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I'm aware that being a Niceguy is a 0 sum game, but could someone explain exactly why it's such a big turn off for women and why women love bad boys?
 
And knowing this information, how should I behave/ interact with Foids?
 
Chad doesn't have to be nice. He can treat roasties like cum dumpsters and they will still spread their legs for him. That's why being nice signals low value to foids.
 
Chad doesn't have to be nice. He can treat roasties like cum dumpsters and they will still spread their legs for him. That's why being nice signals low value to foids.
What if Chad is nice? Hypothetically. What will happen?
 
What if Chad is nice? Hypothetically. What will happen?
Nothing. He will still be just as attractive to women. If anything, him being nice will be seen as a very positive trait. When you are a Chad, your negative personality traits are seen as positive by women.
 
What if Chad is nice? Hypothetically. What will happen?
He will still get laid of course, but roasties will think something is wrong with him and they will monkeybranch to dark triad Chad if they have the chance.
 
The classic "Women love bad boys" saying is a myth. In reality, your personaliy has very little bearing on your attractivness. The reason why you see women with bad boys is because said bad boy is good looking and thus, his terrible behaviour is forgiven.
 
The classic "Women love bad boys" saying is a myth. In reality, your personaliy has very little bearing on your attractivness. The reason why you see women with bad boys is because said bad boy is good looking and thus, his terrible behaviour is forgiven.
What'll happen if

1. A Normie tries darktriadmaxxing?
2. An incel tries darktriadmaxxing?

Basically trying to be a bad boy
 
it's because women love to be beaten and "abused" (true abuse doesn't even really exist).
 
Nice guy implies meekness and submissiveness. Being meek and submissive are bad for resource gathering from an evolutionary POV.
Foids want assertive, dominant men that will outcompete other men and bring her and her offspring resources to thrive. Being a chill nice guy is the opposite of that and counter-productive for evolutionary competition of limited resources.
And they also want that men to be handsome so that their offspring would be attractive too of course.
1. A Normie tries darktriadmaxxing?
Maybe he would betabux a Becky
2. An incel tries darktriadmaxxing?
Assraped in jail, no interest shown from females.
 
Nice guy implies meekness and submissiveness. Being meek and submissive are bad for resource gathering from an evolutionary POV.
Foids want assertive, dominant men that will outcompete other men and bring her and her offspring resources to thrive. Being a chill nice guy is the opposite of that and counter-productive for evolutionary competition of limited resources.
And they also want that men to be handsome so that their offspring would be attractive too of course.

Maybe he would betabux a Becky

Assraped in jail, no interest shown from females.
So, as an Incel, how should I behave in public? Should I try to dominate others or be submissive?
 
So, as an Incel, how should I behave in public? Should I try to dominate others or be submissive?
Don't let people walk over you but don't get into unnecessary trouble neither.
I would recommend keeping to yourself trying to deescalate if a conflict occurs.
 
I'm aware that being a Niceguy is a 0 sum game, but could someone explain exactly why it's such a big turn off for women and why women love bad boys?

cuz nice guys are usually high inhib and non assertive
back in my failed normie days, foids were more receptive to me when I was being a dick. nice guy is a loser game

nice guys are also yes man, which foids hate. will also back down quick in an arguement
gives visual signs to foids of being a weak male

deep down most foids know they don't deserve a nice guy
 
What'll happen if

1. A Normie tries darktriadmaxxing?
2. An incel tries darktriadmaxxing?

Basically trying to be a bad boy
In both cases, they're going to go to prison. Even for normies, their looks isn't enough halo.
 
Capitalism is exploitation. I need more wageslaves because China is failing me with their policy.

Rich - poor all alike, they must pay more but don’t want to. More war and starvation is the cure.

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In both cases, they're going to go to prison. Even for normies, their looks isn't enough halo.
There is a small subset of normies who can benefit from thugmaxx, tall but ugly faced ones(so called ogres)
It is essentially playing into their only strength in that scenario.
That can make them appealing enough for a Becky.
But yes it is futile jail ticket for most normies.
 
I'm aware that being a Niceguy is a 0 sum game, but could someone explain exactly why it's such a big turn off for women and why women love bad boys?

It's not, that's a fundamental misconception that pick-up artists have been making since at least the 1980's. It's actually an example of survivorship bias.

So men look at the dating market and see that a few "bad boys" have a lot of toilets, they don't really look at how the man looks simply that he's acting like an asshole, so he thinks that acting like an asshole will get him toilets.

Now niceguy Chad's are actually the highest in demand asset because most toilets actually prefer nice guys, but they're simply not attracted unattractive nice guys. Now the Chad's that aren't nice guys and do all the pumping and dumping.

Here is an example of the Disney dream life of a nice guy Chad:


View: https://youtu.be/1uMHijK-MXY


PUA's in their infinite stupidity just see the attractive assholes getting all the toilets and like a cargo cult emulate their behaviour.

Now, nice guys often get friendzoned. If you're friendzoned it means that toilets do like your personality but don't find you particularly attractive. How about unattractive bad boys? They don't get anything, these are actively seen as repulsive and toilets don't want to associate with them.

Bad boy Chad's don't get the girl because he's a bad boy, he gets the girl because he's a Chad. :blackpill::blackpill::blackpill:

This is also where the Blackpill comes from, PUA's think that becoming an asshole (personalitymaxxing) gets the toilet, we know that it's his looks.
 
The classic "Women love bad boys" saying is a myth. In reality, your personaliy has very little bearing on your attractivness. The reason why you see women with bad boys is because said bad boy is good looking and thus, his terrible behaviour is forgiven.

Plus they're the ones pumping and dumping, nice guy Chad's are loyal and if they marry a nice girl they actually have a great marriage. Meanwhile bad boy Chad is fucking material but not LTR material, so while it's easy for him to get a relationship, he's much more likely to fuck that relationship up. Though many toilets will accept an abusive Chad.

Note that toilets will NEVER accept an abusive Normie. I've seen toilets with Chad's that heavily physically abused them and keep coming back to them. Meanwhile if a Normie even as much give a backhanded compliment to a toilet their relationship is over.
 
The thing is the bluepilled propaganda says that if you aren't the most handsome guy, you can compensate being having a nice personality.
So, you can be seen as attractive by foids just by being nice to them.

Except that this is bs, that for foids (and basically for the whole soyciety) your personality = your looks, and that how you behave with foids doesn't have any impact on how they see you.
Looks > everything else :blackpill:
 
Bad boys are more attractive and confident, and whores love that combination :feelsjuice:
 
The classic "Women love bad boys" saying is a myth. In reality, your personaliy has very little bearing on your attractivness. The reason why you see women with bad boys is because said bad boy is good looking and thus, his terrible behaviour is forgiven.
 
There is a small subset of normies who can benefit from thugmaxx, tall but ugly faced ones(so called ogres)
It is essentially playing into their only strength in that scenario.
That can make them appealing enough for a Becky.
But yes it is futile jail ticket for most normies.
True, black normies can also benefit from thugmaxxing.
 
Plus they're the ones pumping and dumping, nice guy Chad's are loyal and if they marry a nice girl they actually have a great marriage. Meanwhile bad boy Chad is fucking material but not LTR material, so while it's easy for him to get a relationship, he's much more likely to fuck that relationship up. Though many toilets will accept an abusive Chad.

Note that toilets will NEVER accept an abusive Normie. I've seen toilets with Chad's that heavily physically abused them and keep coming back to them. Meanwhile if a Normie even as much give a backhanded compliment to a toilet their relationship is over.
I couldn't have said it better. Heck, there was even a (true) story of an Asian woman who gave her kidney to her White Chad boyfriend, even though her boyfriend was very abusive and even used religion to manipulate her behaviour.
 

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