Idk but whenever I became too nice, my friends betrayed me
Friendliness doesnt' get you friends.
Whoever doesn't see thigns by the lens of understanding your friend's resources/ self esteem/ pride/ personal ambitions is going to be treated shittily. Being a pushover or an oasis only has novelty inofar as they see you as necessary to their goals. People are not hungering for some friendly essence/ energy, and spreading lovelightlaughter in the universe. People have ambition and want to uprank in the primarchy.
It's not friendliness that gets you friends. It's faculty.
All is gradiented by the hierarchies of human jugment.
It doesn't show high status, there are plenty of broke and unattractive mean people. Anyone whose mean for no good reason is a faggot.
Maybe you misread "mean". I mean, not being a cranky coot kind of mean. Being the kind of mean that implies/ explicates value, and people have been degraded in relation to you. A woman isn't going to try to show her power off by taking coke needles and throwing used tampons acting like a dumb street slut. She will want to wear makeup, and have refinements most cannot have that are close to immaculateness.
This distinction should have been intuited.
it's hard to be a tyrant without willing soldiers. Being a tyrant also comes with the high probability of total annihilation
Everyone is looking at their lives like eyeing a precious piece of prey in the wild. But some don't have the power to simply take it. They need to act effacing and caring in that case. People are going to approach it meekly if they don't have the power to straightforwardly seize it.
But most people dream of not doing that. When I say "most" I mean that is the geno (genetic)
You can believe some people find goodness great for it in of itself. But if you look at how primal most human beings behave then that's not true. Most people's genuine motivation is power, especially in teh first world. Sentiment is not enough.
People look at everyhting in regards ot pwoer dynamics. Just observe what people act upon/ what people are doing under the desire/ understanding upon. It's plain sight.
It all depends on your oxytocin levels. Blacks and Middle Easterners have very low oxytocin levels (oxytocin is the "love" hormone) while Whites, especially blondes, have lots of it. It's one of the reasons why we picture Jesus as a White man with blonde or brown hair. So it really is a hormonal thing. People with high oxytocin levels would rarely or never be tyrannical when having the chance to be.
Maybe significantly less, but never? hardly.
