buddy :/
 
I was never bullied after 5th grade as I grew up to be real alpha and strong. Betacels on suicide watch.
 
I was relentlessly bullied at 9 and 10 for my surname, appearance and the fact that others isolated me

I was so agreeable and high inhib and was still the one who got into most fights, anyone who goes through that will never believe a just world fallacy
 
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I was never bullied after 5th grade as I grew up to be real alpha and strong. Betacels on suicide watch.

doesnt matter how alpha and strong u are stacy sluts still insulted me 24/7 whenver teacher made me work with them
 
Life was so good until I hit 13 then everything turned out upside down and I started getting bullied when I was 15 and 16, jfl
In my country (Spain) it's not so normal to be bullied in high school but in middle it's very common. So I was bullied all middle school and in high school it was a little bit better (they still laughed and mocked me but not so brutally)
 
Took me 12 fucking years to partially recover from bullying.
 
I never had confidence because I am weak & emotional. I sometimes dream about completely isolating myself from humanity. The world is a cruel place.
 
doesnt matter how alpha and strong u are stacy sluts still insulted me 24/7 whenver teacher made me work with them

This, JFL at anyone who thinks being 6'5 and/or strong af will make bullies think twice, regardless of if they are male or female they can crush you mentally
I never had confidence because I am weak & emotional. I sometimes dream about completely isolating myself from humanity. The world is a cruel place.

Were you actually bullied or just weren't as social as you wanted to be?
 
In my country (Spain) it's not so normal to be bullied in high school but in middle it's very common. So I was bullied all middle school and in high school it was a little bit better (they still laughed and mocked me but not so brutally)
Isn't Spain a chadland of latinos?
I have experienced my first bad school bullying experience is when my mum's genes took turn on my puberty and I had an unibrow, it wasn't that BAD but still unibrow is an unibrow and this fucking slut who is like 5/10 pointed her fingers to middle of her brows to her friend and started giggling.. That shit hit my self esteem very bad lul.. Girls only did verbal bullying and there was only one or two guys who bullied me and that was more physical and I felt pressured that every fucking day I thought about bringing a knife to the school and slashing his throat, I still want to slash his throat and the thing is that I couldn't do shit to them cuz they were bigger.. When girls verbally abused I couldn't say shit back and EVERY FUCKING FEMALE THAT ABUSED ME was because of LOOKS.. once unibrow, once "look at his face look at his face !" in high school, once a girl who is fucking 4/10( don't u notice that mostly sub5.5s girls bully?) said "you have nice abs but ugly face" and 5 minutes later she legit wanted to get a blowjob from my friend, he was sitting near me and she asked him for a blowjob in the open..

Now you can imagine how my self esteem is, it's fucked my dude.
Took me 12 fucking years to partially recover from bullying.
How can you recover from it? I am like 3 years post bullying, 4 soon jfl
 
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Isn't Spain a chadland of latinos?

Not really, most of spaniards are half moors so the spanish chad is very different from the latino chad lol
 
I was never bullied after 5th grade as I grew up to be real alpha and strong. Betacels on suicide watch.
Same here tbh. Maybe my looks have become a bit intimidating? Not sure, perhaps I’m just coping.
 
Hey, im spanish too. De dónde eres?

I also suffer from extreme social anxiety, but at least after 5 years of college i can control the panic.... at least i could do it years ago, when i finished my degree.
Yes, being absurdly shy while being ugly and having no social skills is like living in jail your whole life. Isolation is all i know... :feelsbadman:
 
My entire school was scared of me so I didn't get bullied much
 
Some normies and chads thought it would be funny to bully me (For example they laughed at my surname, at the way I dressed, my haircut and that I liked to read comics. When I tried to defend they would hit me harder) and my confidence was slowly destroyed. So I became very shy and I couldn't make a normal conversation with anyone, it's so frustrating. Of course when talking to girls I would panic and think of rejection all time.
As being bullied everything you literally do or say is bullied of, fucking bullies should be exterminated like the pest they are
Parents that know their child was bullied SHOULD know that their child's childhood upbringing affects them greatly in their adult life and they wonder why where did they go wrong, fucking bluepilled parents REEEEEEE :feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree:
 
confidence is useless in life anyways.

People succeed because of genes and not by their own doing.
 

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