Serious Being baited into thinking you will have someone is worse than knowing you have zero chances

[Deleted member 38086]

Now this may be considered a bait thread, I may get called Chad, a fakecel because I know how this forum operates but this needs to be said.

Most of my life I am lonely without a slight chance on the horizon to get someone. But from time to tume I will find a girl online to talk to, mosrly on badoo. I will start thinking it could be it, it may be my chance to have a gf now but itvalways ends up the same way.

Things are perfect, we click, texting is great, she looks interested for a week or two and then the same shit happens. I write something normal and she will try to turn it into an argument out of nowhere. Then it will fail for her because she will notice I kept my cool and she failed her attempt. Then there will be gaslighting, coldness and finally - ghosting.

This shit happens over and over and over again. It literally hapenned with all attempts I made and its always the same pattern and I can wholeheartedly tell it is not my fault ever.

If you are ugly, there is no winning. After time she will realize that she is Chadsexual, she will get a better option etc. And from experience I can tell you, its better to be frustrated from not seeing a light in the dark once in a while than being frustrated from this light always being taken away from you in the end.

And jfl at my (former) psychologist telling me I should make my life better by finding someone.

 

[ReconElement]

I don't care, I don't know any woman, never knew one irl or even on the internet.

 

[GhostedPhantom]

That's what I love about knowing full well that it's over - you aren't given any false hope, you aren't exploited and you aren't dragged into drama.

Was your former psychologist/psychiatrist a foid?

 

[MaxZM98]

Agreed. People criticise the blackpill by saying it's defeatist and leaves no room for hope.
In reality, this is better than clinging on to false hope.

 

[Deleted member 38086]

That's what I love about knowing full well that it's over - you aren't given any false hope, you aren't exploited and you aren't dragged into drama.

Was your former psychologist/psychiatrist a foid?

No, it was a guy. It doesn't matter they are all bluepill gaslighters.

Agreed. People criticise the blackpill by saying it's defeatist and leaves no room for hope.
In reality, this is better than clinging on to false hope.

Yep. Of course, they never ghost me when I use my Chadfish account. The convos never get cold and they want to meet on whatever day I ask them out on.

 

[Deleted member 35171]

Hope is a demonic entity, truly the unholiest of all that is evil in this wretched universe

 

[Deleted member 38086]

Hope is a demonic entity, truly unholiest of all that is evil in this wretched universe

I'ts the worst when it becomes more believeable only to be completely destroyed soon.
I fucking rage right now when I recall these situations. I can't fucking look at couples anymore whil I didn't gave a fuck before.

 

[Youthpilled]

False hope is the worst

 

[NorthernWind]

False hope is the worst

 

[Emba]

No, it was a guy. It doesn't matter they are all bluepill gaslighters.

Yep. Of course, they never ghost me when I use my Chadfish account. The convos never get cold and they want to meet on whatever day I ask them out on.

Gaslight is the worse... LEDs are better

 

[unuser]

I once got in touch with a foid on discord and she kept talking with me and I felt so good, she even voice chatted with me... then she suddenly ghosted me and I heard she was simping for the guy I used to argue with

Since then I never commited this mistake again